My friend is going to kill herself next Friday.
She seems happy about it.
I've tried to change her mind, but that didn't work.
She doesn't eat, she's an insomniac, and she is very stressed.
She's been to shrinks but she says that they were a waste of her time.
She hates her parents because she can never talk to them, I guess.
I don't know what to do.
Keep her busy so that she won't kill herself like invite her somewhere or something. Or you can find out what's exactly the problem and fix it. Also, do what the other people said.
But in my point of view, which may not be what you want to hear, is that you let her. You want her here for your own selfish reasons. You obviously don't want her to do as she wishes. Let her get out of her misery.
Plus, it REALLY sounds like she just wants attention. So don't give it to her. Or maybe you should and she'll just keep saying how she'll kill herself which she probably won't in the end.
Believe me, the ones who truly want to kill themselves don't tell other people. Well that's usually true 90% of the time..
Y'know, death is an odd thing so..
I don't know. Sorry.
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I feel like lately i've lost a lot of friends for the main point that I don't really care for the things they do... I've always felt older than I actualy am and I can't really get along with most people my age... But I have trouble making friends with older people because they don't take me seriously or give me a chance because I look like i'm a 15 year old "hooligan" i suppose ((i'm 18))... Actualy, I have trouble making friends in general. Anyway, It seems like most of my "friends" have abandoned me and that has kinda made me feel a bit down lately, but the few times i've hung out with them, I just don't feel like I belong anymore. I feel left out. Everytime I feel like I actualy belong somewhere or I feel like I fit in with a group of people, it always turns out that I don't... And it's not like I start a fight or anything of that sort... I just never feel like I belong.
Personaly, and not to sound cockey, but I like my personality and the way I am and i'm not the type to change just so I can fit in with a bunch of kids... But a part of my personality is that I like people and I just get down easily when I'm alone.
There's no direct question, Just want some opinions on any of this or advice.
Thanks.
peAce
18/f
That's kind of the same with me. Except I'm 14 and I hang out with people in college. o_o;;
Everyone says I'm too mature for my age, and yeah, it's definately true. Even all the adults I know say it x_x; It really sucks, because you just want to fit in but you can't. I mean I only know about 5 people in college, so that's about just FIVE good friends. Ever since I was little I used to hang out with older people so that's why I think I'm like this.
ANYWAY, my point is, you just have to keep trying and if you have few friends that you get along with, well it's something. I haven't really found anyone that I get along with in my entire school. It's tough, isn't it?
Ehh. If you have AIM we can talk :D Just go to my advice column and there ya go.
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All these girls in my school wear low cut shirts, and short short skirts. My school dosen't enforce the dress code at all. What bothers me is when I'm caught looking at some girl's clevage they say things like, "Hey!" I just get kinda angry because why do all these girls wear clothes like that then not like it when people stare at there ass n' stuff. I just don't get it. They get all upset when guys try to touch them and stuff. That I can understand. But they have to understand that gusy act like that becaues they dress the way they do. My question is: Why do girls dress like that, then be mad at everyone for acting the way that they do?
Well, they do it for attention. And if you're staring at them but they say "hey!" they are playing hard to get, but they do like the attention. They're just faking being upset over guys touching them (unless they're ugly guys).. So yeah.
Girls are weird =X!
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13/f
I hate myself. I look at myself in the mirror and just want to fricken cut myself, but I won't cut, thats just how I feel. I hate how I look. People are like your perfect weight, but I feel like I won't ever be pretty unless I have a completely flat stomach and muscular theighs. I just can't seam to accept myself. I've been told I'm pretty and stuff. It's just I see all these other girls with perfect hair and skin and I feel ugly! Then, I see these girls w/ all these hot guys, and it makes me feel like I'll never have that. I'm really sad. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. I don't wanna talk to my parents. I only have one friend who I would talk to but he just tells me to go see a therapist or get antidepressants. I just can't seam to feel happy. So my question is, has any girls or guys gone through this and tell me tips on how to feel better. thanks..
Ahh, I feel like that too! Well, not the cutting part, but chya.
Please don't cut yourself! It will make your skin even worse because of scars and stuff.
Plus, you're 13. You don't need a guy yet. Trust me, you don't.
If people say you're pretty then maybe they feel the way you feel about pretty people. Just take their word for it and don't give it a second thought.
Besides who are you trying to look pretty for? If a person is truly your friend then they won't care how you look, so you shouldn't worry.
Anyway, if you wanna talk on AIM or MSN just go to my advice column and my screen names are there.
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How do you put a picture from photobucket on to your myspace?? thankyaa ill rate really high ;)
On photobucket there's tags under the picture. You use the 2nd one.
Hope I helped!
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Hi, I was just wondering if anyone knew of any numbing stuff you could buy at any store. I need it for my mouth. Please Help!!! I'm in a lot of pain!
You could buy those candies for sore throats that make your tongue numb.
Hope I helped!
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ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?
thanks guys.
Lol, actually if anything were to happen, it would be yesterday 6-01-06.
616 is the real Devil's number, and all the rest is just the media. Something about them translating it wrong.
If you don't believe me, look it up on Google.
Here's a website if you don't feel like looking.
http://www.religionnewsblog.com/11134
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if i download a song on itunes can i somehow transform the song to make it Instrumental for free? and how?
No, you can't. Sorry. ;-; I've tried before and no luck..
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how many bytes and in a MB?
ill rate
Here you go.
http://webdeveloper.earthweb.com/repository/javascripts/2001/04/41291/byteconverter.htm
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i am a student. if ionce entered into internet i am unable to control myself from the sex oriented websites how to relieve from this?
I suppose you could get an internet filter for yourself..?
Search one on google.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=internet+free+filter+download
Otherwise, just look at them? I don't really see the problem, unless you have a partner who doesn't want you to or you're supposed to be doing work/homework. If so, then if you REALLY don't want to look at them, maybe go to a library. I think they have filters tehre, and if not, surely you don't want to look at that with al the people around you.
Hope I helped. o.o'
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Haha, I need someone to analyze my behaviour a bit, cause I have no clue why I do the stupid things I do.
1) Whenever I like someone, I offer to hook one of my girlfriends up with him! Wtf? O_O
2)There's this guy I like, and we've been e-mailing this whole year (since he lives on the other side of the planet haha) so for some reason I told him my computer was being taken away, by my dad, and that I couldn't keep in touch anymore, WHAT? I LIKE THIS GUY! Why in the world would make up an excuse to NOT talk to him anymore?
Let's start with that and I'll ask you the deeper stuff if I thought your advice ont his was good =) hehe, thaank you people! AND good luck with yor future "shrink" careers ;)
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Well, it seems like you don't WANT to have anything. Maybe you like suffering, except to you it's not suffering because you like it.. O.o'
Haha, very confusing. Do you do this all the time? I do very stupid things too, but not a lot.
What else? o.o
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i always get headaches and i can never enjoy myself! how can i stop a headache?
Are you sure it's not aspartame? I used to get LOTS of headaches when I ate that, and it was horrible. It's usually in soda and gum, but probably lots of other things as well.
Here's a website.
http://presidiotex.com/aspartame/Facts/Headaches_and_Aspartame/headaches_and_aspartame.html
And here's more of them if you want.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=aspartame+headaches
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Ok i have huge love handles and i have NO clue how to get rid of them...i get soo self concious sometimess. everyone says they give me curves and i understand that..but these are HUGE curves that make me look fat and im really not so pease helpp!!
Well, I know a way but I can't explain it. ;-;
So I guess this should do..
http://diet.ivillage.com/tone/thips/0,,mfq1,00.html
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I didn't really know where to put this so I put it here.
What exactly is morning wood
Rofl.
It's when a man wakes up with an erection.
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i want to loose some weight in my thighs, waist, and butt what are some things i could do to do that?
thanks for the help..
much love*
You should play DDR. It's really fun and you can have a great workout! I've lost a few pounds playing that. :)
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ok im like seriously self conscious about myself....like im about 5'4" and im 155lbs.. and i hae it.. but every sys that i look good adn stuff but i dont feel like i look good at all.... heres a picture of me.... http://www.myspace.com/ann1990marie adn im not doing this to promote my myspace either... u owuld have to go to my pics and look in there and im the one in the green dress but i dont normally look like that cuz i accually have curly hair thats down to my mid back... just that pic was taken in november... so i just wanted to kno what some people thought...
You have comments there telling you what people thought. They say you're beautiful and sexy..
So why are you asking us?
Ah well. Anyway, you're pretty.
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my friend is starting a really cool campground and music deal. what kind of advertising gets your attention and would make you go to something like it? the bands? the facilities being nice?
Well free stuff is good, like maybe a voucher or coupons or a free sample cd.. Oh, stickers too!
Hey, if the music is good, people will go.
Everything should be nice, the band as well. No snobby types, haha!
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Hey, I was just wondering, I walked 2 miles today, at a normal pace, could i have lost a pound from doing that?
No, it's very difficult to lose a pound a day by just walking two miles. You probably lost 150 calories. A pound is 3,500 calories.
Hope I helped!
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Ok,well today,i took a bath,shampoo'd and conditioned my hair,then put this serum that stops split ends.but recently (every once in a while) i've noticed my hair has been falling out.a couple of mintues ago,after my hair was dry (by the air) i put it to the side and combed through it with my fingers.i got about 10 strands of hair! i was so scared!!! my sister's hair fell out,but thats probably only because she dyed it so much.no one else in this family has had this happen!should i worry and go to the doctor,or is this normal?!
This used to happen to me, and it was because I was eating aspartame! It's usually in sugar-free or diet things, but it's also in regular things. It's mostly in gum or soda, so if you're eating that, you should stop. Check the labels of stuff you eat to see if it has that, and stop eating it and see if your condition improves after a few weeks.
Hope I helped. ^__^'
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Any other useless sites like VirtualStapler.com and Bubblewrap?
http://www.zombo.com/
LOL. Now THAT'S a useless one..
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