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i think this is considered mental health....
ok im like seriously self conscious about myself....like im about 5'4" and im 155lbs.. and i hae it.. but every sys that i look good adn stuff but i dont feel like i look good at all.... heres a picture of me.... [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) adn im not doing this to promote my myspace either... u owuld have to go to my pics and look in there and im the one in the green dress but i dont normally look like that cuz i accually have curly hair thats down to my mid back... just that pic was taken in november... so i just wanted to kno what some people thought...
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oh my god i wish i had a figure like yours, why dont you believe the comments that are put there?? your pretty and slim and i wouldnt worry about what anyone says. xx
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Other people that tell you that you are pretty is a nice compliment to have, but it's better when you actually think that you're pretty too.
You need to slow down with what other people are thinking about the way you look and focus on your own thoughts about you because that is what matters the most when it comes down to your appearance.
You also don't need to send in your picture or describe yourself in order to make people picture you in their head and tell you that you are pretty. If people were walking around calling you a liar, then you probably wouldn't be as bothered because you know deep down that you are not a liar.
When people judge you or say something about you, you have to decide for yourself whether that judgement is true or not. This is not a mental disease, this is a normal low self-esteem problem so don't convince yourself that you have a problem.
-TheTeenGirl
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I think that you are absolutely gorgeous. AND YOU NEED TO STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!!!!!!!!!! That is a major self-esteem lowerer. If you think positive and nice things about yourself, you will be a more beautiful and confident person on the inside. People like when you have confidence in yourself. Heres a trick to get you in the mood for loving yourself. Write down 10 good things about yourself 2 bad things. Then, try and fix those 2 bad things you have. And compliment the 10 good things. Hope that'll work. But really, you are stunning!!!
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You have comments there telling you what people thought. They say you're beautiful and sexy..
So why are you asking us?
Ah well. Anyway, you're pretty.
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I didn't actually look at your picture because I don't have a myspace... but anyways if you don't feel good than you don't look good. Try having a little more self confidence and try wearing make-up to make your self feel prettier. Self-confidence usually goes down in girls when they hit puberty so don't worry, a lot of girls feel this way about themselves.
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