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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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advice

Ok. There is this boy that i liked for over a year. i met him when i moved here from flordia. And we became friends right away! and we were kindof going out or whatever. We were getting really close untill i had to move again and we talk on the phone everynight and talk about how much we miss eachother. and he tells me all the time that i will make a perfect wife. Ok know here is where the bad news comes from Im moving back to florida and he is really upset he thinks that i will find someone hotter than him and never come back to see him and just forget about him or something. Ok my question is do you think that we will still talk and maybe work out a relationship together??? Or will we slowly fade away from each other??? ~~~~~~I RATE HIGH~~~~~~~~

well just try and keep in touch call him every day and talk to him about how things are going im sure it will work out just fine! well thats all the advice i can give ya sry its not a lot! well if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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what should a girl get for her boyfriend for valentines day?

Hmmm.... there are so many different things you could get him! like.... a cd he likes or a band T if he iz into that! or like wat im doin for my bf i wrote him a poem about all my feelings for him and gut a picture frame and decorated and and put a picture of myself in it! or you could like make him somethign really sweet that is coming rom the heart im sure wat ever you do he will love it any ways!!! oh yea you definately gutta get him some candy they love candy!!! lol well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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hi! me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a long time...almost a year off and on and we hve been hving many troubles throught out the whole year..one of the ones that i brought on was that i cheated on him once and then we ended up goin bak out..then i figured out that my bf kissed another grl over the summer that he swore that they wer jus friends...we wernt together wen they kissed but its jus the fact that he always swore and she was one of my good friends...me and that girl dont tlk anymore. and another lie i jus heard about was that a new grl at our skewl likes him [already knew that] but he swore he didnt like her but i jus found out he TOLD her he liked her..i know these things r both true for a fact and then the girl he kissed over the summer he swore he would never go to her house nemore but i kno he has been there...i like him alot and i dont kno wut to do alot of my friends r jus sayin brk up with him but idk if i could...HELP!

You oviously dont need him in your life if he keeps cheatin and lyin a relationship is about trusting each other and it seems like you really arnt trusting him to much! im sure you could find someone who will treat you right and actually deserve you in there lives you kno! well do wat you feel is right! i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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okay my b/f is really into me... like he says that i am his world and he's always saying how much he adores me... well the problem is he has a bad past. he slept around alot and i'm not into that. he knew from the start - before we even started dating - that i'm a proud virgin. he is cool with that but when we are in public, ike at the mall or something, he cant keep his hands off me. it's really embarrasing and i dont know how to react. how can i confront him about this??? Please Help!!

Just be like i dont feel comfortable with you being so touchy touchy feely feely with me in public places! im just not into it! just tell him how you feel about the whole situation and im sure he will understand if he tells you he adores you and cares about you! he should care how you feel and if you are comfortable with wat he does or not! well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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What Should I get My Boyfriend For Valentines Day??....He's 14 and He Has Just About Every Cologne Made!...Because thats what I was going to get him..He is a Skateboarder...umm..thats about it...What Should I Get Him??

Well........you dotn always have to get him something you can make him something like from the heart! and im sure he will love anything you get for him! you could also get him like a CD or a band T that he might like!!! and candy of course you have to get him cany!!! well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*


-Caitlin

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(14/f)

i have a friend (thing is, she's a chick) and i am starting to have.. well.. feelings for her?.. as more than just a friend. i guess you can say we're best friends although we're REALLY different.. and idk. she's helped me get through so many things (like anorexia, cutting, suicide attempts, etc) and i really care about her..

basically i just don't wanna scare her off if you know what i'm saying.. i'm sooo sick of guys and how they're so oblivious to emotions and i guess i just wanna experiment with a qirl for once.. and ehh.. i just don't know. i get butterflies in my tummy whenever we talk and its just getting soo akward. what can i do?? and i *DO* rate.

Well just talk to her and tell her your feelings for her...and then see how she feels about you i mean just tell her everything and im sure she will understand wat your feeling... for your sake i hope that she may have feelings back! well i dno wat else to say but just be straight forward with her and dont hold anything back! well i hope i helped good luck! if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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i'm 13,female, my boyfriend is 15 and I don't know what to get him for valentines day and he says it's up to me on were we go that day. I want to no on what i could get him and were do you think would be the best places/place to go.

Ok well im sure you could get him anything and he would love it! you could get him cologne, a CD he wants.......or you could make him a cute little something from the heart like get a picture frame and put a picture of you and him in it or just you! you should make something and maybe buy something cuz i think it means more to them when you make it from the heart! and to go somewhere you could go out to a nice resteraunt like the Olive Garden...mmm... sounds good to me! or like you can go to see a nice movie togetha what ever you do i hope you have a nice time! well hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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(16/f) what do/can you get your b/f for valentines day?

You could get him candy and a teddy bear or make him a card from the heart lol! or just stuff he would like! hope i helped if you need anything else just ask*

-Caitlin

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Hi i like your site
My bf and i are 16 and we love each other a lot
and we have talked about having sex his penis is not that big its about 3.5 inches long hes a bit insecure about it the size doesn't matter to me i love him but hes a bit shy about it what can i do?
And are there certain positions better for a smaller penis that we could use?






Um..... just tell him you don't love him for his penis you love him for him! and no i dont kno any positions because i'm a virgin and wouldn't kno that so........yea hope i helped if you need anythng else just ask*

-Caitlin

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what should i do to get abs? i mean, im very skinny, but i just want to tone my stomach. what is the quickest and most effective way for me to accomplish this? please be specific. thanks

You can do crunches and sit ups you can also do leg lifts because you need to use your stomach muscles to lift your legs so it works out your stomach a lot. well hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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How can you get rid of hickeys. and if you cant, how long does it usually take for them to go away?

What you do is take a brush and like (this kinda sounds dumb but) you like scratch it or brush where the hickey is then you take a cold spoon and put it on it and that should make it go away! if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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ok is it weird for girls to bite guys lips? cuz usually guys bite mine but iv never bitten theirs... and what about running my tongue across my bfs teeth when were making out? my firend told me thats good but i dont know... please help ill rate hi and if u guys have any other ideas please tell me!

Well i guess you can do wat ever you want there iz really no wrong way to make out with your bf i mean just do wat you both like just play around and test stuff out! hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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I have a very plain face. I have a brownish/blondish hair color,thick and long hair, greenish eyes, and okay lips. I hate how I look and I want to change. Im allowed to wear make up but I just cant find the right kind. Any suggestion? Just ask if you want to see a pic.

well it depends on what you look like if i see a pic it may be more helpful in giving you suggestions for make up!


-Caitlin

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should i have sex wit my boy friend i am 18 years old should i

Well i mean your 18 years old and if you have been with him for a while and you feel comfortable having sex with him then go right ahead no ones stopping you! well hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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hey ok..please help me on this...ok..there is this guy right?? yeah he is my neighbor and he is 2 years older than me. But i dont see why?? i mean he said that it would be weird if we went out or did anything because we are neighbors...i dont get it. what should i do?? i mean i hang out with him when my friend is over but he flirts with her. (kind of) i might be imagining it. but i think about him ALL THE TIME. i cry alot too i just need help BIG TIME...WHAT DO I DO>?!?!?!?
thanks
confused girl
I NEED HELP!

Juts sit down and talk with him tell him how you feel about him and see if he feels the same way and if he doesnt then you guyz could always be friends but i dont see why it would be weird i mean if you go out then u can like see each otha when evre cuz he iz right next door you kno wat i mean! well i hope everything works out if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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Okay, my period is coming every 2 weeks now, like it will end at 2 weeks later it will start again..is that normal or should I be worried that I'm pregnant..b.c I read that pregnant people get 'spotting'. But my periods are like 5 days and heavy..please explain

Well you would only have to worry if you are pregnant if you had unprotected sex, but i would just recommend goin to the doctors, your period probably isnt regular yet! hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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ok ive been asking questions about my boyfriend...like me not thinking he cared about me and stuff well yesterday i passed out and couldnt breathe and i think it scared him and i think he relized how much he loves now that it happend to me...he is constantly telling me how much he loves me and how much he needs me...
do you think that becasue of what happend hes relizing how muhc he loves and cares about me???
thanks a bunch!
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Yes, he is relizing that he really does love you and care and losing you would be horrible for him thats probably what happened because when you past out and what not he prolly became scared of losing you and now every chance he gets he says i love you..... if you need anything ust ask*

-Caitlin

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Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks

You are doing the right thing you should be like why the fuck you saying mean shyt like that how would you like it if i said something like that about you or one of your friends. Then if she gives you any shit i would recommend whoopin her stupid ass. Hope i helped if you need any thing just ask*

-Caitlin

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Doe size matter? im 15 and my penis is quite small and im worried what my girlfriend will think
will it matter?

OMG........... No it doesnt matter how big or small your dick is thats not the reason why she is going out with you and i'm sure some one wouldnt dump you because you have a small dick so dont worry about it it will grow sooner or later! hope i helped if you need anything juss ask*

-Caitlin

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im 15 and have been with my bf for about 5 months
his penis is not real big almost 4 inches long
hes a bit insecure about it i love him and i don't want to make him feel bad what should i do?

Well just be like it duznt matter how big you are i mean i'm sure thats not the reason why you are goin out with him you just say it will grow when it grows thats what i say to my bf about my boobs i say dont worry they will grow sooner or later so its no biggy i mean i'm sure not a lot of people see his dick any ways so just say you dont care how big it and thats not the reason why you are goin out wid him in the first place its just a size......... well i hope i helped if you need anything juss ask*

-Caitlin

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