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Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks
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OK, there are several sides to this problem.
1) Did her grandma suffer from cancer or stroke or was she lingering and suffering? In that case, your friend might have been happy that she was at peace.
2) Saying she was glad her gram died might be a coverup for how she was really feeling. She just might be one of those who would prefer to keep her pain and hurt to herself.
I remember when my grandmother died and I asked my sister how she felt. She said she wasn't going to cry anymore because she was already over it and she could get on with her life. I was totally shocked because it sounded so heartless, but we all deal with things differently. Personally, I felt like slapping her. I'm not condoning what your friend said, I'm just pointing out that there might be something deeper than just what she said.
If you feel you should ask her about it, by all means do so, BUT DO IT GENTLY. You might get a reaction you wouldn't expect -- be careful. Kudos for your concern.
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hell yeah your doing the right thing! how dare she say that about your best friend. id kick her ass if she said a word about my friend. and does wtf mean what the fuck?
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i think your doing the right thing, this girl thats goin around sdaying how happy she is should look at it from your point of veiw and c what she wold say, all and all, she sounds like a bitch you shouldn't waste your energy on
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Hell yea your doing the right thing.. next time that girl makes a crack beat her face in with a bat for me. It's people like that that should be beat to a bloody pulp. If that was my friend I would be all over her and I would tell the other friend to fuck off because friends are like sisters.. or at least to me..
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yeah well tell your friend that i sorry that her gramother died but i think you should tell her then she wont get mad at you when she finds out you didnt tell her and it would huirt her more if you lied to her so tell her the truth!
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well that happens when people die they keep the sadness inside of them and they act like it doesnt matter!! or maybe her grandmother was a very mean woman and was cruel.. give her time and be there for her!! umm i hope i helped xOx jiLl
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you're just depressed because you need more sex.
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-hitler the goat
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You are doing the right thing you should be like why the fuck you saying mean shyt like that how would you like it if i said something like that about you or one of your friends. Then if she gives you any shit i would recommend whoopin her stupid ass. Hope i helped if you need any thing just ask*
-Caitlin
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Ya, I think that was a very nice thing of you to do! No one should talk like that about someone who died! that is very rude! you are a good friend! I would be kinda dissapointed in your friend if she doesnt think it was a good thing..lol =) ♥Andie
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TO:(anonymous)
...this is your friends problem... i mean like im not sayin yoo shouldnt hab been upset fer her doing thah to her gramma (that is a prtty awful thing to do) buh yoo cant ezactly butt into her bizness...the flippin wadnt a bad thing...it was a natural reaction so just chill about it... yor frend is prolly just coverin upp how upset she was with the "im glad my gramm died" act... i noe that sounds kinda stoopid buh possibly... just gib her time to get ova the hole thing...ya noe?
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i wouldve done the EXACT same thing. people might think you should butt-out, but its your best friend. you should ALWAYS help a friend in need :). Please rate! Hope I helped!
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