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when i masturbate i just rub down there really fast and it feels so good and my body [inner thighs mostly] get tight and i want to lift up my body. is this right? what else can i do? how do i orgasm without fingering myself? (link)
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It's possible to orgasm without fingering yourself, even rubbing will do the trick. Just expirment.
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So. I know gross but i think it is safe to say this is mostly populated with girls so you all in some way sometime in your life come into a problem simular to this.
So my boyfriend and I have been sexual active for 6 months and a month ago we stopped using condoms because it was comfortable for either him and or i. Sex without a condom was much more comfortable for both him and i. But I do not recomend it to anyone, use protection...Anyways after the first time we did that I got a urinary track infection, which i didnt go to the doctors for because it wasnt life threatning or anything. Anyways after a couple days it got worse, i was getting white discharge all the time when i used the rest room or when i was just walking around i felt leaking...about two weeks later it got worse, i was ichty down there every once and awhile and the white discharge increased and it started to get an oder. Well I douched and started taking care of myself as much as I could and it went away. While having the UTI i was still having sex but it didnt seem to bother it. Well today after intercourse he noticed thick white discharge on him and I on me. I smelled it but it didnt really have an oder at all and I was very confused, so i went to the restroom and whipped and noticed spotting of blood im suppose to start my period tomorrow so i just wrote it off to that and put a tampon in but when i took it out, it was completly dry not one thing on it. Well later last night we had sex again, but the thing is I orgasmed more than the first but I didnt have the thick white discharge this time...I thought that was kind of weird.
See I was thinking could it be, because we are having sex without a comdom and my body is just getting use to it. Or is it what my boyfriend said...that we dont have lube so he was rubbing me too much and maybe tearing me a little and that could be the reason but I dont know how it could be...
Im very confused. Please dont tell me to go see a doctor i cant afford to no health insurance and Im just wondering if it should be something to be totally freaked out on?
if you have any advice let me know. i will rate you very high...thank you for your time have a great day...and sorry if this grossed you out. (link)
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Wow, I have like the same situation. Except I have only been sexually active with my boyfriend since late September. But I got the discharge alot too! Then I didn't get as much, and I had the little bleeding too. But I got my period the next day. Who knows? Sorry I wasn't much helped I'm just trying to let you know you're not alone.
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Hey I just had a smoke for the first time and like I smoked the entire thing (inhaling it) and I was fine but with the last two puffs, I felt it go down and then I was like light-headed for a bit.
I'm never going to do it again but is the light-headedness normal and how come it only happened at the last two hits? (link)
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From what I hear, that's a nicotine high.
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ok well muh ex bf juss broke up with me last night. we went out for 3 weeks but we been talkin since da first week of school. and we talked a lot PRETTY much every night n in school. after he broke up with me i cried for about 20 min or so but now i dont really care dat we're not together or do I? bcuz da nite he broke up with me he went out n he was talking to this girl but she thinks hes just cute thats all they know each other bout 5 yrs now. but im so jelous EVEN THOUGHT THEY R JUS FRIENDS. im reali upset dat me n him wont talk as much anymore. i have to see him at school and same lunch table AUGH! BUT EVEN though it seems i have a lot of feelings for him still BUT I DONT! so do u think im right for being jelous and what should i do if he stops talking to me as much? (link)
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You could either be wanting him back and your mind is just not letting you admit that or you just miss what you and him had together and you're going to miss the routine of talking every night. And yeah, you're going to be jealous. That's how things work. Even if they're just friends, you are totally normal to have some jealousy. And yeah, you guys might stop talking as much. That's bound to happen when two people break up. But spend that time to find another person to invest your time in. Best of luck!
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Ok this is going to be sorta long so if your not ging to read it all then dont read it! Ill rate a 5 to whoever deserves it!
Ok so heres my tale......
One month ago today was the greatest day of my life my x boyfriend asked me out and I said yes! well heres how I met him
I am in R.O.T.C. and so is he Im a freshman hes a senior. Well I went to do colorguard and hes colorguard commander and he said I was hot asked me out and I turned him down. Well 2 weeks later I noticed he was hot and sweet and was destinded to be with me! well on thursday the 27 of September there was a dance and I asked him to meet me there at the school. He shows up 2 hrs late with this grl and I thought it was his sister. He leaves after like 45 minutes and when he comes to hug me he looks at me and I wouldnt let go. Well eventually I did
Well that frieday I went to colorguard to see him present the colors for the football game. after he did I ran down the bleechers w/ my friend so I ciould go see him. Well when I finally got down and he came back from the R.O.T.C. room I saw him leave.... with the girl from the dance AMANDA!! They were holding hands so I assume they were datimg blah blah blah I cried got over it the next day and went to the campus clean up. That Sunday I went to church and saw him in the morning bc I went out to eat and he was worknig. WellI acted asd if I didnt know him. That night my mom decides to go get some food from there and he wasstill working. My sister recognized him and she started to tslk to ihm. My mom went up to him gave him my # and told him to call me that night to make me fel better. He did and all he did was ay I like you and I will eventually go out with you but Amanda this and AMANDA that. So I said whatever and sucked it all up. Well later On thursday 06 he asked me out after drill practice. I said yes duh! So everything was great until the friday befor Halloween. We never ever got to pend time alone latly bc my mom and my sis or his mom and his bro were always in his room. Well finally we were alone and my mom calls to pick me up an hr early. H alloween come we go trick or treating w/ my sis and his bro and were mad bc we have to kkep going and cant be alone. Mymom come to pick us all up and we go back to his house. 15 min later my mom takes me home. Then tuesday it started to get weird
Tuesday AMANDA'S great great grandmother died and he went to the funeral he didnt call me at all and was w/ AMANDA and I trust him but not when he doesnt call. So Wedndsay comes and he doesnt call me at all. He told me he went to Karate and then to church and didnt get home till 10. So I belived him. Funny though that AMANDA goes to the same church. Thursday is when it got really bad. He was acting all distant at school and said he was skipping school Friday. Well Thursday we disdnt talk at all after school and he said he was to sick to talk. Friday he doesnt come to school so I call him after. He picks up and I asked him about his day well he went and me up w. AMANDA and a buch of other friends and he said hes in a depression to where he wanted to break up w/ me but didnt. So we hung up I cried blah blah blah. Yesterday I tried to call him but he was at soccer tournaments so no pick up. Well I went to my sisters first soccer game and say 3 of my friends there who saw Dustin earlier. They sad him and AMANDA have been really close latly. So I was so pissed that we left and I drove over to his house to gobreak up w/ him for cheating plus his bro thold me too. Well when I got there AMANDA'S car was there his lights were off so I knocked as hard as I colud he finaly came out and I broke up with him and me and my mom left. I said so much and dont talke anybacck. But what sux is that I love him sooo bad and I just dont know how to get over him. He tried to tell me he wasnt cheating and all and school is tomorrow and I have to sse him and I dont know how Im gonig to hold up whrn i odp see him! So I really want to hear your oppinion and tell me should I trey and listen if he talks to me should I talk to ihm? What sholud I do? What really gets me is she treats him like crap and she breaks up w/ him and he had it soo good w/ me my fam loved hima nd I was always happy and now Isee him like everperiod bc he used to trat me so well and I dont know how to move on so IDK if this is really asknig for advice just more of an opinion on what to do you know . Well I had to tell someone so It would stop bothering me. Thanks to whoever is going to actually reafd this
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Bianca (link)
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I can see where you would get annoyed with the Amanda stuff. But since I don't know how long they were actually together, I can't help you out much. It's respectful of him to go to her relative's funeral, and although I would have been pissed too if he didn't call me that day, just think how Amanda would feel if he called his girlfriend on her day of mourning? Amanda needs people to have feelings for her since she just went through this loss.
Anywho, I think you should definitley talk to him if he approaches you. Hear his side of things, and take that wherever it goes. Just go into the conversation with a good attitude and don't shoot down everything he says. Best of luck!
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I feel numb. I can get out of bed, go to work, joke with people, do things I love, and still feel this way. I just can't seem to shake it off. I feel hollow inside, and I don't really know WHY.
Sometimes I only sleep 2-3 hours a night. Other nights I sleep 12-13 hours. I also do not eat properly anymore, even on my good days. Some days I'll just eat an apple for breakfast/lunch and about 1/3 of my dinner. I just don't feel hungry. But even when I am starving, I fix up a big meal and try to put the food in my mouth, but I have to stop because it makes me feel like vomiting. Believe me, I fix meals every day and try to eat snacks but most of it ends up in the trash or back in the fridge. I don't think I am fat, in fact, I think I am too skinny and wouldn't mind some curves on my body. I think maybe my mind is in such anguish that it wants the body to suffer too.
Please don't be like... just eat something!!! Just be happy!!! Believe me, I TRY. It's not as easy as some people think. I have been down the road of counselling (no help) and meds(made me act ADD) for depression before, but this feeling seems different to me. Just numbness, not really saddness/pain/hopelessness like the depression I felt in the past (about 3 years ago). (link)
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Sweetie, I don't really know how to help. I'm writing this though to tell you this. You CAN get through this. If you got through your depression before, you will get through this numbness too. It's all in your mind. Best of luck!
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Hello, I'm a 16 year old female, looking into a Liquid Diet. I'm 5'6 and 150 pounds.
I was wondering if anyone knew any good liquid diets that worked fast and effiecent, also how much it costs and where I would be able to find them.
Also if anyone tried them and had side effects.
Thank you
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Liquid diets are fucking stupid. I don't even care if I get reported, I'd rather you knew the blunt truth. In health class our teacher asked for two types of risky diets. Liquid diets was the first one. They don't work, and they're very dangerous. A little bit of exersise and cutting down on eating portions mixed with a little bit of the right foods will work a hell of alot better and without the nasty side effects.
Plus, 5'6" and 150 is hardly a reason to diet. And if you really feel the need to, go on a HEALTHY DIET.
Sorry for the bluntness, but today has not been a great day.
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Do any other girls have a list of qualities that they want in a potential boyfriend? I have a list of about 20 things that I want a guy to have before I date him.
For example, he must be a non-smoker, have a good job, live on his own, be neat in appearance, have a vehicle, and no children from a previous relationship. These are just some of the things. I had one guy ask me out but because he lived with his mother and smoked I turned him down. Another guy asked me out and he had a 5 year old daughter, so I turned him down to. Some people say I being too picky, well I tell them I just have high standards.
Part of the reason for this is because my last boyfriend was a total loser. He was on welfare, he didnt have a car or a license, he was dirty, he smoked, and was financially and mentally abusive to me.
Do any other woman have high standards? And do you think I'm being too picky? Also do you think I'm scared of being hurt again so that is why I strive so high, and subconsiously I'm doing this so I won't have a boyfriend again? (link)
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It's fine to have high standards, but think about this. By passing up a guy just because he smokes, or some other aspect that goes against your list, you could be passing up the love of your life. And just because certain guys meet these qualities doesn't mean that things will work out.
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I have a boyfriend but he cant stop crying because he wants to see me, i liek him alot but like hes more emotional then me!
what do i do? (link)
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If you like him as much as you say you do you will deal with it, crying and all. He's crying because he misses being with you. What is wrong with that?
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Well, I'm getting my Cell Phone in about 22 days.
Anyways, I was wondering:
1. Are camera phones good? I mean do they take good pictures?
2. Which is better: Flip-phone or hand-held?
3. How do you get ringtones? Like not the pre-set ones but ones that are actual songs that are like on the radio and stuff.
Thanks! (link)
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1. I have a Motorola V551 camera phone and it takes pretty good pictures, depending on the light. And you have to make sure to keep the camera lense clean. But in general, I love having a camera phone because sometimes it's nice to remember stuff and when you don't have a regular camera there a camera phone is the next best thing.
2. I like flip phones better. It's cool to be able to flip open your phone to answer and flip it closed to hang up instead of having to press a button everytime. Plus, I just think they are all-around better looking than handheld phones.
3. I have Cingular so I just go to the Ringtones & Graphics section of Cingular.com to download mine. But there's alot of sites you can use to download ringtones, just search Google for "music ringtones" and I bet you will get alot of results.
Good luck and have fun!
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Sooo along time ago i like this boy jack a whollle lot!!! And now... a year later... me and him started going out.... I dont do any drugs or smoke or anything. Andi knew he smoked cigs.. but i can deal...and then i find out he smokes weed.... once again i can deal...just as long as he dont do it around me. But now im seeing that hes a lil too obsessed with weed ...and now i find out he does dip. I DONT WANNA KISS THAT!!
I really loves him and ive waited so long for this , but the dip and stuff crossed the line .... I dont know if i wanna break up with him, cus i love him ...but it seems a little out of control. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Breaking up with him is really not the answer here. If you love him be willing to talk to him about all of this and tell him your point of view. If he acts like a total ass about it then it is up to you. He may be your boyfriend but you can't change him unless he wants to.
Oh, and my boyfriend chews and honestly, it's really not all that nasty to kiss him. Just don't totally go at it when he has chew in his mouth. It's really not that bad.
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kay..well i hve a boyfriend that im COMPLETELY in love with...we've been together for half a year...and i couldnt be happier...except..i cant stop thinking about my ex. my ex broke my heart so many times...and i was so in lov with him...i didnt get over him for two and a half years..and i gues im still not over him...he flirts w/ me alot..and talks about our pass and says he misses me..and i miss him too. i dont kno what to do...i absolutely cannot make myself stop thinking about him...i cant beleeve i miss him so much..i think i still love him..after all, he was my first love..and i kno its normal to never forget your first love..but this is different...i think i still love him..and i HATE it..i feel so horrible..please help..
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You cannot be completely in love with your current boyfriend until you let go of your ex. And if you can't do that, then maybe you should consider your options.
Your ex broke your heart. Yes, while you were in love, and think you might still be, why throw away a totally good relationship to something that might end up the same way it did in the past? There will ALWAYS still be a part of you that loves him. Always. You just need to figure out if it's worth giving up what you've got now to find out if it will work. I wouldn't give up a 6 month relationship for an old flame, but like someone else said, weigh the pros and the cons.
Good luck!
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What's wrong with me?
My parents think I'm strange and that I have something weird going on with me. "I have weird habits and a weird way of thinking."
Habits as in...counting the number of cracks I've stepped on, the times i circle around something, the seconds im in somewhere and if its not under a certain time then i..feel the need to start over..and then im yelled at when im still doing it ...I dunno. People think I'm retarded X___x I didn't notice that i was doing this stuff... i just do it because...its what i've always been doing..then people pointed it out. Its like ringing the doorbell a couple of times..before entering because..its just..there. I always think about something. I'm afraid of pain. I'm afraid to do P.E. in class. I'm afraid of running..tripping and landing on the ground..seeing blood or having my arm bend the wrong way or having my fingers crushed or having those bent the wrong way. It makes me sick. I don't want to twist my ankle or have a ball hit my face..because it might hit my ear piercings and those might rip out and hurt. I've got glue on eyelashes and I've just recently thought..what if i get the glue in my eye? My eyes will start to water and then i might get eye problems...might have to go see a doctor...and then i get awful images.. I dunno. I always worry a lot. Also.. my little sister was going across the street to a friends house...in my head I heard a loud crash..and had images of her lying in the street covered in blood and...blah. My boyfriend had this safety pin in his mouth...and it was open and for about 20 mins..he was talking with it still in his mouth..and all i could think about is.. what would happen if it cut him...or if he swallowed it and it got stuck..and i couldn't do a thing about it because there was no adult around.. argh. Am I stupid? (link)
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I totally know what you mean. I always replay situations in my head and I'm like what-if this happened then what-if that then this and that and all over again. I'm paranoid about the dumbest things. My remote control has to be facing a certain way or else I feel like something bad will happen. Same way with my cell phone. It's weird, but just know you're not alone!
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months but have been friends for 5 years. Even though were young weve been discusing marriage because of the amazing bond we have. Just recently we started having sex. I wouldnt know any other kind of sex but to me it seems really hardcore and more about the sex than the love. Weve never done any oral, but he told me this morning before he went to his am classes that when he comes home he is going to give me the best sex I ever had. He left a note saying this along with little clues about "tonight". This has really been grossing me out and concerning me because he said ... "My fingers will be up there along with my tongue,baby"!!! I dont now whatt to do because Im still new to te sex scene and those words coming fom him shock me!!
HELP!! (link)
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If you feel comfortable discussing marriage with this guy then you should feel comfortable discussing sex. Just ask him what's up. I mean, I know when I talk about sex with my boyfriend I'm alot different than my normal self but if he says something that grosses me out or makes me feel uncomfortable then I can just tell him about it. It will most likely make you guys closer. Just ask him what's going on. Good luck!
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whenever im home alone, or even at school with other people, i constantly act as if im being watched. if that makes sense. and at night while im laying in bed i pretend as if im somewhere else and that im not mearly a student, but that im a secret agent hiding out for the night, or that ive been evacuated from the state because i know too much and im in the white house. im 18 years old..wtf is wrong with me? what do i do?(female) (link)
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You could find a way to channel your unique creativity and hopefully that will tone things down a bit. Possibly write about it or something. So you don't keep it all bottled up inside.
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This is probably a dumb question but so be it.
This evening, my left wrist is swollen on the outside, very painful to the touch, and slightly painful from movement. I don't remember falling on it, hitting it, or anything that might cause it to act this way, I honestly don't.
Has anybody ever had this happen to them/have half a clue as to what it might be? Also, is there anything I can do to reduce the pain and swelling? (Ice doesn't seem to be doing the trick) (link)
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You could have hit it sleeping or not even realize that you did something to injure it. Or maybe it's possibly a bite of some sort? I'm not sure, but I'd say if it's not better in the morning, see a doctor ASAP.
Also, this is from webmd.com. You can check these links out if you like.
http://my.webmd.com/hw/joint_problems/aa3204.asp?navbar=aa3102
http://my.webmd.com/hw/joint_problems/aa3233.asp?navbar=aa3102
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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what? (link)
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I saw this quote online...
"They say hate is such a strong word. So is love, but people just throw it around like it's nothing."
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Ok, I've liked the same guy for 3 years now. He just broke up with his girlfriend. I was so relieved, but now he has ANOTHER girlfriend and it's only one day later! AH! It hurts so bad because we've been friends so long & I guess he's just not seeing me in that way. I've droped thousands of hints, but he hasn't been picking them up. What I want to know is..he just recently got AIM (so he could talk 2 his last g/f) He kept it & IMs me whenever I'm on. I love that he IMs me, but he talks to me about how much he likes his new girlfriend and it agrivates the crap outta me! How do I get him to stop talking about her without hurting his feelings?
*Undeniably Unwanted* (link)
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Just ask him to please stop because you want to get to know him, not about his relationship. He sounds like a guy that would understand.
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k, here is the worst moment of my entire life. it is something I would say every single girl dreads happening. I was about 13 and was at the local six flags water park, my best friend and I were hanging out with some guys we liked and the day was going pretty good. all of a sudden the guy I was crushing on (steve) turns to me and is like "hey! do you wanna go down the intertube slides with me?" I was so excited I jumped right off but as I stood my best friend was like "omg turn around" so I turned and looked and she mouthed "blood" to me... see I was on my period, I thought I was gonna be fine I had changed like 2 hours ago but I guess not cuz my whole frickin butt was covered in blood! I was embarassed, but luckily the guys were cool with it they said "oh its okay, we understand-just go change and then we'll head out" so I quickly wrapped a towel round me and headed off to the bathroom. as im walking away I hear steve go "huh, I have chew on my arm.." (all the guys chewed, which now I realize is totally disgusting, I don't know why I was even wasting my time) anyways one of the other guys go "dude that's not chew that's her blood!!!" steve freaked and ran into a pool to wash it off, I think I hid in the bathroom for an hour, until my friend came and got me telling me that the boys had leave and that we should go. I was mortified, that is something a teenage girl should never have to go through!
How do i get over this.... i mean theses guy r very judgmentally wat can i tell them to not make fun of me??? I dont ever want to see theses guys again im 'scared' to confrint themill rate 5!!!! (link)
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As hard as it will be, act like nothing happened. Maybe they will, in time, forget it too. They have to realize that it happens to every girl.
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kayy well i was going out with a really cool guy and this girl that used to be my best friend asked him out when we just broke up and she told him she asked me that it was ok to go out with him but she never asked me. so im really mad at her. but now the guy wants to go out with me again but he doesnt like to say no to people like the other girl but i hate her now so i feel like getting back at her so this is the best thing i can think of. is it ok??? (link)
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No, it's not okay. If you still like the guy, great, go for it. But if you are just doing this to get back at her (and be honest with yourself) then just move on and put your time into someone you really wanna be with.
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