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my period at the water park (sorry its long)
k, here is the worst moment of my entire life. it is something I would say every single girl dreads happening. I was about 13 and was at the local six flags water park, my best friend and I were hanging out with some guys we liked and the day was going pretty good. all of a sudden the guy I was crushing on (steve) turns to me and is like "hey! do you wanna go down the intertube slides with me?" I was so excited I jumped right off but as I stood my best friend was like "omg turn around" so I turned and looked and she mouthed "blood" to me... see I was on my period, I thought I was gonna be fine I had changed like 2 hours ago but I guess not cuz my whole frickin butt was covered in blood! I was embarassed, but luckily the guys were cool with it they said "oh its okay, we understand-just go change and then we'll head out" so I quickly wrapped a towel round me and headed off to the bathroom. as im walking away I hear steve go "huh, I have chew on my arm.." (all the guys chewed, which now I realize is totally disgusting, I don't know why I was even wasting my time) anyways one of the other guys go "dude that's not chew that's her blood!!!" steve freaked and ran into a pool to wash it off, I think I hid in the bathroom for an hour, until my friend came and got me telling me that the boys had leave and that we should go. I was mortified, that is something a teenage girl should never have to go through!
How do i get over this.... i mean theses guy r very judgmentally wat can i tell them to not make fun of me??? I dont ever want to see theses guys again im 'scared' to confrint themill rate 5!!!!
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As hard as it will be, act like nothing happened. Maybe they will, in time, forget it too. They have to realize that it happens to every girl.
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EEK! Wow that is embarrassing. Guys are like that though. He probably didnt even care that much, but he couldnt have just been like "oh. ok I should probaaly wipe that off now" in front of his friends, he HAD to freak out. I cant say HOW i know this, but guys dont care that much about getting period stuff on their hands. lol.
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I am so sorry that you had to go through that, I can't even begin to imagine how I'd get over it. Its not one of those situations where you can just not care what other people think, this is truly hard to deal with. But, I will share a thought I had as I was reading your story. Let me take these sentences out for you that stood out the most.
My best friend was like "omg turn around" so I turned and looked and she mouthed "blood" to me
My friend came and got me telling me that the boys had leave and that we should go.
This is what stood out. You were in a crowd of immature boys and your best friend, and when something bad happened, your friend immediatly helped you when something bad happened, and she knew you'd get made fun of and be really hurt if she didn't say something, and she did. You have a really good friend, I think thats what needs to be your focus on this situation, or at least try. I'm not asking you to get over this now, I'm saying that when you feel bad about this everytime you think of it, just think about how good your best friend was to you, and that those guys are just really bad kind of people for laughing, they obviously have no respect for other's feelings and soon they'll get kicked right back. When these guys try to make fun of you, just don't say anything and keep doing what you're doing, and just walk away like you heard nothing, or a sign that says, "I don't wanna hear it." You don't have to actually face them, they hurt you, you can ignore them.
-TheTeenGirl
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it's ok. you said yourself that you dont know why you were hanging out w/ them. so if anybody else confronts you about it, just laugh and say it happens to the best of us(b/c it does). you dont need to confront the other boys, seeing as you said yourself that they were a waste of time. you kina answered your own question, but i hope this helped!
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lol don't worry so much poop happens lol.
soon you will be able to laug hit off i mean its going to be rough but just pretend like nothing big happened. its a normal thing. and if they do talk about it to you just say its not as bad as whe nso and so got it.
if you can't think of a mpore embarrassing story use mine:
7th grade i ran the mile i was pretty good at it for once. i was jsut getting used to the clicks and stuff but that's not the point. all day i felt as if my butt was wet after running the mile (i had gym 1st period) and i was getting self consiouc so after 8th period (i knew i gotten my period by the way) i ran to my locker and jumped on the bus by the time i got home and went upstairs to changed my pad i found out i gotten my period really bad. i meab white underwear turned read bad i was wearing jeans that day and you oculd totally see wetness. my butt all read.
i pretended like nothing happened but then later on not that much later mind you i was laughing about it with my friends. hoping noone noticed.
so if that doesn't work with the story thing laug hit off it works.
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