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Hidden in the Shadows
Ok, I've liked the same guy for 3 years now. He just broke up with his girlfriend. I was so relieved, but now he has ANOTHER girlfriend and it's only one day later! AH! It hurts so bad because we've been friends so long & I guess he's just not seeing me in that way. I've droped thousands of hints, but he hasn't been picking them up. What I want to know is..he just recently got AIM (so he could talk 2 his last g/f) He kept it & IMs me whenever I'm on. I love that he IMs me, but he talks to me about how much he likes his new girlfriend and it agrivates the crap outta me! How do I get him to stop talking about her without hurting his feelings?
*Undeniably Unwanted*
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Just ask him to please stop because you want to get to know him, not about his relationship. He sounds like a guy that would understand.
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I actually know what you are going through. And you know, there actually isn't an easy way to put it to him, so just tell him. It will help you feel better, and he will know that you believe that you can tell him things. Maybe he isn't getting the hints, but that is okay. Just know that he probably isn't tring to ignore them. Just don't get angry, he will come around! Take your time, and make sure to be careful with your feelings. Don't let your feelings take control, everything will happen in good time. I hope I helped and remember, my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks.
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lol. I know who you are. but, that doesn't matter. ok, well, here goes. I'm not really sure what to tell you. I know how bad it hurts.. believe me.I'm trying to figure out the same thing right now. But, you can either be straight with him, and tell him the truth, or you can tell him that you're kinda depressed and would rather not hear about his g/f, or you could just stop talking to him.. there's really no good answer for this. cause,for me, none of those would work, so yeea. I'm sorry I haven't really helped, but if you ever wanna talk about it, im me.(you should already have my s/n lol) but, here it is anyway:BrUnEtTeBaBi2009 I'm always here to talk. MuCh LoVe!
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Hun you need to get over this guy because he isn't worth it. He sounds like a player. You either tell him how you feel about him or move on. Some guys dont get the hints so just say something to him. Next time when he talks about his new girlfriends or anything like that tell him to stop because you really dont want to hear it. Tell him that you dont really care that much about this girl that he is dating. My opinion is to just move on dont waste anymore of your time. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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that's a little obsessive isn't it? liking the same guy 4 3 yrs????? and never saying anything? GUYS DON'T UNDERSTAND HINTS! THEY ARE WEIRD LIKE THAT! tell him it makes you uncomfortable when he talks about girls with u.
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