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how should i feel? i sleppt with this boy that i thought was going somewhere, as in i thought a relationship was going to start up. i jumped into this too quickly and now i regret it. im ready to move on from him and am starting to feel like an idiot. ive already slept with him. shouldnt have done that. what do i tell myself to move on from this unfortunate event? (link)
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We all do things we regret, There is really nothing you can do to completley erase it from your memory. It is over and done with, Trust me I've been in that boat before but all you really can do is try and forget about it and focus on yourself. You have learned from your mistake
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Alright, my boyfriend and I love each other a lot and then a few days ago his ex calls him. He doesn't know why she wants to talk to him because he hasn't seen her in ten years. She won't tell him over the phone, so yesterday he went to go meet her for coffee.
He has a daughter. She's almost ten and all she wants for her birthday is to meet her father.
I'm not calling my boyfriend a lier because he never knew about his ex girlfriend being pregnant, and I don't think he's lying to me about that because we've always had a very open and honest relationship. He already told me he wants to stay with me, and that his having a daughter changes nothing between us.
My worry is, what if his daughter wants him and her mom to get back together? I'm freaking out about that. I know he loves me, but I know (even if he never knew about her) that his prioreties put his daughter before me. I'm okay with that, but I don't want to lose him.
I'm afraid to bring it up with him because it's still a sore subject. He went to go meet her today, and honestly I'm just freaked out. Could someone give any advice on how to calm down and maybe stop worrying over this? (link)
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Calm down, First off keep in mind it has been 10 years. Not only do people get on with their own lives, but he is with you and not with her. If you two love each other and have as opened of a relationship as you say you do than you need to trust him. After 10 years, He has moved on with his life and she has moved on with hers. Do you even know if she is married? or even seeing someone? Don't jump to conclusions it will only make you more paranoid than you already are. The little girl wants to meet her father, Nothing unusual there. Don't worry unless there is actually a reason to worry. Relax, It will be just fine.
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Okay so I have a kitten..we took her to a vet and, among other problems, she also has fleas. My questions are:
Are they dangerous to humans?
Is my kitten going to be okay? (We put this powder stuff taht kills fleas on her and all over the house..yet, she still scratches..)
What do flea bites look like?
And finally, I heard cat fleas don't like humans, so all they do is bite us and fall off because they don't like our blood. Is this true?
Thanks!
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Fleas are very common amount pets, Fleas tend to come the most in the summer time. The best thing to use to get rid of and help the fleas is Frontline it can be bought at any animal hospitals or pet store. I must warn you though, If the fleas are left untreated it could cause the kitten to bite her fur as sometimes animals have flea allergies. Fleas also lay eggs as well. I personally found Frontline being the most useful product for my cats.
I also found this on Wiki..
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flea
Also, Here is a picture of what flea bites look like..
http://www.termiguardusa.com/Flea-Bites.jpg
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Hello All,
The past 10 years have left me best set up for a career path in Education but my recent experience teaching has left me with serious doubts about my fit with the profession. I feel like it has overwhelmed or suppressed many of my true passions and talents (re: travel, writing, music & art), which I abandoned long ago because my family advised me that such things were impractical.
Now I'm 28 years old, living at home with my parents and working part-time as a substitute for a local suburban school district (having spent a very stressful and unhealthy first year teaching in another district the year before),and running out of the money I saved up - making it difficult to make car and insurance payments.
I'd love to live downtown and get involved in the art scene once again and be close to my boyfriend, but I'm concerned about working in an urban school district or even working as a teacher again in general - but at this point I'm concerned to take just any kind of job because I don't want it to reflect poorly on my resume in the future by seeming like a step down from where I already am. Also, I'm afraid I would seem overqualified or too old to apply for certain kinds of jobs.
Being a teacher makes the most financial sense (and I really need the money)- I am just having a hard time trying to find a happy medium and fearing that if I don't set out on the correct path for myself now, it will be too late to change course in another 5 years' time.
What do you think I should do?
I feel like I am having an existential crisis in the midst of a financial one.
Best Wishes All,
Wanderlust&Lost
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With the way the economy is right now, I can assure you that you aren't the only one struggling.
You could try to go back to school (If you haven't already) you could study and get a degree in something eles. If that is not an option I would suggest you say with where you are now if you are not happy with the school you are currently at you could see if you could relocate eleswhere. However, nobody is too old to apply for a job or any job for that matter. If you are talented in writting, arts, and music you could possibly seek a job in that categlory. If you aren't already maybe you could look into being a music teacher? If you like to write why not try for the local paper as an editor or something along those lines. It is up too you, We can point out ideas for you but again this is in your best interest. If I were in your shoes, I'd keep the job you have now but maybe look and see what eles is out there too.
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i have always just bought coach purses, but my mom said she is sick of buying me new 400 dollar coach purses all the time, and that i need to realize not everyone has money like my family does, and to appreciate what we have, & so on....
so she is being really annoying and saying if i want a new purse, i have to find one like 75ishh or something. :( maybe even cheaper? i mean i have a lot of purses, but i love them! & since i've never really gotten a purse besides coach.. i don't even know who makes cute affordable purses. anybody know of any? :) i like the betseyville or however its spelled ones, but the one i want is like 130. & i like bigger bags. :)
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Wow..
I think the most I've ever spent on a purse was 30 dollars..
Anyway here are some decent price purse brands range from 50-150 or so.
Gucci
Babyphat
Chanel
Juicy
EDIT: No, I am not talking about fake chanel here is the website they range from 300-60 dollars depending on the purse
http://www.designerbags-outlet.com/list.php?yzid=82
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I really need some help here I'm in over my head.
My parents have been divorced since I was twelve and I haven't heard from my mom since...so I live with just my single dad. He never even dated or anything after that so it's just him. When my parents lived together my mom did all the cleaning....mind you she didn't clean often, so I was always used to a messy house...but she DID clean....my dad never lifted a finger except when his computer desk got too cluttered (my dad's a major computer geek).
See my dad is about as clean as a stereotypical college boy.
So now when my mom left I was forced to take over the chores....
WHEN I SAY FORCED....I do not mean what most people mean...NO my dad did not give me chores, he never told me to do anything. What I mean by forced is that if I chose not to do the dishes, my entire family was eating out of plastic plates with plastic forks and plastic cups. No joke. If I chose not to take out the trash they would go for the next best thing (on the floor next to the trash can). If I chose not to vacuum give it a few days and you can't tell what color carpet we have.
I even had to do my dad's laundry for 3 years. I finally got him to do it himself because I went on "strike" and guess what he did?? He spent 3 weeks simply buying new packs of underwear because he didn't want to wash his dirty ones!! Who does that?? He only started washing it because he realized he'd be spending $20 a week on underwear for the rest of his life.
However, the strike stuff doesn't work for the rest of the house. He's perfectly content to live in the slop so long as his computer desk is clear. And what makes the problem worse is that I have a 16 year old brother (BIG red flag), and my sister spends all her time in her room to avoid the mess instead of helping clean it up..
In general my family's motto is "I didn't make the mess, why should I clean it?" which HELLO someone had to make the mess and it sure as heck wasn't me so it had to be one of you three.
So I'm sick and tired of cleaning up after them. Somehow they mess up something new every day...and the day to day stuff like trash and dishes they find a way to make it as gross as possible...these people don't rinse their dishes when they put them in the sink...they just throw them in there leftover food and all....it's sick.
I'm 19 and I should be worried about how much fun I'm going to have when I move out not what is my family going to be living in once I leave?
I need some ideas of how to get them to pitch in.
I've tried everything I can think of.
**Neon signs on the fridge, washer, tv, front door telling them to clean up their mess....somehow they have the brain power to move the sign out of their way but can't figure out how to read it.
**Simply not cleaning and seeing if they notice....they didn't.
**Moving their laundry baskets right in their closets....they still find a way to miss.
**I've even tried taping a garbage bag over the sink to try and make them make less dirty dishes....they just put the dishes on the counter next to the sink.
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Sit down with the family and have a serious talk about this.
1.) Not only is that unhealthy but it is a health hazzard.
It could be signs of depression but even if that is the case NO parent should get as bad as having to spend money every week because they are too lazy to wash their own clothes nevermind living off tupperware. I don't blame you for being fed up with it, You live there yes but it is NOT your responsibility to live like a maid of the house and do everything. Talk to your dad and let him know that this is not the way to live. I hate to say it, but from all you've written above doesn't sound like Dad is being much of a parent by taking responsibility around the house and being a good role model. If it has gotten to this point I'm going to say I think Dad might need some help..meaning a therapist or someone who can push him in the right direction. Is there any family members that could talk some sense into him? If there is I would talk to them. A messy house will only cause depression and stress on everyone also if it continues it is only a matter of time before you find some rodents in the place. Sit down and have a serious talk if it doesn't work get someone who is a family member or a close friend to talk some sense into all of them.
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i have an uncle inlaw hes my wifes uncle and im renting him a room the thing is that he never has the money for the rent and im getting tired of it because he buys things for him self but yet he never has the money for the rent the thing is that he doesent have nowhere to go were the only family he has the other thing is that he is epeleptic he has violent zeigers and i have a 5year old daughter to think about i gave him a week to leave but i cant help feeling sorry for the guy what should i do le him keep taking advantage of me because thats the way i feel sometimes? (link)
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You and your wife were nice enough to rent out a room to the guy, Then he should be nice enough to pay the rent in full amount and on time. It is his responsibility and this is probably why he is where he is. Depending on how long this has been going on and that said meaning a month, You and your wife should sit down with the guy and let him know that you and your wife are not going to allow him to freeload off the two of you. You two have your own lives to live. I understand you feel sorry for the guy but again he is where he is for a reason you've giving him his chances and he decided to blow them therefore if talking to him doesn't get through to him then you and your wife need to tell him that he is going to have to find another place to stay as you two are fed up and can no longer take the stress of him not paying the rent on time. The truth is all throughout your life people will come and go and try to take advantage you in some way, It's time to put your foot down and say no.
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I'm a 13 year old girl and I have a secret e-mail address I keep from my parents. I secretly posted an anonymous online ad on a SAFE website and got a reply. The ad was advertising that I would play piano for weddings. The reply (sent to my secret e-mail address since it was linked to the ad) asked me to play for them, and I would really like to. I want to ask my parents for permission but they would ask how I got the reply, etc. and I need to keep the e-mail address secret.
Please help soon- I will need to play this Sunday!
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Honestly,
I would NOT post something like that online only because you never know who you are talking too. Also, You could be good, great or famous but most people who would want you to play at their wedding would want to hear how good you are first. Not just randomly send a email back saying I want you to play at my wedding without even hearing how good you are or even meeting you. This is definately not the best idea, You do not have to tell your parents the email address but I advise you NOT go attend the "wedding". Afterall, You do not know what you are really getting yourself into. It is NEVER safe to meet someone who was off the internet as nobody can be trusted these days. For all you know it could be anyone on the other end..even an old creepy man. Forget it, If you want to play at weddings do it the safe way and have your parents help you with it. Think about it
EDIT: I know you wanted me to answer this again, but I'm going to have to agree with the person above me. Not a smart idea to lie to the parents...Also, If you don't want to hear the truth than don't ask.
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Hi! 14/F
Okay, i found out that my ex ex boyfriend still likes me. That he liked me ever since we broke up, and he apparently feels dumb to ask me out again because he dated my friend, even though i warned him that she likes other guys and she will break his heart he still dated her. She got mad at me because he never talked to her that much,and he always talked to me. Well, i couldn't help that. Well while she was dating him she found someone else, they broke up and i found out that he liked me this whole time after that. Him and my friend broke up about the last week of school and now we are starting a new year. :/ He told me friend that he still liked me, he told her not to say anything though.He was dating his recent girl friend to keep his mind off of me. I know quite silly. They broke up and what i need to know is should i ask him out?? Or wait??
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I would move on, Did he dump you to date your friend? If so then he isn't worth it. Did you dump him and he went and dated your friend? If so wrong again. If you "heard" that he liked you all this I wouldn't believe it until you actually hear it from him, Even if he did like you all this time the question is "Is he telling the truth" How can he date your friend and still have feelings for you while dating her..Hmmmm? Beats me, If you two were to get back together would he still have feelings for your friend while dating you?! Your answer is as good as mine...I would move on, Plenty of guys out there for you.
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So, my boyfriend is on probation, for drugs. I am seventeen and he is nineteen and we have been together off/on scince i was fourteen and he was sixteen. Well weve both always sorta done pot but him on a much more extreme level then me. When he gets off probation which is in like jan. He plans on spending over a thousand dollars on drugs and booze. I dont like that at all b/c i stick to weed and he does like everything. I dont want him to get addicted to anything. Thats not the kind of life that I want for us. How can i tell him that with out sounding bitchy i feel like i always bitch cause ill be like are you gonna pass your drug test? so yea... (link)
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You said you only do weed, If your boyfriend exsperiences with other drugs it COULD eventually rub off on you. He sounds like a bad influence, This guy is on probation therefore has been in trouble with the law. Obviously this guy has no plans to stop using drugs if he wants to spend that much money or even any money at all on drugs. I would forget about this guy, You deserve better. I must ask, How does this guy provide for you?
I also just wanted to ad a few things, You said you didn't want him to get addicted even when people try drugs and aren't looking to do it again ONE time is all it takes to get hooked on a drug. This isn't the kind of future you want for the two of you but if doesn't get some serious help fast than that will be the road you two are heading for.
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i'm waiting in the dark
can't approach what seems so big
i forgot every scar
so don't ask what i just did
it's 1:32 a.m.
i'm not afraid of heights
i've got a ripped up brainstem
paralyzed in flight
please put it in the ground
it's bleeding on the floor
the skeletons prance around
like they're welcome anymore
"dear God, i can't feel a thing"
dear God, that's just not me
i'll listen to every song you sing
suonato bella, banshee
addicted to the glittery glow,
i can't tear my eyes away
maybe i should go
what did i just say?
i'm drowning in moonlight
hopeless smiles, hopeless hair
it's getting too damn bright
like all i wanted was always there
i can't remember
much of that awkward, dizzy waltz
kids carry this stuff forever
i feel like it's my fault
i can't accept the truth
i gave up on wishing away
i wasn't raised like you
but it really is okay
everything's okay
What do you get from this poem? Anything that comes to mind at all. Opinion the quality, interesting observations, what you think about the writer, etc. Anything it reminds you of or makes you think of..? Also whether you think it could be a song.
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This is depressing, It sounds like someone who has given up on life but has a slight bit of hope that things will get better. Someone who is thinking of giving up who feels hopeless and wants to try to advoid pain but on the other hand knows they have to face the pain to overcome painful memories.
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I really feel like im going to kill myself because I am never happy anymore. And I'm just a 13 years old girl. I want to change to a online school because I figure I won't get teased as much, but they are already closed for the school year. I can't go to my school and I don't want to run away. Maybe I'm a coward but I really do need help. Can someone tell me where I could find an online school for ninth grade so I won't have to go to my high school Because I know that ending your life is not such a good idea? (link)
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I went through the same thing when I was going into High School. It really isn't that bad, I won't lie to you there is a lot of peer pressure in High School but the answer is not killing yourself. High School can also be a lot of fun and you get freedom at least a lot more freedom than middle school. I would try to focus on the possitive things you will make more and new friends. If you were to go to school online you will be keeping yourself from socializing and trust me you don't want to end up being locked in your house all the time it's not healthy. It is hard for everyone that is entering high school you are not the only one. It takes some time to get used too it as it is a new adjustment but in about a months time maybe two months you will begin to get used to it. Trust me, It is not as bad as it seems.
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and a lot of older girls in my cross country have something similiar from the earrings i got.
i feel like im copying them but im not doing it cuz of that..
should i still wear them? or not at all?
will they think im some poser who wants to do everything like them?
help!
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Wear them, Who cares what other people think. wear whatever you want to wear and feel comfortable in.
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Ok so i'm a 15 year old boy and there's this girl that i havent really met....but i see her around A LOT and shes very hyper and goofy around everyone and shes just idk seems special, ya know? and she has this battered up worn book which i think is called 1984...it has a white cover with like a blue eye on it. Every now and then i catch her rereading it. I think its her favorite, so i was wondering whats the book like about? is it some chick book? and like what does it say about her? (link)
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This article is about the Orwell novel. For the year, see 1984. For other uses, see 1984 (disambiguation).
Nineteen Eighty-Four (1984)
British first edition cover
Author George Orwell
Country United Kingdom
Language English
Genre(s) Dystopian, Political novel, Social science fiction
Publisher Secker and Warburg (London)
Publication date 8 June 1949
Media type print (hardcover & paperback) & e-book, audio-cd
Pages 326 pp (Paperback edition)
ISBN N/A
Nineteen Eighty-Four (often abbreviated to 1984) is a classic dystopian novel by English author George Orwell. Published in 1949, it is set in the eponymous year and focuses on a repressive, totalitarian regime. Orwell elaborates on how a massive oligarchial collectivist society such as the one described in Nineteen Eighty-Four would be able to repress any long-lived dissent. The story follows the life of one seemingly insignificant man, Winston Smith, a civil servant assigned the task of perpetuating the regime's propaganda by falsifying records and political literature. Smith grows disillusioned with his meagre existence and so begins a rebellion against the system that leads to his arrest and torture.
The novel has become famous for its portrayal of pervasive government surveillance and control, and government's increasing encroachment on the rights of the individual. Since its publication, many of its terms and concepts, such as "Big Brother", "doublethink", and "Newspeak" have entered the popular vernacular. The word "Orwellian" itself has come to refer to anything reminiscent of the book's fictional regime. The book is generally considered to be George Orwell's magnum opus.
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Whats the best smelling axe body wash (link)
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I think the red one smells the best it's called Touch. My boyfriend has tried about every kind and I am going to say the blue and red one. :)
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This is a good website you should go to if you need more help then what people are giving you on here. wix.com/shelbysworld/TEST
Its also an advice site... But more.. "In depth" (link)
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That's great but that is something you would put in your profile not posted on the site.
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I need to know a great body wash that stays on and doesnt go away after an hour or 2. i really need a good one that will stay on.
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For males
Axe is good, It stays on for a long time and smells really good ;) My boyfriend uses it. It can be bought at Walmart in the deodrant department for about 7 maybe 8 dollars. It comes in deodrant or body wash as well as hair gel too. :)
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okkkay so 4 days ago I gave my boyfriend a blowjob. It wasn't his first He'd gotten blowjobs before but He's still a virgin. But anyways Now I have a small cold sore in the corner of my mouth WHAT COULD THIS BE FROM ! ?
could I have gotten a disease from it ?
HELLLLPP !
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I found this from Google- "Oral herpes, the visible symptoms of which are colloquially called cold sores."
Like Peeps said below me cold sores are a form of herpes oral herpes are the most common infections.
I would see a doctor, Or tell your boyfriend to get checked out...
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2 weeks ago my fiance and I of nearly 2 years broke up, she said I had become like a brother to her, but we were going to try to work it out. We were already dealing with a lot of stressful family situations as it was. Things were going as well as they could be, until her cousin called her, and said that my parents and I said that she left for a bunch of reasons, none of which were actually mentioned. She got mad at me, because obviously she believes her cousin. We got in an argument, and she said she never wanted to see me again. The next night she called, and we talked about things. After that stuff was ok, until she talked to her cousin again. Then she decided there was no chance for us to get back together. She tried to call later that night, but i had fallen asleep for a couple hours, i didn't want to call her back, and wake her dad up, because he drinks a lot, and I didn't want to start trouble. She got worried that I did something to myself, and had a friend drive by, which I was already up(this was 3 in the morning), and she saw me through the window, now she thinks I'm lying about that. Then someone told her I was going to hurt myself, so she'd come to see me, but I never said it. Now she's deleted all history of me from her life it seems, right down to deleting me from her myspace, and all the pics of us. I really think this is the girl I was meant to be with. Is there any hope of me getting my soulmate back, or did her cousin win? And what exactly might be going through her head? (link)
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Oh wow..I am sorry to hear all this
Communication is the key in all relationships and for her to not talk to her own fiance and take her cousins word over yours therefore says she has trust issues with you. You stated she continued to wear her ring after she said she never wanted to see you again, Could be that she is confused about how she feels but is also taking her father and cousins word into concideration. The fact that she has cut all memories of you out of her life is a big flag it tells me that she is trying to get over you by having no reminder therefore she erases everything that gets in the way of that. You also said that she said you were the best she could ever ask for, How long ago was it that she said this? was it recently?..There is a test, If you can live with your fiance/boyfriend or girlfriend for more than 6 months than you know you passed for being married. You two are engaged, For this to be happening now is a big problem you need to talk to her. I understand you both are stress and going through family problems but the fact is life IS stress there will always be problems and that is why you two are supposed to support each other communicate and help each other overcome these obsicales in life. There is a chance you could get her back, You could try to talk to her. The "brother" figure could be coming from the cousin and the father, The truth is if people talk so much shit about someone eventually they start guessing and thinking about it and overtime it becomes a stressful situation and you two didn't talk about it therefore she is becoming distant with you. If you two talk it out, she needs to toss the cousin cause she certainly isn't helping anything..Also, Remember family is family you can't erase them out of her life but you can tell her that she should be communicating with you if there is a problem not her cousin this is between you and her.
You mentioned "- Her dad keeps telling her that I'm a loser with no future, and I just want to control her."
Depending on how long her father has been saying this too her overtime it will start to be embedded in her head that her father might be right, You two are engaged first of all her father really has no right to disrespect your relationship in that way the least he could do is try and be happy for the two of you. On the other hand if it is true that you are trying to control her than yes, you would be in the wrong. The fact is once you marry your other half you marry the whole family, you become family.
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Help me make sense of this!!!! Two years ago I told my friend I had feelings for her that went deeper than friendship. (We are both females) She said she was SHOCKED when I told her. Although I don't think she was shocked at all. Keep in mind we live 1300 miles apart and she is in an unhappy marriage and has been for about 8 years, she has been married for 37 years and got married to get out of the house and away from her step-dad. (nothing sexual there, he was just mean). She is 55 years old and I am 48. Anyway at that time 2 years ago she denied feeling the same way towards me. We email often and just last week she flew up here to spend the week with me on vacation, left her husband home. During our time together that week she told me she had fallen out of love with her husband some time ago and she wished she would win the lottery so she could buy a summer home in the town I live so we could be closer. She also has told me if she was younger she would leave his hind-end in a heartbeat. We drank some wine and I told her I don't let myself get to tipsy anymore because I am a big flirt, but she kept saying to me through the week, hey let's get shit-faced, let's get a matching tattoo to commerate our vacation together. Now why would she want me to get shit-faced when I told her I get flirty?? And why would she want us to get matching tattoo's? She also touched me alot, putting her hand on my knee during a time when we had someone take our picture together, grabbing my arm etc. and I caught her looking at my legs and eyeing me up. She told me she didn't want to go back home and that we should have taken 2 weeks of vacation instead of one but if we did take 2 weeks vacation she wouldn't go back home. She called me a few days after she got home and back to work, she said she told her coworkers she had to pee and then called me while she was in the bathroom. She mentioned again we should have taken two weeks of vacation and she missed me alot and couldn't wait to see me again and get together again. What I don't understand is first, why would she spend a week with me, tell me how unhappy she is in her marriage, touch me alot and sometimes even in a baby tone of voice tell me how much she was going to miss me if she KNOWS how I feel about her??? She knows my feelings are stronger than friendship so WHY this behavior. Am I over reacting to her actions or is she into me but can't or won't admit it??? Sometimes I think she likes the fact that I am in love with her and she wants me to be. Where do I go from here? I do believe she is in love with me. Having said that, the whole marriage thing she is involved in makes it impossible for her to admit her feelings to herself much less me. I wonder and please tell me what you think!!! If I make myself less available to her and let her know I am going out and having fun with other friends of mine if it will push her into revealing her true feelings for me. One way or another I need to know and I know she won't tell me even if I ask her straight out. I wonder if maybe she starts to feel like she is losing me if she will step it up so to speak and tell me how she really feels.
Please help!!!!!!!! Thank you so much!!
Kelsi
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It sounds like she might have feelings for you, She very well might of fallen out of love with her husband. It could also be that she knows how you feel towards her so she is looking to seek comfort to fulfill her unhappiness and she knows how you feel about her so she is using it too her advantage. (Which exsplains why she would want to get drunk) I am not saying this is the case here but it could be, You may want to sit down and talk to her again and exspress your concerns. If she is married but wants to be in a relationship with you the best thing for her would to file a divorce as it would be the right thing to do. Yes, people can have affairs but nobody can legally be together if one is still married. If you and her decide to have a relationship together you would need to work out a living arrangement at 1300 miles apart it should be a serious thing to think about. Your friend also stated that she had fallen out of love with her husband one thing you want is valid proof if you two were to get together. It could be a whole nother story that she just isn't being truthful about therefore you might want to have a conversation with her once again and get more information on it as you will not seek happiness out of a bunch of lies.
Feel free to messege me if you need more advice.
BahaiMa22
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