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what should i do
i have an uncle inlaw hes my wifes uncle and im renting him a room the thing is that he never has the money for the rent and im getting tired of it because he buys things for him self but yet he never has the money for the rent the thing is that he doesent have nowhere to go were the only family he has the other thing is that he is epeleptic he has violent zeigers and i have a 5year old daughter to think about i gave him a week to leave but i cant help feeling sorry for the guy what should i do le him keep taking advantage of me because thats the way i feel sometimes?
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You have to be hard here to be nice. It's all fine helping anyone out but they have to show that they want to help themselves at the same time. While your position is made worse because it's family it does not make that statement any less true. Be honest, explain your problem with how you see his cash going. Give him your rules. He'll either take it on board and help himself or he'll face the consequences of doing it HIS WAY. You have nothing to feel bad over.
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You and your wife were nice enough to rent out a room to the guy, Then he should be nice enough to pay the rent in full amount and on time. It is his responsibility and this is probably why he is where he is. Depending on how long this has been going on and that said meaning a month, You and your wife should sit down with the guy and let him know that you and your wife are not going to allow him to freeload off the two of you. You two have your own lives to live. I understand you feel sorry for the guy but again he is where he is for a reason you've giving him his chances and he decided to blow them therefore if talking to him doesn't get through to him then you and your wife need to tell him that he is going to have to find another place to stay as you two are fed up and can no longer take the stress of him not paying the rent on time. The truth is all throughout your life people will come and go and try to take advantage you in some way, It's time to put your foot down and say no.
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