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Im Danielle and I smile alot (:
Im very happy and satisfied with my life.
I have my nose pierced. I enjoy having fun. I have the most amazing boyfriend ever. I believe in love at first site. I always try and make the best of a bad situation. I have a hard time trusting people. I get taken advantage of alot. People screw me over alot. I dont have a " best friend" My best friend is my brother. Im the type of person who doesn't have a good friend, but who is friends with everyone. But I do believe I'm a good friend. Im very well rounded, and I am friends with all types of people. I don't like sterotypes, and I don't consider myself as a "label" Im starting to learn to brush off peoples thoughts of me. At times I'm shy. Im sensative. I take everything to heart. I like to write. Chances are if I know you, I like you. Sometimes peoples oppinions change my own. Im very forgiving, epecially when I shouldn't be. I don't judge people by first impressions. When I'm set on something, I'm determined to make it happen. I won't give up until it does. I'm very trustful, and I don't tell secrets. Just my own. I have very strong self-control, and If I don't want to do something I won't do it. Im a strong person, but I can be weak. I guess depending on the situation. Im a nice person, and I care more about other people than myself. There isn't much more to say

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is it normal for a guy to not cum at all when getting a hand job? he said to me its hard for me to get off like that....

yes that is very normal. although for some guys, it may take a little harder stroke or a little longer then you expected.

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if you were doing sexual things with a guy and he only pre-cummed and didnt fully cum is it unpleasurable for them? and another question is when i guy fully comes how much is it?

yes it is actually :/

&& he typically releases about a teaspoon of cum. If he ejaculates often, the amount usually decreases. That’s normal since it takes about five to seven days for a guy to produce a complete ejaculate. If he ejaculates often, he would not have had time to build up the supply, so less will come out.

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Hey. I'm 13/f and my bestfriend is 41/f. The other day, I went uptown with her and her other friend, and we went in the woods and they smoked pot. Don't get me wrong, I mean if they want to try it, go ahead, it's their lives. The third friend, we'll call her friend 2, is a pretty bad pot head, although we're still good friends. I'm just afraid that whenever friend 1 is with friend 2, friend 1 will smoke pot and get addicted to it. I have no problem confronting her with my concern, becuase she confronts me about cutting all the time. The issue is, I don't know what to say without coming off like I'm trying to run her life. PLEASE HELP ME?!

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Sorry it's so long..

really, pot isn`t that much addicting as it may seem. alot of my friends do it, but they can stay away from it when they are with me or they can go a month with out it. so you have nothing to be worried about. and as long as your cutting goes, i don`t mean to jump onto your you or anything cuz i used to do it. and i got help. i hated it when they would talk to me about it and ask why. but maybe you should try to put a rubberband around your wraist and whne you wanna cut, snap it. it releaves the pain just as well, but no one will no. i hope i helped and gave you what you wanted to hear.

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okay,i'm a female and i'm 14 years old and i'm a muslim. I did something really really wrong, and i don't have a clue why i did it, but i just did. Last year, i was in this school where i used to flirt with guys and allow them to touch me and stuff , just to gain popularity. But soon, my mom found out and she made me go to this girl's only school. And there, somehow i thought that to make friends i should like make stories up to win their sympathy and have them beside me all the time. So i told practically half the school that i had sex so many times before, and that i had once even become pregnant and had an abortion, and that i still do all that shit. I even stole one of my best freind's boyfriends and used to have sex conversations with him on the phone(but that one is for real), But then i felt guilty and told her what i did with her boyfreind, and so now she hates me and so does everyone else. And everyone just thinks of me as a bitch. But the thing is that i feel so disgusted of myself and all that i faked and made up. And i am dying to tell all those who i lied to the truth. But then they'd just see me as a twisted freak who needs medical help, and i honestly think i do need help. I have no idea what to do. I am sick of all the shit and trouble and lying to my parents and people who could have been really good freinds to me. And i keep thinking about all this, but the only solution i come up with is to lock myself up at home where i'd be away from everyone and everything, because i don't trust myself anymore, and i keep getting all those fucked up thoughts, and i masterbute continuously and date any boy to talk about sex with him and to see his penis and touch it because that turns me on. Oh my god!!!! i am just so fucked up and i have no idea what the fuck am i to do. but i'm seriously considering telling all those people i lied to that i never really did all that shit i said and faked.

well... to me it sounds like you don`t have respect for yourself. learn to respect yourself so that others could respect you. the lying situation... not good hun. FESS up. it`s the only way out of what you have done. and the ones that believe and forgive you for all your lying are the ones that will always be there for you and are your real friends. maybe you should take a break for awhile. summers coming up.... could you give yourself sometime to think. and not go out and have fun with friends. sometimes it does help to be alone. my mom tells me when i am under alot of stress and confusion, to read a book. and to tell you the truth, i`m the kind of popular, party, cheerleader that HATES to read. but taking her advice helps. be honest from this point. maybe this kind of problem has taught you that, lying will always catch up with you. the first step you need to take is apologize to your mom, cuz truley she is your best friend that will always be there for you through think or thin. then go, to all those that you have lied to and tell the truth :/

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ok im a male and im a freshman ok my penis is about 3 inches long without a boner and when it is a boner it is about 7 is that normal? just wondering.....

Penis length, measured along the top, averages 3 1/2 to 4 inches when flaccid (soft) and 6 to 6 1/2 inches when erect (hard), but there’s a wide range of normal lengths. Penis size when soft also varies with temperature and emotions.

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What are some good ways to be cool in high school?? I was just wondering about this question for some time. I mean what does the word cool mean? And how do people identify it when they see it exactly? Its just been on my mind for some time. Does it mean acting bored and dont care what people say or think?

well... the word cool has several meanings. but i think i know what your looking forr. lmao.

well you should always be yourself. and really people don`t notice it. just be friendly, get into school, and don`t really care what people say about you. cuz most of the time they are jealous. TRUE? TOTALLY. always walk around with your head on your shoulders ( duh!...do you get it? ). don`t let same things get to you. it`s their opinnon so let them have it.

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oka to make a long story shorth there this guy at my school that i cant stand he gets on my last nerves. One because he always talkin about people eveyday,everytime,every min. Its like getting on my nerves and then he alwayz judge someone on how they dress or he be calling peopl ugly right in front of thier face.And he alwayz hang around girl he dont have any boys as friends just girl and people be saying that he is gay and all that stuff and i think so to casue he walk like a gilr, and talks like one but dont dress like one. So what bugs me is that he is soooooooo mean. So my quetion is what is this i mean its soo stupid!

maybe he is gay but don`t wanna show it. lmao.

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i just had a "lesbian" experiance..... i saw some pictures of girls in yano... n it turned me on i went furthur and masterbating... i was think of both girls && boys but it was the girl tht turned me on most.... am i lesbian?
im only 14
thanks X

your only 14 hun, you can`t find out your sexuality until later in life when you have had messed with both sexs. does that make sense ? and i doubt that you are fully a lesbian. bi-sexual ? maybe.

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ok well im 15/f and my ex bf is 16. WE broke up before my birthday which was april 11th. He called me to wish me a happy birthday and ever since then we have been talking. He asked me what would i say if i we went back out. I told him i would think about it. Well one of his best friends said that lately he has been doing drugs for the past month and stuff. I asked him about it and he said that he does do drugs now and he sells it now too. Well thats just not cool to me but i love him alot i mean hes the one who broke up with me i didnt want to lose him. I dont know wat to do i want to go back out with him but im not sure if thats a good idea?!? i need help thinking of the pros and cons of me going out with him if hes going to do this. Im not sure why he does this i mean he has money he doenst need any im the one that doesnt have hardly any money ever! i just want him to stop doing that shit but he told me that he wasnt and he told me that i shouldnt care because i do that shit too but i dont i told him i dont and i never will. I need HELp! please help me anyone i would like to hear alot of people's opinions and ideas. thanks :]

if you think that him doing drugs is going to effect your relationship with him then i wouldn`t. but if you like him like you say than i would. BUT i he should respect the fact that you don`t like him doing that kind of stuff when you are with him or him doing them @ all. talk to him about, let him know that he can`t have drugs with you. don`t make him choose though, let him do it on his own. does that make sense?

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Ok i am a 15 year old male and ive known this girl for a bout 3 years and she is my nehibor me and her always hang out and she is totally hott and i like her more than ive liked any one beforebut should i tell her and maybe ruine our friendship and if so how should i tell her?

well.... if you are really close to this girl and you wanna take it to the next level with the friendship. then yeah tell her. if you don`t take the risk then you might just regret not saying anything. does that make sense? if she truley respects you and what you feel, as a friend and boyfriend, then it shouldn`t ruin your friendship.

i say if you truley like this girl as much as it seems. then go for it. you only live once.

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hi, i am a 19 year old guy and i have been dating my 17 year old girlfriend for a year and 3 months. when we started dating everything was awesome and we spent all of our free time together and now i have realized that i have taken her away from her frinds and family. this is the last thing i want to do. friends and family are so important in your life that i would never want to take them away from her. we both just recently realized that we need to give each other a little more space. i have no problem with doing this but whenever im not with her i find myself calling her and texting her a ton. i feel like i should know exactly what she is doing and who she is doing it with at all times and i know that this isnt right. it has made our relationship worse. neither of us have ever lied to the other and i trust her completly but i cant seem to just back off and let her go do what she wants. i feel like i am obsesive and i need help to get over this. we both love each other more than anything and i am willing to try anything to make her happy again. like i said i love her more than anything and dont want to push her away because of this. what do i do?

try not to spend soo... much time with her. && when you do try to involve HER friends and HER family :] and when your not with her... hang out withyour friends, and have fun.

if you trust her then you shouldn`t care what she does. a relationship i based on trust. so if you botth can trust each other, then try doing things on your own for a minute. i mean it`s good that you wanna do things with her, but sometimes when you see each other so much, it gets old. ya know ? it`s like painting a room, @ first you enjoy and have fun, being goofy with the rollers && paint. but then after an hour or so, your arms get tired and lazy. does that make sense?

sorry if i didn`t help at all, but this is just what i think will make it work out somewhat.

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ive never made out before but i want to soo bad..like guys are always asking me to make out..bbut i dont want them to be like your a bad kisser and then go tell their friends..what should i do..should i practice on something..and ifyes..then what?

be confident with yourself. && remember practice makes perfect :] maybe if you practice with other guys, then when you find a guy that you really like, you know your ready for it. and it could be perfect.

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I just wanted to know if you had sex for 5mins and your cherry wasnt popped can you get pregant and does that still make you a virgin sine it wasnt popped

yes, you can get pregant depending on if he cummed in you. if you have sex then yeah, your cherry should alrightie be popped. that`s if you have one. some girls have them and some don`t.

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so this boy who i was dating for while just recently dumped me (thrusday night) and he stayed at my house and so did my best friend but anyway so him and my best friend (who he lives wtih) were at my house when he dumped me adn my best friend came and comforted me thne hwn he was done talking to me adn stuff the guy who dumped me came out and talked to me and he told me he wanted to get with me when the summer was over! i REALLY want to an di tink you know who i am but shoul di wait or not! i think me and him will get back together i just have to have the will power to not do naything to mess it up as does he! but sheould i wait!

well...if you really like this guy && care about him enough like you seem you do. then you shoud wait. but think this through. the summer is along time are you willing to wait 4 months for one guy.

during the summer while he is away, is a chance to explore your options to make sure that you are really sure that you like him. if you don`t feel a connection with the others like you do for him, then you know its real.

wait if you can :)

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i have the samsung u740 does it get free internet like some phones or do you have to pay for it... if you have to pay for it how much

i do beleive that it does get the internet && if you do have to pay then it shouldn`t be that much depending on your plan

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what are some good like pop/rock/punk songs...like fall out boy, mayday parade, panic! at the disco, wolfmother....that kinda stuff.

14/f

Madina Lake- Here I Stand
Madina Lake - One Last Kiss
Jack Johnson - Bubble Toes
Hellogoodbye - Touchdown Turnaround
hellogoodbye - here in your arms
Hellogoodbye - Call and Return
Hellogoodbye - All of Your Love

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15/f my boyfriend 15/m fingered me yesterday but it didnt feel that good and i could tell he had no idea what he was doing..and we talked about it but how can i like show him how to do it without completely embarrassing both of us?

ohkay, so this might sound wierd but,why don`t you try to finger yourself and have him watch, so he can study you. maybe lead his hand a little bit and control it. he will get the hang of it. hopefully :/

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So, my friend's boyfriend and she were making pubic hair shake and she drank it and now she's afraid she's going to get crabs b/c her bf has crabs. Can she still get crabs from drinking this after it's been in the blender

what? did you just say ? your friends drunk pubic hair shakes ? ha this is the funnest quetsion ever. why would they do that.

no she can`t get crabs.

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on almost every tv show they beep out the bad words like fck, sh!t, asshole, dick, cock, or whatever else but why don't they beep out the word bitch?

becuase bitch also can be a dogg. lol.

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This guy led me on then decided at the last minute that he liked another girl. My friend. I know by fact that he is never going to get her so i want to make shure he knows what he missed out on by not going out with him. We dont really hang out much anymore, but i do hang out in his group sometimes because they are my friends as well. There is also going to be a party we both will be attending next week. How can i show him excatly what he missed out on?!

when your @ the party, just be yourself. act like he isn`t even there. have fun && party.be wild and goofy. show him that your a fun person even without him.

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