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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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How short do you have to be to be considered a migit? im 15 and 4'10...does that make me a migit?

I did a little research and I found out in order to be legally a midget you need to be 4'10" and under, so yes you can be a midget. You still have a little while until you stop growing because you won't stop growing until you are around 16, so maybe you will grow an inch or two in a year. Who knows. But if you don't then yes you are concidered a legal midget. Short people are cool though =)

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Is wearing a blue jean jacket with jeans too much denim like if i have like a colorful shirt under it? like if the jacket and jeans are close to the same color?

People do that all the time in my school. You can also switch it up a bit with like khaki pants, or those draw string baggy looking pants in like a khaki color or something, that looks really good too. But no, it's not too much denim.

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does sex hurt the first time

Depending on whether or not you have done OTHER sexual things before like oral sex, it could hurt. If you have never been fingered or anything then yes it can hurt a great deal.

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is headaches a sign 4 pregnancy??? and wut r other signs?

-Missed period
-Tender Breasts
-Nausea
-Fatigue
-Frequent Urination
-Headaches
-Spotting
-Light headedness
-Constipation
-Hearburn

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does anyone know where i can buy the seasons of smallville on DVD that's not ridiculously expensive?

Wal*Mart always low prices-Always 8-) Either at Wal*Mart, Circuit City, Best Buy or any other store of that sort. But if you go to buy any season of any show on DVD, its going to be rediculously expensive.

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AHH ..Im sick =/ because i get dehydrated and water isnt working!! What do i do?! i have my period so i cant take a bath right now and im home alone and thrwoing up..im afraid if i pass out no one wil know and no one is available to help me..what do i do?! I dont have Air conditioning.

Even though it doesn't appear to be working, keep drinking fluids. Throwing up like that is really bad and in this heat it makes it even worse. Go into the coolest room in your house, put on a fan, get some ice and keep it on your body to stay cool. Have you tried calling your parents and telling them what's going on? Try drinking juice instead of water because that usually helps a bit. And screw the fact that you have your period. Go take a cool shower. People DIE from dehydration and you really need to cool yourself down. Either you take a shower or you get yourself to a hospital because that is so dangerous. Whatever you do try to drink fluids as much as you can. When your parent(s) get home let them know whats going on because you might need to go to the hospital because seriously, the heat affects you SO bad that way.

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How can I make certain words bold when I type an entry in my xanga. I've tried Ctr B, but it brings up my Bookmarks instead of bolding things. Is there any other way I can fix this?

TEXT and just remove the stars =) For italics, instead of a B it would be I and underline a u.

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If words are not enough...How do you show someone you love them?? Ideas please

Actions speak louder than words. Hug them, kiss them, hold them, be caring, be kind, cuddle... Actions really do speak louder than words.

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People at school started randomly saying I smoked pot. Then, one day, Drew decided because I had a twizzler for lunch that I was anorexic. They have been doing this all year. How do I finally get them to stop!! I'm only in 8th grade, and soon to be in 9th, so I'm not smoking pot!

People in general are idiots. They are ignorant and will believe what they want. Rumors fly around my school so fast, today for instance I had a panic attack and almost had to go to the hospital. I was in the nurses office for almost an hour and when I went back to class I heard that I overdosed on something, and that I had a mental break down and was suicidal. Talk about being ignorant. You really can't get them to stop, sweetie, welcome to the REAL world. Shit will be said about you no matter what you do or say about it. Be it good things or bad things, true things or false things, things will be said about you. For alot of teenagers now it brings them down so bad it gets them into cutting and whatnot. But YOU are the one that knows the truth, YOU are the one that knows your not anorexic, YOU are the one that knows you don't smoke pot. It's hard to accept that I'm going to say, don't listen to people they're stupid but you really have to. You're going into highschool next year and it's a whole new world. When it comes to highschool, the rumors are 10 times worse and there are 10 times more rumors spread about you. You just have to learn to be strong and deal with it. Going to the guidance counselor and complaining to your parents isn't going to do any good. What can they do? Suspend the entire school for believing a stupid rumor? You need to be a strong individual in order to get through highschool. It's tough, I'm not going to lie to you, it's very tough, but if you're strong you can do it and you'll be able to live past all the rumors and shit that people say or do.

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I have a dog named Smokey. It's a girl. She was suposed to have leg surgery because she tore a legiment or something, but now she is walking better. Should she still have surgery?

That's not for any of us to determine, it's for her vet to determine. Take her back to the vet and have them check out her leg again, if they say she can go without the surgery, then she can go without it. She may still need it even though she seems to be walking fine.

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Im going to Warped Tour and it'll be my first time going to a concert like this (my parents finally let me go!) Anyways, I was just wonder if you've been in a mosh pit before. Whats it like? And like what happends. Will I get hurt? Just like full detail and everything about! Thanks in advance!

STAY AWAY FROM THE MOSH PITS! If you do not like pain, a mosh pit is not where you should be. You get beat the hell up and you will be bruised for days. It's just an insane amount of people push eachother, punching eachother and all this crazy crap and it hurts like a bitch.

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Okay I'm extremely confused. I'm a freshman in school and I have recently come to terms that I am gay and by the way I'm a guy. I have a friend who is a guy also and he comes over all the time. I am extremely attracted to him and I don't know what to do. I want to tell him how I feel but there is never the right time and I'm afraid if I do and he's not gay, he'll tell everybody about me. I have a pretty good feeling that he may be gay too but I'm never entirely sure. He has made comments before that if we were both women he would totally kiss me and he has made other moves on me as well but I think he may be waiting for me to make the first move. I feel that if I do, he may freak out. I've smoked with him a lot (not legal stuff lol) and all he does is say how he really likes me and he gets cuddley. How can I determine if he likes me and how can I start a relationship with him without completely ruining my life. Please respond immediately and keep in mind that I REALLY like this guy. Thanks!

Awwh yay! I love gay people, they make me so happy =) Okay sorry, just had to get that out. If he has said to you that if you were both women, he would totally kiss you, odds are he is gay or bisexual. Most of the things you pointed out in your friendship drops HUGE hints to me that he is gay and does like you. The next time you spend a day/night/afternoon/weekend with him, and you are getting at all "cuddly" get his attention and ask him "Be honest [insert boys name here], do you have feelings for me? The way you've been acting around me is giving me hints that you may like me. I'm not going to be grossed out about it or anything if you do because ::cute little smile:: I sorta ::pause and look away:: feel the same way ::longer pause:: ::look at him::. I wouldn't tell him while you were both drunk because well, do either of you remember things when you're drunk or under the influence of anything? I mean, if you don't remember anything or if he doesn't remember anything, then only one of you is going to get pleasure out of the situation (the one who remembers anything) and then the next day, no one remembers anything! And then you sort of have to start from scratch with admitting your feelings to eachother. But, if anyone at all on this site makes fun of you or anything for being gay LET ME KNOW I'll find them and beat their asses. You are officially awesome just because of the fact that you are gay. And I ♥ you for that =)


-Emily

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How can i get the IP address of someone that has asked me a question... the only info i have is the question...

You can't. The only way for you to do that is to ask either the person who asked you the question or a level 2 or 3 moderator to tell you who the user is. Other than that, everything is completely private unless they give you their information.

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For my birthday I'm asking for a great quality digital camera of my own. I would like one that hold ALOT of pictures (maybe in the hundreds-3 hundred range), can take videos, and shoot in black and white but it still in a resonable price for a birthday present. Do you guys know any camera/camera brands like this? I'll rate LottZ!

I have a D-snap camera. It also holds MP3's, has a voice recorder, video recorder, and a regular camera. It's hard these days to find a camera that will shoot in black and white for a reasonable price. Although, now with all the wonderful technology of computers, they have programs you can download to change your pictures, photoshop and etc. Gosh, I have no clue how many pictures my camera can hold but I'm sure it's over 300. It holds over 100 videos and god only knows how many songs. If you go to Circuit City, Best Buy, or any other place that is known for their computers and etc, you can ask someone that works at the counter for what they would suggest for a camera that fits your description. However, cameras, especially digital cameras, run for ALOT of money. They can range from 300-1000 dollars. I would suggest going to a store and looking at a few there, it's much easier.

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i love my boyfriend... he got a really cool phone... should i steal it? i love him but i love his phone even more!!!!!!!!!!!

Wait... you said you LOVE your boyfriend. Why would you want to steal something from him? That's horrible. He'd probably break up with you. Are you really going to want to risk losing him for a phone?

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you know those chermicials that say when your little brother needed you and you weren't there you can just tell him that you were out getting stoned. What does the getting stones part mean?

Getting stoned means smoking pot to make your actions/body/feelings completely distorted. You forget things, it's sort of like being drunk.

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i forgot the name of the brand name that has a rino on it. its a skateboarding company i think. can anyone tell me the name? please and thanks!

It's Ecko. It's not a skateboarding company, it's a street wear company, like ghetto clothes.

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Alright you know how guys wear condoms while having sex for protection so that when they cum it doesn't enter the vagina and fertilize? When they DO cum while wearing a condom what happens to it? Like does the condom expand..with the cum in there..and it's all soggy-ish, or what?

Sorry I know that sounds stupid.

If you were to examine a condom, there is sort of a "nipple" thing at the end of it. That "nipple" catches all of the cum. Most condoms these days come with Nonoxyl Nine a.k.a Spermacide, which basically kills the sperm. Cum is a liquid, depending on how often a guy masturbates or has sex, it can be thicker or more of a liquid. If a guy doesn't have sex or masturbate often, the cum is normally thick and it contains more sperm. If he does more often, then the cum is more liquidy and can contain less sperm. Hope this answered your question, if you need me to elaborate more just drop it in my box.

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i am a dancer (7 classes a week), i eat very healthily, but i cant seem to lose weight! i am 5'3" and a half inch and weigh about 113 pounds. i am not super fat, but my lower stomach, face, and thighs are. how can i help this?

You're not Super fat? Sweetheart, you're not even fat. If you have 7 classes a week, eat healty, you're not fat. It's freaking MUSCLE, dancers tend to have that when they dance as much as you do. I'm an inch taller than you and I'm 120. Size 2 in pants. I really don't think that's fat. A girls face is always a little chubby. There is nothing we can do about it. If you have a problem with your stomach, do crunches, situps. And your thighs, DANCERS HAVE BIG THIGHS!!!!! I used to dance I had the hugest thighs in the world! Of course they look fat, it's all muscle though. I don't know what the hell you're worrying about. You do not need to lose ANY weight. According to a BMI calculator, you are at 19.7. Anything under 18.5 is under weight. between 18.5, and 24.9, it's normal. So you're closer to being underweight than anything.

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does anyone know how to earse a myspace acount?

You can't exactly ERASE it, but you can cancle the account. If you go to your homepage, click on Account Settings, and you'll see under where it says: Change Account Settings
NOTE: Changing your default email or name can make it hard for your friends
to find or recognize you on MySpace there will be the last option to Cancel Account. Just click on that and it should tell you what to do =)

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