HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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Is it weird to have a 3 year age difference between me and my boyfriend? Like 15 and 18? (link)
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not at all the older he is the better cuz hell be more mature and know better how to treat you and will be more experienced
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The longer you are stressed, does it take longer for your period to come?
Like if I was late and and I was stressed, the longer i am stressed, the longer it will take to come? (link)
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yes this is true because being stressed causes your body to work in an unatural nature so it messes up a lot of things in the body including your period
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im 15 almost 16 and i am still in a AA-cup bra.
mom is a A-cup, but my sister is a C-cup.
This is completely destroying my life! I have not had a boyfriend cuz' my breasts are tiny now I am old and nobody will want me.
what about breast enlargement?
are there any other wayz i can get someone to love me?
is surgery for enlarging my breasts my best way to get my life back?
i want to have a boyfriend before i get old! am i already too old? none of the boys will want me soon. i am almost 16!
Please HELP ME! (link)
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if your breasts are small to the point that its ruining your life than i think you should get a boob job not for the guys but for YOUR self confidence
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Last night my boyfriend and I were laying on the couch and he was fingering me and we were having a lot of fun. We've been dating about 3 months now. Last night, he told me he wanted to have sex with me, but I explained to him that he should lose his virginity to someone he loves and to someone who is very special to him. Then he told me he loved me and that was the first time he's ever said it to me. After about 20 minutes of thinking and talking, I said I loved him back but I wasnt ready for sex. I know hes the one i've fell for the hardest and I do care about him and he's wonderful, but I'm scared im not really in love with him. I know he's serious about things and he'd never lie and he always says whats on his mind, so i know he does love me. How do I tell him that i dont know if we're in love or not? (link)
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tell him to give you a lil time to fall DEEPLY in love with him cuz you havent reached that stage yet.
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Well, you see, I'm really scared about IT. You know, the category. I mean, I don't know why? (link)
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no offense but no i dont know what you mean by it.it as in sex or it as in a guys thingy or it as in what exactly.dont worry guys thingy aint gonna bite it only bites back and its normal to be scared about sex at first.youll get over it
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Iam 17 and I think I may be pregnant and my parents said if I get pregnant before I finish highschool they will kick me out and I have no where else to go besides my parents what should I do?please help me! (link)
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well your parents are kicking you out cuz since you think your responsible enuff to have sex than you have to be responsible enuff to be a mother and start your OWN family.you can consider having an abortion
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Hey, Im a 16/f and recently i stayed over and one of my guy friends house, and we were fooling around and ended up having sex, and he told me he wanted our relationship to stay as friends but still be able to do things like that. Do you think thats wrong? (link)
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akh he sooo used you and played with you like a toy and he got bored of you.my god. he said oh this girls a slut lemme have sex with him but theres no way in HELL imma be with this girl...u never know who she sleapt with i think you shouldnt talk to him anymore at all
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lately ive been wanting to have sex with my boyfriend of 4 months but i know im not ready for it..at times i think i am but sometimes i think im not, im afraid that one of these times im going to think im ready and actually have sex with him. how do i stop doing this? or should i jsut do have sex with him? (link)
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i think you shouldnt cuz youve only known him for 4 months...if you have sex with him so early he might think youre a slut.
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone who you have only met once? :) (link)
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i dont believe in love at first sight...you only look at the guy admiringly cuz he looks hot then you THINK you love him when you really dont.think about it can you actually love a person you dont know?mabey hes hot but he has a sorry ass personality.
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Hi, i'm gonan tlak about my bff she's really starting to scare me.. she all suicidel but yet she tell s me she's happy lots.. she has a really good boyfriend.. she was an abused child just like me.. but she was raped when she was 10.. she's 13 now.. and she is talking about doing it with her boyfriend she seams not to care but i dont know what to tell her.. like she lost her virginty and she is also trying to convinse me to do the same. she's my best friend and really suportave so i dont want to lose her as a friend.
This is alot of questions but just some ideas would really help me out here. (link)
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yo whats with the 13 year old ppl that wanna have sex latley?!?!? tell her that shes too young to have sex and to young to get pregnant and too young to get STDs(sexually transmitted diseases) you seem like a good girl though dont let her influence you in a way that can make you lose your virginity tell her to stop telling you to lose your virginity and you can do what yyou want and if you advise and it seems to not work then just try not to be like her sex is a pleasure you take in a couple of hours that you stay regrettin for a couple of years when youre pregnant and have STDs
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I want to save myself for my wedding night. Is this generaly considered weird? At school people think its really strange and generally make fun of me for it if it comes up in conversation at all. I mean, its not something I go aorund shouting, but if someone asks what I think about sex before marriage because I'm a Christian, I will tell the truth. My friends were amazed that I went out with a guy I was completely in love with for 9 months and didnt have sex with him.
Is it that strange? And is it possible to save yourself for marriage? I've heard that it gets harder to wait as you get older, and it wasn't easy in my last relationship. (link)
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WOW im really happy for you!seriously! your the first person i meet on this website that thinks exactly LIKE ME...i never had and never will have sex in ANY way till im married and im 15/f. ScReW who ever makes fun of you for not having sex now later on when they all have STDs and your the one whos all healthy YOULL be the one making fun of them.dont let them make you go down to their level
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What would you do if you hated your body so much that you would't let your partner see it?
What are your thoughts? (link)
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if you need to loose weight LOSE IT and if you need to gain weight GAIN IT its as simple as dat
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Hey my name is rachel and iam 14 years old and my twin sister named michelle is 14 and she told me she was pregnant and i don't know what to do I know I should tell my mom,but iam afraid she'd never talk to me again iam so scared what should I do? (link)
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darling your mom is going to find out one way or another when the days and months pass by and she sees your sister with a big bloated tummy she aint gonna be like"Oh my daughters gaining weight how cute she looks when shes chubby!!" i think its a must for you to tell your mom so she can stand by your sister and tell her what to REALLY do. cuz if your mom finds out after 9 months that your sisters at the hospital giving birth it will drive her into madness and might not only not talk to your sister but you too cuz youve been keeping it from her.
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My boyfriend has had sex with many other girls before, and he wants me to lose it to him. I love him but, i want to know the symptoms that might occur after we have sex. I also would like to know how, it would feel and how long will I bleed. I get horny easily but, i will never try to masterbait and, i just want to know if i should endure in sexual intercourse with my boyfriend or not!!By the way i am a female! I also would like to know if i should suck him off!! (link)
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OMG dont!!! youll totally regret it! hes done it with a lot of girls and can have STDs(sexually transmitted diseases) and he can spread it off to you! and you are WAY too young to have sex seriously do you even KNOW what sex is honey?sex means getting pregnent and him denying that hes your babys father,sex at a young age is something thatll please you for a couple of hours and something that you will regret and will totally destroy your life in the upcoming years when you find yourself with STDs and about to get married and you have AIDS and you cant have sex with your husband in fear of spreading it to him.
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Ohk i know you can get Aids Or Hiv from someone if you have sex with someone that has it. I was told by many people that even if you use a condom you can also get it. Is it true.?
Only asking because i was watching tv today and on one of the Trojan Condom commercials. Its says to be sure not to get Aids Or HIv. Always use a condom.
No im not out having sex. And im 17 female. (link)
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not just by having it with a person that has aids can lead you to this diseas but you can have it yourself and not even know.if you do it with a lot of guys youll get it and spread it without even knowing it and sometimes condoms can be weak and rip or tear a small hole in it so its useless
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I'm not a good friend. I don't do it on purpose but I let friends go easy. They like, move to a different school and we say we'll stay in touch...but then I don't call.
If friends want me I'm like there for them and all but I dunno I find it hard to meet new people and speak to them cos I'm quite shy so I'm losing friends and can't make new ones so I'm left out a lot and feel very lonely.
What can i do to get new friends and be better at keeping the old ones? (link)
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how can you be shy of your own freinds?theyre you freinds and they wouldnt do anything to make you feel bad and if they did you know you have to tell them to stop. just let go and free yourself of all shyness when your around them be your real self ppl hate it when a person fakes to be someone eles.you should call them often,go out often and keep in touch then youll get closer close to a point that you cant stop calling them....and to make new friends be confident ,honest and yourself...noone likes a bogus
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Hello, I have two hickies from my boyfriend and I really really don't want my parents to see them, I try putting on make up but can totally see I'm wearing a bunch of make up and you can still kinda see the hickes!! Any tip to make them go away faster?? (link)
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put ice on it and itll go away a lil bit and put concealer the same color of your skin on it and if that all dont work wear a long scarf around your neck its very fashionable and they wont suspect a thing
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i was raped when i was younger and i don't know what to do anymore it haunts me in my sleep. I think about it all the time and when i see any of the guys that did that to me i freak out i start crying and they were all over five years ago so i can't go to the police and tell them i was raped i don't know any of the guys names. All i know is that they used to date my mom and when i told my mom that they were doing that to me she didn't believe me. I am now in foster care and i don't ever see my mom. But that fact that i was raped is scary and i need all the help and advice that i can get. so please anyone help me. (link)
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i know it sux and theres nothing you can do but forget it you have to. whats past is past you have to move on with your life you cant let this haunt you.why not consider seeing a therapist ?going to a therapist isnt abnormal itll help you a lot
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What can a 13 year old do to get money? I'm almost desperate. I seriously have no money, neither does my family. I just need some ideas to earn some extra money.
Thanks! (link)
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you can try to work 2 jobs in the morning work at a flower shop and in the evening ar afternoon do babysitting
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I am fond of eating banana but my bros dont want to see me eating banana. its impossible for me to eat banana in front of them and in public. Why the banana is related to bad thoughts? (link)
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cuz guys are perverts and they relate it to their "u know what" but what the hell eat it if you want to
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