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He told me he loved me!
Last night my boyfriend and I were laying on the couch and he was fingering me and we were having a lot of fun. We've been dating about 3 months now. Last night, he told me he wanted to have sex with me, but I explained to him that he should lose his virginity to someone he loves and to someone who is very special to him. Then he told me he loved me and that was the first time he's ever said it to me. After about 20 minutes of thinking and talking, I said I loved him back but I wasnt ready for sex. I know hes the one i've fell for the hardest and I do care about him and he's wonderful, but I'm scared im not really in love with him. I know he's serious about things and he'd never lie and he always says whats on his mind, so i know he does love me. How do I tell him that i dont know if we're in love or not?
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I think You Shouldnt Have Sex With Him till You Are Tottaly Ready For It..When You Know That U Really Want To Lose It To him..Then You Should do It you Are Very Smart to not Have Sex Till your MArried Becuase Before That You Never Know When He could Just LEave You After He GetsWhat He Wants..So Becarefull And tell Him That You dont Want to Go that fast To Have Sex yet Tell him You Need Time to think it over and you dont feel like your ready for it yet..and he might just understand.i have a boyfriend like that to..i told him that i dont want to lose my virgenty till im married and he is willing to wait till then..well i hope i helped Good Luck!
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tell him to give you a lil time to fall DEEPLY in love with him cuz you havent reached that stage yet.
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Hi, the simple answer is no really. Basically because you don't sound very sure and if your not sure on something then you shouldn't do it. You must ask yourself:
Do I like him for his looks and what he's got?
Do I really feel the urge to have sex desperately?
If I do have sex and I know Im not sure, what could the consequences be later?
Do I know what love and lust is, and if I do which one matches how I feel towards him?
If you can clear these questions up then really it proves that you are a grown up girl because you are using what's up there first and not what feels good. Be careful and don't do anything that your not sure on. Daniel.
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He only said he loved you to get you to have sex with him, as far as I can tell by your story. If he meant it, he would have said it way before any of that came up. You can either be smart and not do anything, or do it and end up writing a short story in your blog about your mistake.
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tell him that you guys have only been dating for three months and thats not very long even though you may feel a strong conection it may not be love and that u want to wait a while longer before you commit in body form as well tell him that you do strongly care for him and want to make the relationship last but you think in order to do that u guys need to get to know eachother more
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NO If your not ready honey love isnt a three letter word just because yall are in love dosent mean yall have to have sex and if you know your not ready than dont do it. be like him and just say whats on your mind and if he really love he will understand.
HOPE EVERYTHING WORK OUT FOR TH BEST
Jazzy**
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If you have alot of feelings for him and you care alot about him then you do love him. If your not ready for a very serious relationship or having sex tell him you want to take things really slow and see later on if your ready. He should respect your decision to wait. He does love you, and he wants to go on to a physical relationship now. Just let him know how you feel, he should understand. ♥
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