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My Friend Doing The Wrong Thing
Hi, i'm gonan tlak about my bff she's really starting to scare me.. she all suicidel but yet she tell s me she's happy lots.. she has a really good boyfriend.. she was an abused child just like me.. but she was raped when she was 10.. she's 13 now.. and she is talking about doing it with her boyfriend she seams not to care but i dont know what to tell her.. like she lost her virginty and she is also trying to convinse me to do the same. she's my best friend and really suportave so i dont want to lose her as a friend.
This is alot of questions but just some ideas would really help me out here.
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yo whats with the 13 year old ppl that wanna have sex latley?!?!? tell her that shes too young to have sex and to young to get pregnant and too young to get STDs(sexually transmitted diseases) you seem like a good girl though dont let her influence you in a way that can make you lose your virginity tell her to stop telling you to lose your virginity and you can do what yyou want and if you advise and it seems to not work then just try not to be like her sex is a pleasure you take in a couple of hours that you stay regrettin for a couple of years when youre pregnant and have STDs
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If she truly your friend she would'nt pressure you to do what you don't want to do you know that it is wrong so why do it my ex wanted me to do it with him he actually got most of my friends to pressure me into it and his friends but i told him when we was about to do it i could'nt do it it wasnt me. so what you do is try talking to her if that dont work shes not a fit friend.
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I can honestly say i can relate to some of this, my best friend is gorgeous and she had a boyfriend she was in love with too and they fooled around a little (oral sex) and her parents are pretty abusive too but if she was really your best friend she would never pressure you into doing anything you didnt want to like my best friend smoked pot and i got mad at her for it and she told me she was never going to do it again and she would never pressure me or make me do it. So just tell her you think she should wait besides her body isnt even ready for that she should wait atleast another year or two.
Hope i helped <3
PS: my friends boyfriend cheated on her she was 13 and he was 17!
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She should get help if she`s suicidel. She`s only saying she`s happy because she may look it on the outside. You should talk to her about it and things that bother her. She is wayyy too young to be having sex at 13! In my opinion. I hope she`s not feeling like she should have sex because she was raped and it will be the same effect as that. You have to be really honest with her. Tell her you don`t think she should be cause she`s still too young and not ready. She may not be aware of the consequences of having sex, and should info her all the percentages of getting pregnant using both condoms and birth control (if she uses it), also sexual diseases. Just try to talk to her. I hope things work out. ♥
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