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Should I lose my virginty and, I'm only 13 years old?
My boyfriend has had sex with many other girls before, and he wants me to lose it to him. I love him but, i want to know the symptoms that might occur after we have sex. I also would like to know how, it would feel and how long will I bleed. I get horny easily but, i will never try to masterbait and, i just want to know if i should endure in sexual intercourse with my boyfriend or not!!By the way i am a female! I also would like to know if i should suck him off!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Alright, this is sort of my opinion on this one but you might think otherwise.
No because...
1) There is a 99.9% chance he will dump you afterward (By the sound of it he is just using you)
2) You will get a reputation as a "slut" around school
3) If he has had sex with other girls then he might be carrying STDs
4) From your question it sounds like you arn't ready, BECAUSE you are questioning whether or not you should have sex.
5) What if you got pregnant? [The condom could break]
6) FOR THE LOVE OF GOD YOU ARE ONLY 13 YEARS OLD!
In the end: Sweetheart, if it feels wrong and if you are questioning it, it probably is wrong.
Hope I knocked some sense into you !
♥ Jess
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if you dont want to have sex with him dont, tell him, if he loves you the way you do he'll understand
dont lose your virginity because your boyfriend wants to have pleasure
dont have sex at that age its illegal
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it wouldnt be lady like to give him oral sex
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OMG dont!!! youll totally regret it! hes done it with a lot of girls and can have STDs(sexually transmitted diseases) and he can spread it off to you! and you are WAY too young to have sex seriously do you even KNOW what sex is honey?sex means getting pregnent and him denying that hes your babys father,sex at a young age is something thatll please you for a couple of hours and something that you will regret and will totally destroy your life in the upcoming years when you find yourself with STDs and about to get married and you have AIDS and you cant have sex with your husband in fear of spreading it to him.
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Oh my word.
If you are ready to lost your virginity no one on this website can tell you. It's a question that only you know the answer to. It will hurt pretty bad, probably worse because you are so young. If you are a petite girl, there is a chance that you will bleed, probably not to long or to bad though. It's ok that you get horny easily. You are at that age where you are more easily turned on than usual. BTW: it's masterbate. Not masterbait. I personally think that if you can't even spell this word, than obviously you aren't ready. But don't take my word on it, this is your choice, not mine. And what to you mean, "Should I suck him off"? If you mean should you give him oral sex, than it's the same thing as intercourse. If you think you are ready, go for it.
My personal opinion is that if you are going to do these things I would prefere you give him oral sex. Just because it isn't as emotionally scary.
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If you are this worried about having sex with your boyfriend then don't. Let him know you don't feel ready, and if he really loves you he will respect that. You are only thirteen and that is a VERY young age to loose your virginity. You don't want to make a mistake you will regret in the future. Don't let him make you feel pressured about any of this. In the end it is still your decision though.
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hey well umm i don't think you should have sex with him, or suck him off first you can like this stuff on yur lips if you suck him off. i forgot what its called... but anyways if you have sex with him you could get pregenant and that won't be good.. so you should tell him that you want to wait... & if he really loves you he'll respect you and won't have sex with you... because if you have sex with a guy that you like the chances of you and him being together aren't alot... so yeah i hope i helped!!! bye!!!
nikita
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If you have to ask us, you probably aren't ready to do either, and he should underatand. If it's your first time it'll probably hurt, the amount of pain varies from girl to girl. It shouldn't bleed for long, if at all, probably around the same amount of time a cut on your finger bleeds.
Do you know what went down with all those other girls your boyfriend slept with?
On a completely different note, by "i will never try to masterbait" do you mean you've never masturbated, or you will never masturbate? Because not only is masturbation healthy, but it is the key to good sex (If you don't know how to get yourself off, how can you expect your partner to?)
If you do make love with your boyfriend, please, please, please be responsible, use a condom (Latex or polyurethane only, and it's a good idea to get the pre-lubricated ones, because lube decreaces the chances of the condom tearing, if you buy your own lube, steer clear of petroleum-based products because it breaks down latex. Also before you use it make sure it hasn't expired!) and I highly, highly suggest using another form of birth controll (like the pill or the patch) but you need a perscription, wich you can get from your family doctor (but, depending on your local laws, they may tell your parents, wich may or may not be a problem) or you can go to a teen health clinic (like planned parenthood) and see if you can get some there.
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So have fun and be safe, the bottom line is to be sure you're really ready before you go all the way. :) <3
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let me say somethin ok your boyfriend has had sex with many girls ok those girls he had sex with imagine how many those girls sex with and the chain goes on please don't have sex you'll regret because you too young because when you actually find a guys that really really loves you and your virginity you would've wished you waited... for emaple my boufriend is mad @ me for me not waitin because he knew how bad my x was and I loved my x but wow how my boyfriend now treats me I wished I waited because he perfect besides if you move on and get another boyfriend some don't like girls that lost it... besides your reputation like omg that girl is 13 she's a little girl... and if you get caught your mom will be dissaponted knowin that you disrespected the family and your house you know you wouldn't wanna turn your family down trust me I regret that I did... please wait when you wait for the right one you'll feel great.... hope I changed your mind =)
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I really don't think you should, I know people saying stds and pregnancy usually doesnt phase our generation anymore..but i have a sister that lost it to a guy who's had sex for awhile, the BIGGEST negative is that no matter what you will alawys be emotionally attatched to him bec thats just how girls are, but it wont be the same way.. it will be a LOT harder when yall fight and when yall break up if you do sometime..
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whoaa girl 13 years old? your like in what? 7th or 8th grade? no please don't have sex your not ready. wait until your older like 18 or 19 but not 13. if your boyfriend had sex with other girls.. then he has to be way older.. theres alot of risks with having sex which includes:
pregnancy
aids
hiv`s
herpes
and there might be some other risks that i don't know about
just plz wait until your older. hope i helped! xox melissa
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If your asking a bunch of strangers on a site if you should lose your virginity, then your not ready..13 is young..you have time.
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Don't let a guy manipulate you to lose your virginity. Sex can cause a whole lotta problems for a thirteen year old girl. Think about this. Do you want to lose your virginity? If no, don't do it. If yes, do it. Hope I helped.
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how old is your boyfriend? cuz i highly think he is haveing sex if he is the same age or close to your age. also if he is older do not have sex with him. cuz that might be all he wants.
i don't think your ready for sex at your age. and i'm more then suprised that someone as young as you is even thinking about sex. have you evem started havin periods yet?
sex is a BIG BIG BIG step in your life and your not ready for that or the heart break that may happen down the road.
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Hi, I think your a wee bit to young to be having sex. There are alot of things you can catch such as:
Pregnancy
HIV
STI's
and as for oral sex you can get the herps or small bumps around your lips. Maybe when your 16 or older you can maybe give it a bit of thought then but really your still to young and besides you need to get use to puberty (body change) an all. Besides have you even considered contraception? Daniel.
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Please DO NOT start having sex at your age. Your boyfriend is obviously a lot older than you. Also DO NOT suck him off - you don't know if he has any STDs. If he has had as many partners as he says then the chances are he could have contracted something.
You are only 13 and he will get into trouble with the police because sex at your age is illegal. There are so many reasons not to have sex:
HIV
STDs
Pregnancy
Getting a reputation for yourself.
Getting into trouble with the police.
Getting into trouble with your parents.
Your body is not mature enough to cope just yet.
Your emotions are not mature enough either.
The list can go on.
If he is asking you to "endure" a sexual encounter then he obviously doesn't respect you. The chances are he will have his wicked way and then dump you. His track record speaks volumes about the way he treats his girlfriends. He may even have a child hidden somewhere!
Please I am begging you to think long and hard before going any further into this relationship. I wish you all the very best and I hope you come to make the right decision.
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