If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok?? (link)
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Just as long as they're not TOO old. 45 and 18 is way too old. 35 and 18 is too old. It's ok in the eyes of the law as long as you're 18.
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Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head
www.poetrypoems.com/bleedingeverywhere give me feedback on my site and dont try to copy and paste cuz these are published
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It'd be better if it rhymed every other line,but it's a very dark poem and it tells a really sad story. I like it.
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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.
Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!
I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me. (link)
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Tell no one only if your brother in law doesn't even think about doing this again. If he makes ANY more advances toward you or you see him doing it to anyone else,tell your sister. If he said he's sorry,and you believe him,then don't say anything. But this one is so tough because there's always a chance he could do this again,if not to you,to somebody else. Tell your brother in law what he did was wrong and if he does it again,your ass is grass. Tell him if you hurt my sister,I'll make sure your ass fries in court. It also depends how old you are. If you're like 14 and hes 25,report this guy to the authorities. If he came out and admitted to it,and he said he was sorry,then believe him. But don't let this shit pass again.
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ok im 16 and i am pretty in shape. i am not extremely ripped but i have a nice figure. ive done a million sit ups and i know that i have a 6 pac just EGGING to pop out, but i need to lose a little bit of fat on my stomach for it to show a lot. whats a good, fast way to lose just a little bit of weight so that my abs will show a lot more? (link)
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You don't need to lose weight,you just have some flab that needs toning up. Do crunches in addition to the situps. And eat healthy. The six pac should pop out. But on a girl six pacs don't like that great. Flat stomachs do,but not ripped abs like that.
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my friends r mad at me and i do not know what to do they say i need to shut the F*** up but i have not talked to them and my other friends go online as my best friends name and sends me rude messages what should i do (link)
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Sounds like your friends are pissed off about something. You can choose not to find out what is and ditch em,which is what I'd do. Or you can ask them what it was that you supposedly did wrong,if you really like these people. To me,if they're not man enough to confront me about what's up,fuck em.
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i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee.. (link)
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Ask them to go somewhere again.
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how can i confront my like best friend that i hate it when me and her r goin out sumwhere lyke the movies or what ever that she has to bring a friend?? plesse help (link)
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Ask her why you and her can't have some time alone. Say the other person is cool and everything
(even if they're not) but ask her why she feels she has to bring along someone else.
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my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak? (link)
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You don't. If you say that,then she'll say,"You can't control me. You're not my father." Then you'll be labeled as a controlling bastard. Harsh,huh? Well it's the truth. Women hate being told what to do. Don't be bothered by this as long as she's not doing anything with the other guys. Sounds like she's just a tease,which pisses guys off.
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I was outside helping my sister out when my brothers friend Jason was outside working on his truck. Im 17, hes 22. We always just play around and flirt back and forth, like he will make kissing faces in the air towards me and I will do it back. He even helped me with my science project. Well he called me over to where he was and the first thing he said is "when are you ever gonna go out with me, I wanna be with you?" My jaw like totaly dropped because I NEVER expected that. I told him that its not nice to mess around with my feelings like that and he swore up and down that he was being serious & that I could call my brother and ask him if they ever talked about me . My brother told me that they talk about me and that hes cool with us going out, but my brother always jokes around with me. When I walk by my brothers shop Jason always checks me out and whistles at me and stuff.
So my question is:
Do you think hes being serious? I mean IM really attracted to him.. Is he only in it for the ass? What do you think of the age diff?
thnx. and sorry its kinda long........
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Yeah,I think he's interested in you. But,it's also definitely possible that he just wants sex. The age difference is a bit problem,but if you date for a couple of years it won't really matter. If he whistles at you,that's not too suave,but at least he's showing interest. I say give him a shot and if it doesn't work out,oh well. Won't be the last relationship that fails. Just don't have sex with him.
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I've bee talking to this guy for a while and he's so awesome. I'm starting to really like him too, but he has a girlfriend and they'v been together for like 2 years. I'm not trying to get between them though...but I really like him. He told me that he doesn't like me more than a friend, but he keeps saying how hott and sexy I am...What do I do...? (link)
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He's setting it up to where when his other relationship fucks up,you'll be right there waiting for him. Ideally,he'd like a threesome with both of you. I would. Again,I'll ask the question of why can't he just date both of you and be honest about dating the other? That's what I'd do. At our age,don't be serious in dating. You'll have your married life to rot in hell over.
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I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me! (link)
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No truth to that at all. I don't think you're not having a boyfriend has anything to do with your chest. Feel lucky that you're not in a relationship. They're stupid,take a lot of time and tie you down. Date around. If you see an interesting guy,you should go talk to the son of a bitch. Breast size is not a real big thing to all men. It isn't to me.
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hey well my prob is...well i think im starting to like my bestfriend's ex. like she's told me that she wouldnt care who he went out with but she still would want to know whats going on with him and all. she doesnt know i like him or anything i want her to know but i dont know how id tell her. and like I have a boyfrend and i dont wanna break up with him. her ex seems to be flirting back with me and all he has a g/f but shes kinda cheating on him and he doesnt know. i wouldnt know if he would wanna go out with me, i have a boyfriend that i love till death and i dont know how to get rid of the feeling that i like my bestfriend's ex. so yeah what do i do (link)
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Well,who says you have to break up with your boyfriend? Can't you just go out with this guy once and be honest to both of them that you're seeing the other? You're not married. Give both of them an equal chance.
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A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.
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You're learning how life works kid. Looks get you noticed.Personality gets you a nice friendship. And you don't want the nice guy. You say you do,but come on,don't give me that bullshit. If you did,then why don't you start a conversation with Gerald Goldman in the back who makes A's and has pimples on his face.
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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?! (link)
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Nobody had to take a shower at my school. There's no law that says you have to take a shower in high school.
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I'm 15 years old & I have an over protective mom. She makes sure my shirt doesn't show my chest at all and my pants do not show any of my underwear. She barely even lets me out with my friends! I mean, its summer and I wanna stay out late with my friends alot. Its not like I have to study or get up early for school! I just want to have a little more freedom since I'm getting older and have always been responsible and never got into too much trouble. What should I do? (link)
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Heaven forbid that your pants don't show your underwear. She's being a little out of line by not letting you go out with your friends. Talk to her about that and ask why she doesn't trust you. But if you're gunna dress like that,I can kinda see why she doesn't. What makes you think that people wanna see your thong? Would you wanna see my boxers?
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My life is full of sadness,hatred,and sorrow.
My life is full of lonleyness and pain.
It's full of people who care and love me.
It's full of people who hate and despise me.
They pick on me cause of my
skin,hair,personality,figure,and how i carry my-self.
They don't like me cause im diffrent.
I have no true friends.
I have no one who is there for me.
I don't know what true love feels like.
I don't know how it feels to really care for someone.
I don't know how some one can care for me.
When all i do is bring people hatred,and stress.
I don't know what my purpose of being here really is.
Is it to bring people pain.
Or am i just here to take up space. (link)
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I love it. It's how I feel most days.
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I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't.. (link)
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2 1/2 weeks and you already wanna choke on his cock? Yeah it's a little young and it's way too early to be doing that in a relationship.
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OK. So I had a dentist appointment this morning and my mom, dad, and brother were all working. So, my dad called my neighbor 'Don' to ask if he could take me to the dentist. He said it was fine and he was happy to do the favor. I could have rode my brothers bike there if I absolutely HAD to...but I wasn't thrilled when my mom suggested the idea. My mom just called and said she was embaressed when she found out that 'Don' had driven me there and back. I don't like it when people are mad at me and now I feel guilty and my happy mood just went to bad. Am I being selfish or is my mom over reacting? (link)
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How are you being selfish? Your dad told the guy to do it. Your mom is being stupid because she didn't think it was polite for this guy to do you a favor. But,yeah,she's just being stupid and selfish.
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im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him? (link)
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Relationships suck,don't get involved in them. No,when you're 14,you're not gunna be with your boyfriend forever. Not a snowball's chance in hell. If this guy's gunna kill himself just because you're not going out with him,he's seriously fucked in the head. Get him help and yes,dump him. It's not that he cares a lot,it's that he's a real psycho. Jesus,if you went on a trip(heaven forbid) he'd be without you for a few days. AHHHHHHHHH. Tell this guy to see a shrink,fast.
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my family is very racist and very controlling when it comes to mixed relationships and recently i started goin ot wit an 18 year purtirican/black guy. i am italian/mexican and im 14 my family stilll does not no and i dont no what i should do bout this i wanna be with him but i dont want my family to disown me at all. what should i do ? (link)
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This guy is also way too old for you. He's gunna want sex soon and you're not ready for that shit. When you're 14,you still have to pretty much play by their rules. When you get older,if you want to go out with a guy of a dfferent race,if you're family is too racist to except it,hell with them. They'll get over it.
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