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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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Ok so i havw this freind. and we always say that we are going out... its a joke but sometimes we will touch e/o and stuff. my other freinds do the same. so, today she touched me like kinda near my vagina area and i think i got horny and all excited. does this mean i'm a lezbian? does it mean we are lezbians? please answer.. i'll rate fives!

This doesn`t really mean that your a lesbian.. you could be bisexual and who knows maybe even straight! I mean i understand the playing around part i`ve done it but later on down the line i developed feelings for a girl so then i came to the conclusion that i was bisexual.. but i`d say if you have feelings and think about doing sexual thinks with her then Yes you could be a lesbian but if you also like males your bisexual.. if your comfortable with expermenting then go for it nothing wrong with it.. ♥ Dez

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i need to know where to get some playboy pics at..i love playboy...so any good answers i will rate high...♥ playboy288

Well i answered this question for you but you can check Photobucket and also Google,Xanga and myspace!! just type in the key word playboy/playboy background or playboy icons.. ♥ Dez

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So recently I've been waking up and finding that on my legs/arms, random bruises are appearing on my body. I'm at the point that I cheak my arms and legs before I go to bed & think back to if I hit anything. Im wondering if this could be a sign for anything that I should be worried about medically, or maybe I'm just paranoid? Thanks & I'll rate.

Maybe your a rough sleeper.. it doesn`t sound like anything to be worried about to me.. One time i was sleeping and i busted my nose like my nose was bruised and everything and i couldn`t believe i didn`t wake up cuz i hate pain plus i`m a big baby.. ♥ Dez

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ook.. i've shaved down there, ya know, but like when i have there have been like little red bumps ((like razor burn or w/e)) in some spots.. what are some ways i could shave down there? what do you reccommend?

I reccommend buying a new razor.. Use conditionor instead of like shaving cream/soap.. that makes it softer and smoother in my opinion.. Shave the direction the hair grows in that`ll also help.. Take your time.. ♥ Dez

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where did you get playboy backgrounds at..i really want to know...♥ playboy288

I`m pretty sure i got it off Photobucket.com! their was many on their.. ♥ Dez

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Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?

♥ Thanks.

Yes!! i don`t see anything wrong with it.. ♥ Dez

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Does anyone know a cute site for backgrounds for your advice column, not including the backgrounds from advicenators? Perhaps websites with christmas ones?

:)

Photobucket.com
Xanga.com and Myspace.com

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okay so me and my boyfriend are perfect for eachother we have been together for almost a year and a half... well he really wanted this snowmoblie coat so i ordered it for his ,, it was $250.00 tho so i dont just wanna give it to him like in wrapping paper i want it to be special but i cant think of anything cute to give it to him for christmas? any ideas

Lol this isn`t really something cute.. Well I don`t know how you`d feel about this but here it goes..
How about you get him to come over and you wear and naked and come out and like kiss him or something.. He deff. Like that hun.. But thats your decison.. ♥ Dez

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i have horrible grades. and i dont know how. i try hard. but i have to miss a lot of school. our school has a rule about after 11 absents' you may loose class credits. im a sophmore. i try hard and im very smart. i have easy classes. but i think the bad grades are because of the missing school. you know. which most of the time wasnt my fault. i was in a really bad wreck. my car rolled 6 times. and i broke a rib and slightly punctured a lung. adn broke my collar bone. and had 311 stitches in my left arm, and 83 staples in my head. so obviously a bad wreck. my doctor ordered me to stay out of school for a week or two. so i did for a week in a half. and that was 7 school days. then i got really sick. adn missed like 3 days and then sick again and missed a couple more days. my princepal has told me i need to go to school. but i was sick and couldnt even hardly get out of bed. what would you do to get your grades up if you missed a lot of school
ill rate high

Well you should get all your make up work.. Possibly get a tutor if needed.. Umm Go in early to work with the teachers..Also try not missing anymore days and possibly get your parents to disscuss this with the priciple about the missing school and stuff.. ♥ Dez

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I've been seeing this guy for a few months and and we have a great time together. Yesterday he asked me to tell him how i feel about him. For some reason that is very hard for me to do. I know it has to do with past relationships and not wanting to get hurt. I really care about him and don't want to push him away but i don't know how to break down the wall that i've created. I don't know how to put into words what i feel for him. Please help me.

Well practice writing it down til it sounds and looks right to you.. Thats what i did when i opened up to my boyfriend.. ♥ Dez

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what happens if my pores are open? is it good or bad?

Its a bad thing.. There is cleansers for it.. If they aren`t clean it can cause black or white heads.. Keep your face clean! ♥ Dez

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ok there is this guy that i like alot but he has a girl friend should i wait for them to break up or just move on ?

Deff. Move on.. You don`t know when or if they`ll break up so that could be a waste of time to wait around... Maybe try being just friend if possible with this guy.. ♥ Dez

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What are some cute Christmas songs? Like--author/singer/band & song name please? I'm in a Christmas kind of mood =) Thanks

Destiny`s child*christmas album
Ashanti*christmas album..
♥ Dez

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ok i have been thinking about running away for awhile. and well i ave tried to before but the girl that wa going with me decided she wanted to go back(she was chickening out) and so well i walked her back and we were almost already to a different town when she decided to go back and well i got caught and my parents didnt realize that i was trying to run away until i told my grandma when i stayed at her house for the weekend. and i asked my mom if i could live with my grandma and my mom was gonna let me cause i told her that it would make me happier and my grandma totally understood and comforted me all the way.well my mom was actually gonna let me live with my grandma she just said well i will have to transfor u to the other scholl. but my stupid ass dad had to say no and that i was their responsibility not my grandparents. well now my grandparents dont hae much money. so i have been thinking about living with my dad's best friend chan. i know this is long and im sorry i am almost done:-( well anyway my parents tottaly trust chan cuz he is like my dad i call him dad all the time. anyway my question is i dont know where to go and all that stuff nd i am wanting to leave in january sometime. i just dont know where to go and ho to get there. any advice? i rate high please help me i really need it. :-(

Well since they trust and like your dad`s best friend how about talking to this guy first then see what he says then if you get a positive answer from him then get him and your parents to dicuss you living with him.. Dicuss why you don`t want to live at home.. you can`t just say you want to leave give them reasons of why your so unhappy living with your parents.. If possible save your money get a job and wait til you can move out yourself.. ♥ Dez

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ok my dad does weed and i just know my mom does it too. and well they are always saying how much they hate people that do drugs and here they do it. well i hear that if your parents smoke and stuff well the kids are liable to start and well i smoke ciggaretts and my parents dont know about it. my point is will i start doing drugs since they do? an help will work thanks jennie

No this doesn`t mean you`ll start doing drugs.. If your smart and you don`t want to do them then you won`t follow in your parents footsteps.. You`ll do what you feel is right whether they incourage you or not.. ♥ Dez

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i like this guy, but i dont know how to start a conversation with him. one thing he sits all the way on the other side of the classroom so it doesnt help!!!plz any advice plz

Well girl you better work up some courage to talk to this guy and don`t be so shy.. If you want to know and talk to him and possibly have a chance then your going to have to make a move some how.. Try say whats up in the hallway or a chance when you can say atleast hi.. yea i know it`ll be hard but this is the only way its going to work.. Maybe if you eat lunch at the same time try talking to him then.. ♥ Dez

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ok i am going to get my two friends christmas present but like i dnt know what to get them and i dont want to make anything but the point is i dont have that much money to pay for them so i was thinking about 10 dollars each 5s for everyone that anwsers

um..
Shirt
Dvd
Cd
Colonge/Perfum
gift card..*resturant/store
If they are females get them a stuff animal.. ♥ Dez

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if you have urin test. when it comes back would they be able to see if you were pregnant even if they weren't looking for it and would they tell you?

They`d have to be looking for it.. They`d most likely make you take a pregnancy test if they wanted to know if you was pregnant.. ♥ Dez

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hi it is me again i am still having problems with me and my boyfriend. last night i called him and he answeres the phone and i said hey what are you doing? you working? nuh-uh. i said so are you off work? nuh-uh.i said then what are you doing then? he goes nothhing really can you call me back later? i said yeah. and then i statred to say well he goes what i said never mind. and to top it all off i said bye he huh-huh Click. just like that. i thought he was cheating on me well i call his phone back and he doesnt answer. i called again and he still didnt answer. so i left a message saying look call me back b/c i need to talk to you it is important bye. and i left with my mom you could say and got back and he had called telling my friend mike why did i call being a bitch to him on the phone? well i call him back and i said whats your problem he goes nothing a long story. then he tells my friend earlyier he almost got arrested but i am so confused because how am i supposed to know what should i do g2g
thanks nikki

Usually if the guy doesn`t seem the same as usual or don`t say you name then he most likely is cheating.. umm i don`t see why he wouldn`t call back and mention this to you before anybody else.. I`m not sayin he was cheatin cuz i really don`t know.. but that would be a sign of it.. Ask him why he almost got a arrested.. And you`ll most likely figure out if its a lie and stuff.. ♥ Dez

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Well, I've never worn a bra at night, and my boobs seem to be perky enough, but I was wondering what most people do or should do? My mom says its not good, but some of my friends do it.

I sleep in a bra.. Most of the time a sports bra cuz the wire can bother me a bit.. But if i don`t wear a bra they go everywhere.. I have 38 double D`s so they can be out of control at night plus i`m a wild sleeper.. people say you shouldn`t because it can cause breast cancer and stuff but i also heard thats a meth.. I get checked and i have been sleeping in my bra for years.. ♥ Dez

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