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I've been seeing this guy for a few months and and we have a great time together. Yesterday he asked me to tell him how i feel about him. For some reason that is very hard for me to do. I know it has to do with past relationships and not wanting to get hurt. I really care about him and don't want to push him away but i don't know how to break down the wall that i've created. I don't know how to put into words what i feel for him. Please help me.
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well you need to realize that he is not them."them"as in the ones that did hurt you. he may be an authentic man. he might just be the one who wont hurt you. you need to stop doing that to yourself because you are a slave to your past. move forward and experience love to fullest baby. you deserve it. you pushing men away only lets the men from your past be the winners and YOU become the loser. be daring in life, take a risk. true love is often found when you risk things you normally wouldnt to find your destiny. dont hold back. dont play mind games. thats childplay. let him know how you feel. of couse be a lil mysterious cause men like a good mystery.whatever ya do have fun ,live and triumph in the fact that you have moved on from the pain and have licked your filthy lil wounds those assholes gave you.
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I'd recommend coming clean and explaining to him why it's hard for you to explain how you feel. Explain to him, almost what you said right here, that you don't want to push him away but you have some, eh, insecurities about it because of past experiences. That's my humble suggestion. Communication is the key to any relationship, so be sure to keep it open and clear with him, and you both should be fine. Good luck.
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Well practice writing it down til it sounds and looks right to you.. Thats what i did when i opened up to my boyfriend.. ♥ Dez
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tell him that it depends on how he feels about you. if he says he likes you,then tell him that you like him, then go into a passionate kiss. if you start the kiss instead of him, it shows that you really mean it.
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if you really do like him then just tell him ! even though you are afraid about getting hurt, just risk it. after all, you're only a teenager once !! so just live it up a little and see where this relationship will guide you ..
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
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