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ok well i went out with this guy fir like 2 days then we broke up and we completely stopped talkin well now we r talkin again and i like him again the only problem is i only talk to him on the internet. i wanna talk to him on the phone but the last time i called him we really didnt talk and i felt retarded for callin him. wut should i do? please help i rate high!!

He doesn't want to talk. He doesn't care about that sort of thing. He only likes your body. I'm sorry but it's true.

I wasn't trying to be mean, that was my honest advice.

Is it the stupidest thing to want a baby when u had a miscarriage earlier on in the year, when earlier in your life u had bad things going on with your dad but knowing your mum would give you full support, having the bestest boy friend in the world u’ve been with him for a year and just wanting something to fill that hole in your heart you just want something more to love.. at the age of nearly 15..?

It's not stupid. You can't help how you feel. A lot of girls your age feel like they "want a baby". But a baby will not make your life happier. It will not give you the love you want, you will only have to sacrifice your life to help it. Look at the good things you have already and be thankful for them. You do not need another person to take care of right now, you should only be looking after yourself. I'm seventeen and I often feel like I want to have a child, but I have decided to wait until after college to get knocked up. You have a nice mother and a wonderful boyfriend, you do not need a baby at this time. If you really feel hopeless and you think you can't go on...get a cat or a puppy. They are just as adoreable as babies, and cats even bathe themselves.

EDIT: Of course that is just my opinion. It is your decision in the end.

i've decided to start scrunching my hair, but see..my hairs really really curly, so if i let it dry naturally it juss poofs & i can't seem to get the 'wet look' & i'm not totally sure what to do, so if anyone has any tips er anything to help, its an easy 5 =)

thanks!

I have the same situation. There's this stuff called Special Effects, but you won't really be able to tell that's the name. It has an FX on the top and then says "special effects" in really tiny letter. The thing that jumps out is that it says "Curl Booster" and under that it says "Fixative Gel". Put it in your hair after you shower and let it air dry. For the first couple of periods at school your hair will look like you just got out of the shower, but it will dry long before the day is over and you will have really beautiful ringlets and no frizz at all.

Can anyone recommend any good books? Preferably mystery, romance, teen, or psychological books that are fairly easy to read? If so, can you give a brief description of what it's about. Thank you.

A Series Of Unfortunate Events-three children are orphaned when their home goes up in flames and are being pursued by the evil Count Olaf. I know they're in the children's section, but I am also a senior in high school and I do have a high reading level and I LOVE these books.

Gossip Girl-It's about teenagers in New York and there's a girl posting about their lives on the internet. It's really good!!

Fushigi Yugi-umm...it's easy...because it's a graphic novel! *cheesy grin*

Okay, that's all I can think of. Have reading-licious fun!

Could someone tell me what standard/general form and point-slope form are? And what the formulas for them are?

Thanks!

I think you should ask your teacher when you have problems like this one. If your teacher is a bitch, well, that's something you need to get over.

You know the gossip girl series?
Can anyone tell me what they are about?
Thanks!

Well, I have only read two of the books but basically they follow a group of teens named Blair, Serena, Jen, Dan, Venessa, and Nate as they go about their daily life being rich people (well...some of them are rich) and going to school in New York's upper east side. Little do they know, the details of everything they do is being posted on the internet by the mysterious Gossip Girl. It has a lot of sex and drug use. They are very easy to read but really, really good.

where can i get music off the internet? not anything like limewire or anything that i have to download?

Myspace.

Ohkay, please no stupid answers. But one of my guy friends said that "there is nothing better than to hear a girl moan when ya finger her". does it come natural to moan or do you jus do it to make the guy happy?

Well, the reason he is fingering you is to please you, and the moaning I guess makes it seem like you are pleased. But you won't just moan because it feels good. You have to consciously do it. But it's very, very easy to moan and make it sound real. What he doesn't know won't hurt him. Hey, also, sometimes moaning turns you on more as well so it's not really like you're faking it, you're just trying to make it as enjoyable as possible for both of you.

if someone u know has diabeties and u accidently/purposly drink out of their cup that they drank out of, what could happen if anything?no smartass answers nd btw, this aint for me

Um, how can you accidentally do something on purpose? Anyways you can't catch anything. No matter if it's an accident or on purpose.

Ok well I have light brown hair, freckles, green eyes, and pale skin. I don't know how to do my make up. I don't really want to use foundation only bc I don't want to have a "mask" on my face. I don't know what eye make up and stuff to use. Plz help.

Don't use makeup. It clogs your pores and makes you get major zits! Plus most people think it looks UGLY. That includes guys. They like the natural look. So don't use makeup.

can someboday plz rite somethin so dat i can start to have a orgasim. cuz when i read things that are really sexy and stuff, it helps me ta start. thanks-im goin outta mi mind

Get a life.

Ok, my name is Adrianna and i'm fifteen. And I (Obviously) need some help. See, people at my school think i'm a poser. And it really pisses me off. Because I have NEVER talked to any of the people that call me it. So they base it all on the way I dress. Call me crazy but, I have always bought things based on if I liked them or not. So I shop everywhere. Hot topic, Abercrombie and Fitch, JCPennys, hell even the thrift store if I really like it. So like, I want people to understand that i'm not trying to be something, i'm not trying to be a "Punk" or a "Prep" I could honestly give a shit less. I understand that not everyone is going to like you but, it really upsets me that people don't like me based on the clothes I wear. I don't know what to do. I want these people to just stop.

Ugh, I know this is stupid and cliched. So bear with me.

Okay, the best thing to do is just deal. You know those idiots are wrong, so try not to care. To me a poser is not someone who wears certain clothes. It is someone who cares so much what other people think that they try to change themselves. If you show that you care about their dumb opinions you are just proving them right. So stop caring what other people think and be an individual.

Ok I wanna put some good songs on my iPod...if you know any good ones then answer to this ??...i rate 5s for good answers..i listen to everything but rock and classical..thanks LOADS!!!

God, I don't know. Whatever you like!!

I have a friend, well he's actually a sisters friend, but I would also consider him my friend and I'm sure he would do the same. He's in 9th grade and I'm in 10th. One day while we were out we were on the topic of God and he said he didnt believe in God. He says he thinks Jesus existed but that he was just a normal guy. He said if God existed then he wouldn't have diabetes.

Now I want to educate him about God and help him accept him into his life. I feel it is my duty as a Christian to guide him to a better life with God, because you are supposed to help the people who don't believe. He is a really sweet boy, and I told him that I was going to teach him and he said "you can try but it won't happen" so if he said I could try I'm going to make every effort too!

My problem is I don't know how to approach it. How should I start off with this teaching and showing? I've considered asking my pastor but I decided to come here first. Thanks for any help!

Get over it! He doesn't believe in God. He doesn't have to. There's a little something called Freedom of Religion. I know you think you're being nice "teaching" him about God and "enlightening" his life but listen, all my life I never believed in God and when people tried to teach me how to, it felt like I was being emotionally stabbed. If he is going to believe in God then let him come to that decision by himself. His religious beliefs are none of your business.

Why did you ask for advice if you had it so well planned out? I was telling you how people honestly feel when you try to teach them about God. Don't rate someone a one if they give you an answer you don't want to hear!

Last night my boyfriend fingered me. I really uncomfortable with it at first, but I just thought what the heck and was okay with it. At first he only did one finger, then he tried two. When it was only one finger it was alright, pleasurable in some ways, but when he got two fingers in it becaome quite uncomfortable. It hurt a whole lot. I started wincing and became all tense. I think that he got the wrong impression and though I was liking it, but I wasn't it hurt terribly. I don't know what to do because I know he'll try two fingers again next time. It's not supposed to be comfortable like that, is it? Why was it go painful?

You were probably too tight and not ready for two fingers. He needs to know about this, so tell him to keep using one finger for a longer time than he did before. If he adds another finger and it still hurts say "That hurts." It's your body, you shouldn't let him do anything to you that you don't like.

whats high mainntence or whatever? i duno how to spell it lol.

A spellchecker or dictionary.com can help you with spelling. For future reference it's "maintenance". It can mean a couple of things. The literal meaning is that there's a road, building, or hallway that needs to be cleaned a lot or seriously worked on. The other meaning is like, somebody who's really rich and use to being pampered by other people.

A friend of mine (14) is pregnant and I want to know what kinds of things she can/can't do. Like, what foods are best/bad? And what activities should she avoid? Anything that would be a tip to help me be supportive. Thanks!

Well I don't know why you're worried about it. She's the one who is pregnant so she should be researching this. Anyways, I do not know off hand because I have never been pregnant but there are millions of books about pregnancy just go to Barnes and Noble or the library and get some. Also, she should definitely talk to her doctor about it. You're supposed to go to the doctor all the time when you're pregnant!!

Okay my boyfriend and I had sex a couple of times. I was a virgin when we first had sex. Okay, it hurt when it first went in then after awhile it stopped. The next day there wasn't any blood. None of the times we had sex there was no blood, so what does this mean my cherry didn't pop, or if he does it harder will I bleed?

Not everybody bleeds, and you might have already lost your hymen a long time ago. You might not have even been born with it. Do you want to bleed?

okay... can you get stds from someone like for example if they dont have one? any names? i know its a weird question

No. For crying out loud. How can somebody transmit a disease to you if they don't have it?

is it posibble that you can be on your period but still be pregnant??

No. Your period stops when you are pregnant. You will probably feel very hormonal and you might get a little fluid in your panties, but like I said your period stops when you are pregnant.

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