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My boyfriend and i have been together i miswell say a year and 5 months and we are some what getting tired of each other and we fight and argue and at some points its so hard to hang on to the relationship. he was my first love but after so long everything gets so old and you want new things, new people - we are in high school we shouldnt settle down.. ya know? so whats ur advice... itd b very hard getting used to ont having *him* call constantly and stuff.. it'd be a dramatic change =( =) (link)
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I completely disagree. I think you should end it. You're both bored, you both fight all the time. Trust me, none of you are really benefiting from this relationship. High school is too soon to settle down. At least take a break. There's no law saying you can never start up your relationship again if you both want to. Everyone is afraid of change, but it's something we all have to deal with if we want to discover who we truly are.
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Well here is the situation me and my girlfriend need new things to do....like I want her to be just super impressed by me and I try hard all the time but I do the same things over and over again and again so can anyone tell me what girls really like to do like honestly what can I do to make her super happy she is like happy but I want her to be the happiest girl ever so anyone give me good ideas on what to do on like dates and stuff........we are 17 and 15 and we live by lake superior so that should help someone give me ideas and like walks and stuff like that we do that and stuff so help me with more in depth ideas thanks alot everyone for your great advice it means a lot.....good times....later (link)
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Well, it seems like you really like her. If your worried about her getting bored, constantly try new things with her. My minds running on empty right now. What type of things is she into? Try not so much to impress her, just prevent her from becoming bored. Try something that would give you guys an adrenaline rush. I'm not sure what your town has to offer.
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why is everyone so obsessed with giving hand jobs or all this other sexual stuff. I don't get it...to me it just seems so disgusting. (link)
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agreed, but some can't help it. It's almost like choosing who you love, it's impossible. You can't prevent loving someone you truly love, or force yourself to love someone you don't. You can never choose how you feel. And some people are just perverted and immature.
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Ok, there is this guy and we are really good friends. We are such good friends that it almost out does any of my other friends that are girls. We talk about everything and you can never split us apart. But he has a girlfriend and i am not jelous or anything its just that he spends more time with me than he does with her. I want them to be together and ever since they started going out he has kinda ignored me until now! Once summer break hit so did he. We have done somethin every single night this week and i really like the attention but i dont want his girlfriend to be mad. Now we are going to Grand Rapids together to watch his girlfriend perform. What do you think i should do just keep goin along with it or ask him why he never spends more time with is girl friend. Help me
Signed confused (link)
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Well, confused, it sounds like you got a great thing going. If he's your best friend, enjoy all the time you spend together, because it won't last forever. If his girlfriend is getting jealous of the time you spend together, she'll simply tell him. This is assuming she loves him, if she doesn't, she may just end it all together. And if that's the case, it probably wasn't going to last long anyway. Enjoy it while you can, it sounds like you got a great friend.
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OK. Well I'm not really like low self esteem or anything cause I know I'm just as good as all the other idiots out there but I guess I'm just tired of being treated like dirt. There are some really nice guys at school who make me feel good but there are also the not so good people who make me feel like crap. This guy who I barely even know and I accidently tripped during a basketball scrimage hates me and keeps calling me ugly and stuff. I mean I know that I don't need them or anything but I just want to know when some guy will come along and make me feel really god. But basically I hate everyone at my school...OK maybe thats not true I actually like almost all of them but you think it would kill them to be nice for once? Im not really asking for advice but some encouragement that the world isnt as crappy as it seems would be nice. (link)
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Well, the world, as I see it, is pretty crappy. But chances are, you'll find that the rude people are rude because they are too self-involved, and they can't see past themselves. The number of people who are like this is relatively large, but your encounters with them are short and few. The nice guys out there are the ones you will eventually see more of. Just continue to brush off the a**holes. School doesn't last forever.
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This is a long one. Okay. So there is this guy. I met him a few years ago. At the end of eighth grade. I'm now finishing junior year. But I knew as soon as I saw him that I liked him. A lot. Well, the summer after eighth grade, we ended up "dating." We talked on the phone for a few hours almost evey night. We were really good friends. But a few weeks later, he "broke up with me." It was more of a mutual thing. We never saw eachother 'cause he lived on the opposite side of town (only a few minutes away) but since we were all of 13, we couldn't drive to see eachother. So we decided, since we were more like friends, we should just leave it at that. Over the next few years, my like for him grew to more. I felt like i was falling in love. At the beginning of sophomore year, a group of friends went to six flags great america for fright fest. The wo of us ended up cuddling all night and it seemed to maybe be going somewhere, since this had never happened in our year and a half of friendship. But then i was told through a mutual friend that he didn't want a girlfriend right now. I was upset with him. Partially because he didn't tell me himself. Partially because I felt kind of betrayed. I know, it's silly, but i was 15 and had, like, no experience. Well, a week later, he got me to sit down with him and talk. He said now was not a good time for him to have a girlfriend because he was stressing about school and stuff, it was towards the end of the semester. But he said he really liked me... a lot. And he felt bad about leading me on. So we were friends again. Over the next few months, there would be random times at movie nights at friends' houses that we ould just start holding hands and cuddling, but nothing ever came of it. Over the last few months of sophomore year through the first few months of junior year, we started to distance. He was dating some girls but he stopped telling me about some of the more important things in his life. We didn't talk on the phone anymore. Then I went to California on a choir trip this past spring break. We started texting back and forth. He was very blatantly flirting with me, and I with him. We made plans to hang out when I got back. He would call me occasionally while I was gone, just to talk. When I got back, we decided to hang out. We didn't know what to do, since there's not a whole lot to do in our town, so we ended up making out in the back of his car for a few hours. Then the next weekend, we made plans ro go to this charity concert our school was holding. But he got stuck babysitting his little brother, so I went over to his house that night and the same thing happened. Only this time he tried to push things farther. Not all the way, but farther than I was comfortable with. And I told him so. He said that was okay, and backed off a bit. But then he'd bring it up, like, every hour. I told him no, and he didn't try to force it. The next weekend, I went over to his houes again, and he tried to push things farther again. This time it was REALLY hard for me to stop him. I didn't really want to. But I wasn't ready to go any farther than we had. And his parents were upstairs. The next weekend, I decided that I had really been the one who had called him to "hang out." He'd never called me. So I didn't call him. However, my friend stole my cell while I was at her house and texted him about what he was doing for prom. It was soming up in about a month. He avoided the topic. A few days later, a mutual friend, (not the same one as before. This one is one of my best friends. We've known eachother forever) told me that she had talked to him while I was in California. He called her asking if she wanted to fool around because he was horny and he knew she'd probably be willing. Trying to be a good friend and knowing how I feel about him, told him to call me. He said, he didn't think he could do that because he knew I liked him and he didn't want to hurt me. Well, when she talked to him while we were fooling around, he said he took her advice. He also said that other than friendship, he had no feelings for me whatsoever and what we did meant nothing. She yelled at him and he said he was just taking her advice. She still feels terrible about it. She thought maybe she could set us up. He never said anything to me. (He also told my friend that he slept with his ex. They broke up about a month/a month and a half bafore we hooked up. They'd only been dating for a few weeks.) Then a few weeks after that, he told me in gym class one day that he really needed to talk to me, but we had to go do gym stuff so he couldn't. I asked him what he needed to talk to me about a few days later, but he said he knew it was important but he forgot what it was. Then I had this whole conversation one night with the mutual friend. She said, first of all, that when they had that conversation after he and I, he said, he had thought he was the first guy I had ever kissed (he thought I would have told him if I had kissed anyone when said kiss would have happened because we were friends) but he had a feeling he wasn't. He was right. During this past Halloween, at a friend's co0ed sleepover, I made out with some random guy in a desparate attempt to get over the other guy since I was having such a hard time with it. I regret it completely. She also said that he considered our me his first girlfriend when we went out after eighth grade. And that he really liked me all of sophomore year but he was afraid to ask me out because he didn't know if I still liked him. He felt I was distancing myself from him. And I was. I was TRYING to get over him. Marvel at my lack of success. He found out a few days ago about me and my random Halloween guy. But he still doesn't know who it was. He spent an hour trying to get me to tell him who it was. I was also in a bad mood that day so I was kinda mean, and when he asked if I was mad at him, I told him that I was. I'm surprised that he didn't even guess that I might have been mad at him before now. I really don't know what to do. Part of me is really mad at him for what he did, but part of me doesn't want to ruin our friendship even though he did what he did. I don't know what all of this means or what to do. (link)
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Keep in mind that he's probably Hormones in solid form. I would consider this while you look at him in a boyfriend sense. He sounds like he's going through some problems while, at the same time, his hormones are in overdrive. I don't think starting a relationship with him again would be the wisest choice, considering I really doubt he knows what or who he wants right now. I would just stay close friends. To add to that, he commonly fears leading you on, so pursuing him right now would probably end in heart break. I would just stay friends, if that's possible now.
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whats up wit this whole poser thing i just dont get it people r age r just tryin to figure out what they want ot be like im 14 and a girl and i recently start going out wit my boyfriend he is so sweet and so funny and hes what youd call a skater and yeah i like all that skater kinda stuff like punk rock and metal music and sk8tbording and all that but i dress in ambercrombie and ae and armini and goochie and all that kinda stuff but all that pop music and crap just hurts my head now people are starting to get mad at me cause im going out wit my b/f sum of the bikers at my school are all like you shouldnt be going out wit him hes not a biker ( my last boyfriend was a bmx biker so i know all the bikers) and then all this people have started calling me a poser cause this girl saw me in zumies wit my friend and b/f and it jsut makes me mad its not like they have any say in what im doin but I jsut wanted to know why do people think its any of there bisnnes
thanks bunchs
~*~ Me ~*~* (link)
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The only people who make fun of others for being a "Poser" are the ones so caught up in their own image, if they don't they feel something may damage it. The only type of poser I can think of is someone who is so caught up in what other's think, they can't form an opinion of their own. And I still don't call them posers, I hate that word. You don't sound like a poser to me, as long as you have your own opinion and stick to it.
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i like this guy...lets call him, um, Jack(not his real name). So I think Jack likes me. Last year his friend told me he did, but I don't know how true that was. This year we're in two classes together and we talk sometimes. Once he threw a hacky-sack at me because he's a Red Sox fan and I'm a Yankees fan. He says that 'he's out to get all the Yankees fans'. So we throw little paper balls and pens and stuff at each other...sort of flirting. I really like him, but just because he throws stuff at me (lol) doesn't mean he likes me. He could be just flirting and not have it mean anything-what I mean is he could just be playin' as my friend or whatever. That's what I don't know. Help! If you need more info, ask or email me at epic2004@charter.net. PLEEZ HELP!
signed:
~usherluva07~ (link)
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Chances are he likes you. Most guys who have female friends have them because they had a crush on them at some point in time, and eventually missed their opportunity and became friends. Of course that could be just me. I don't flirt with girls I'm not attracted to. I would definately keep flirting, and if he still flirts back, he definately likes you.
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Ok, for all the people who answered the question about the guy writing his number in my year book, when I call him what should I say? (link)
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Ask him to a movie or party, etc.
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Does a guys height affect their penis size ? If so , what do you think a 175+ cm tall guys penis size is ? Btw , i'm just curious , and i'm a girl . (link)
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I'm short, so I hope it doesn't matter. I'm also half asian, so if any rumors about size in comparison to anything else are true, then I'd be screwed. So, I don't think so. Then again, I've never compared and contrast with anyone else, or measured for that matter.
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my cat snores....is that normal??!?! lol
(btw she has asthma) (link)
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If your worried that she's having trouble breathing, try getting her to sleep in a different area. I wouldn't be too worried about it. If she starts weezing, then move her to a better sleeping location, but snorings fine.
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There is this guy who I can't stop thinking about and my BFF told me that he like me and was going to ask me out. I didn't believe her until one of his best buds told me the same thing. I was going to ask him myself but I really don't like asking guys out. So my friend told me not to cause he was going to ask me out at the end of the week. Well really I thought it was impossible for he to like me but he started talking to me more. Well the week passed and he didn't ask me out. now it summer break and I won't see him until August 4. I have his Phone# cause he told me to call him in my year book. I've tried but I didn't get an answer. What should I do. P.S. I'm 14 soon to be 15. (link)
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I agree. A guy would never put his number in a girl's year book unless he liked her. Try calling him again, leave a message if he's not there.
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ok there is this guy that really likes me i kinda like him to but he lives in oregon... but than the other day i met this kid who likes me and who i like alot and he lives here by me... i dont know what ro do i will feel bad if i get rid of either (link)
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I would give the guy you like a lot who lives by you a shot.
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WHAT DOES idk STAND 4 (link)
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Wow a lot of people answered this question.
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I've been friends w/ this one guy since I was in the 4th grade (he was in the 3rd grade). We got really close over the summer, and his friend told me that he likes me. I kinda figured it out in my own though, cuz he always tried to be alone w/ me & stuff. Lately, we've been hanging out a lot. He's been over everyday this week so far. We just talk about really random stuff, but I somehow think that he still might like me. I don't really like him like that, bcuz I like 2 of his friends. It's really weird. What should I do? (link)
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What I would do is hang out with someone less if I didn't feel the same way. It sounds mean, but it works.
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My best guy friend of 3 years asked me something really weird last week and I just can't stop forgetting it. We were hanging out w/ his friend, and we somehow started talking about the fact that a guy in my math class was looking down my shirt. Then my guy friend told me to bend over, jokingly. I was like "only if you pay me" sarcastically. Then he was like "I'll give you $6 if you give me a lapdance!!!!" And then his friend offered to give me $10 for one. I refused, of course, cuz that's just gross. I still can't get over that, though. I feel really disrespected. What should I do about it? (link)
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Guys have a total disregard for girls feelings. They were probably half joking, trying to see what your reaction would be. Tell them off next time and they probably won't ask again.
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how can i get full responsibility for my son so if me and my husband part he cannot take him away? (link)
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During most custody battles, the mother gets the child. If your a good mother, you would probably get the child if it came down to it.
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When i was 7 my brother and i sucked each other's dicks and felt each other in the ass and we both liked it. we did this like every night and one time we were caught. we still do it anyway. now im 14 and so is he (were twins). is this normal? (link)
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Not really. But we all have characteristics that can be considered abnormal. I would definately stop (That is if this isn't a joke), incest is pretty gross. But to each his own. Find a boyfriend if know you're gay. If you think you're straight, I've got some bad news for you.
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So how old are you? You don't say on your column and I'm guessing somewhere around 17-19? am i right? amswer (link)
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Excellent guess. I'm 19. Whose asking?
After feedback: Could you tell me which advicenator? I would like to know who I'm giving my age to.
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Ok, I'm kinda in love with this guy who was a senior in my school but as the year went by and we grew closer we became friends and now we're in love(he loves me too and we're kinda going out) but now he has graduated and is going to college in August, and I have no idea what I'm going to do without him. HELP!!! (link)
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College life is different, full of experiments, new surroundings, etc. If you think you can make it work, I'd stay with him, but the chances of a long term relationship working are slim. Many of my friends tried but failed. I would visit him as much as possible. Try to find a(nother) job to keep yourself occupied. Hang out with friends more. anything to keep your mind off him when you can't see him.
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