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Friend or more
Ok, there is this guy and we are really good friends. We are such good friends that it almost out does any of my other friends that are girls. We talk about everything and you can never split us apart. But he has a girlfriend and i am not jelous or anything its just that he spends more time with me than he does with her. I want them to be together and ever since they started going out he has kinda ignored me until now! Once summer break hit so did he. We have done somethin every single night this week and i really like the attention but i dont want his girlfriend to be mad. Now we are going to Grand Rapids together to watch his girlfriend perform. What do you think i should do just keep goin along with it or ask him why he never spends more time with is girl friend. Help me
Signed confused
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dear confused,It seems to me that your friend likes you,but @ the same time he likes his girlfriend!And dont worry about his girlfriend getting mad at you!It isnt your fault that he likes to hang around you!Obviously he must have known you first!
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You have a pure heart of gold! Mabye you should talk to him and tell him how you are feeling! Or you can set them up! Tell them you wannaa go see a movie with both of them and leave them there its totally romantic. You might think its corny though! Well I hope I helped you!
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You have a good heart, hopefully this guy can see that. You should just ask him why he hardly ever spends time with her. Don't forget to mention that you like to see him happy and that you appriciate all the attention. Since you two have been such good friends for so long he will be able to talk to you about why he doesn't. Hope everthing goes over.
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Well, confused, it sounds like you got a great thing going. If he's your best friend, enjoy all the time you spend together, because it won't last forever. If his girlfriend is getting jealous of the time you spend together, she'll simply tell him. This is assuming she loves him, if she doesn't, she may just end it all together. And if that's the case, it probably wasn't going to last long anyway. Enjoy it while you can, it sounds like you got a great friend.
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