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My boyfriend and i have been together i miswell say a year and 5 months and we are some what getting tired of each other and we fight and argue and at some points its so hard to hang on to the relationship. he was my first love but after so long everything gets so old and you want new things, new people - we are in high school we shouldnt settle down.. ya know? so whats ur advice... itd b very hard getting used to ont having *him* call constantly and stuff.. it'd be a dramatic change =( =)
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hey its shelly. i used to have a relationship just like that. the only way it worked was to get out. maybe u guys should take a weeklong break and see how u feel at the end of the week. if the feeling of wanting out is mutual or even if only one wants it, then break up. i know this is hard, but think of the longrun. do you really want someone to be there all the time in college for u to worry about? someone always connected at the hip when u want to go out and party? what you really need to do is to ask yourself: am i happier with him or am i happier with out? what helps when asking this question is to ask for God's guidance and pray for wisdom. hope this helps and good luck
shelly
**God has a plan for everyone**
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Ok first loves are alaways a pain (I hear) But there is no use to keep fighting! Try to work it out. If not its probly best you wernt together anymore! Everyone wants the first love to work out and people do anything for that! well dont be a fool!
Hope I helped!
Bianca
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I completely disagree. I think you should end it. You're both bored, you both fight all the time. Trust me, none of you are really benefiting from this relationship. High school is too soon to settle down. At least take a break. There's no law saying you can never start up your relationship again if you both want to. Everyone is afraid of change, but it's something we all have to deal with if we want to discover who we truly are.
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Well, its crazy that happened to me to. But like when we broke up it was like a part of me was missing. And it was like so emotional. Like never knowing how much you love someone until they are gone. Its crazy but you should just like stay with him. Just make it fun. But if you feel your not gettin anything out of the relationship then..do what you do. But follow your mind not your heart! Because your mind will always tell you what to do and if you let your heart do that then it eventually gets broken!
-Stephanie
*Hope I Helped*
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