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POSER???
whats up wit this whole poser thing i just dont get it people r age r just tryin to figure out what they want ot be like im 14 and a girl and i recently start going out wit my boyfriend he is so sweet and so funny and hes what youd call a skater and yeah i like all that skater kinda stuff like punk rock and metal music and sk8tbording and all that but i dress in ambercrombie and ae and armini and goochie and all that kinda stuff but all that pop music and crap just hurts my head now people are starting to get mad at me cause im going out wit my b/f sum of the bikers at my school are all like you shouldnt be going out wit him hes not a biker ( my last boyfriend was a bmx biker so i know all the bikers) and then all this people have started calling me a poser cause this girl saw me in zumies wit my friend and b/f and it jsut makes me mad its not like they have any say in what im doin but I jsut wanted to know why do people think its any of there bisnnes
thanks bunchs
~*~ Me ~*~*
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This may be lame, but if there's one thing I've learned in the past year, it's that labels are for soup cans, not for people. Just be yourself and people will realize that you're cool for it. Don't change your image into a "skater person", because then people will just call you even more of a poser for changing just because your boyfriend is like that. I'd like to say that those people will stop teasing you, but I'm not sure that they will because sometimes there are just morons in your school and you have to live with them.
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i know its so dumb people keep on telling my boyfriend that hes a poser and hes really not come on pple wuts up with dat?
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I never have been able to understand the whole label thing. It seems to me that you didn't ask to be labeled, everyone did it for you, so in my opinion, if you want to hang with your boy at zumies do it. Like you said it's really none of their busines.
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--Alright. Im what you would call a punk and stuff and im just like your bf but im a girl lol. and all of my friends are like that they call people posers all the time. and most of they time there posers them selfs. or there jeloius that he can date someone out of the "skater" group and they cant. and there just jeloius of you. so just tell them to fuck off and keep doing what you do! rock on
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The only people who make fun of others for being a "Poser" are the ones so caught up in their own image, if they don't they feel something may damage it. The only type of poser I can think of is someone who is so caught up in what other's think, they can't form an opinion of their own. And I still don't call them posers, I hate that word. You don't sound like a poser to me, as long as you have your own opinion and stick to it.
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