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Is it illegal to sell a pair of concert tickets online for much more money than you bought them?
Say you bought them for $100, would it be illegal to sell them for $250 if the concert is sold out and they're in high demand?
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In a lot of places the answer is yes. I know a lot of places like Ticketmaster, theater companies, and even venues investigate people they think are scalping or selling tickets above normal price.
If they're suspicious of this all they have to do is pull the barcode numbers on tickets in your name and they can cancel those seats outright.
The only way it's 100% legal that I know of on Ebay or anywhere else is if you sell them at face value and make no profit beyond what you spent for them yourself. That's usually okay. However, laws vary state to state and by country to.
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Ok 14/f and ive started reccently to masterbate. I usually do it either at night in bed or in the shower/bath. First of all please explain what cum and orgasm means. Second, how can i cum or have an orgasm by masterbating? What is the common way? (link)
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It means the same thing. One is the slang word for the real term. An orgasm is when you feel in your body and genital region for that matter tightening up and then several ripples or spasms of varying intensity and then a relaxed state again.
There is no common way to have one. We can't give tips but over time you will learn what feels good for you. Every girl and guy is different and what feels great for some won't for you. Every person's body responds differently.
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i have problems thinking about how fat i am and at first it was no big deal, i would just not eat, i would come home from shool having not eaten and then tell my parents that i was full and didnt want dinner. i then started osessing over it and now i get into bed and i cant sleep because i can feel my stomach pulling my body i dont know what to do because if i told my parents they would be so upset and porbably force me to eat but now i cant sleep or eat and i can feel myself getting fatter and fatter and i dont know what to do (link)
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You may have symptoms of an eating disorder and do in fact need to tell an adult. Your parents love you and although they may appear angry or not know what to do it's fear for you that drives that.
If telling your parents directly is tough try and find a teacher, relative, friend's parent or someone your parents respect the truth and in brutal honesty just like here. You need to do that to get proper help. You need to see a doctor for sure about this and don't delay. Get the support of adults around you and let them intervene before this becomes worse. It doesn't subside on its own.
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I have been wearing a night guard (custom made from the dentist) for some time now, and use Efferdent to clean it every night. It's gotten stained now, so a light brownish tint, rather than clear. What can I use to safely remove the stain? (link)
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I would call the dentist and explain to the receptionist that you have a custom mouth guard and clean it with Efferdent. let them know it's stained even though you do that and you want to get those stains off without wrecking it. If they don't know they will have the dentist call you.
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So i made my schools softball team and ever since i have i have been feeling like i have gained weight when i have really been losing weight. the more i think i gained weight, the more weight im determined to lose. my parents say i need to stop losing weight so quick. my boyfriend says the same and that im perfect the way i am. but i have now idea whats going on. i eat regularly, and healthy. i dont know! (link)
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See a doctor about it and have them tell you were your weight needs to be. The kind of behavior you have gotten into with weight could be a pre-cursor to an eating problem especially if you are below normal weight and they and others see that.
Your boyfriend is likely a nice guy but he's not going to tell you the truth about how you look. Your parents would never lie. If they are concerned look into it with a doctor and have them deal with the issue if there is one.
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I am very very self conscious about myself. I always feel like shit. Sometimes I feel good about myself, but then I see all these other people that are just so much better than me and I realize that I'm nothing. I'm not good at anything, I'm not atheletic good at school, Im not the prettiest, I don't have big boobs. I don't do anything at all, I'm not really helpful with chores, I'm lazy with school and everything. I'm not rich and I can't do as many things as other kids. I'm just not good enough at all and I always just hate myself. I'm mean to people too, I guess I don't know how to control my anger and I take it out on ppl and then I get called abusive, mean, a bitch, always angry and I feel even worse and so guilty. I dont wanna be abusive, I care about people and I dont want to make them feel like shit ugh:( but I do anyway. And I just never feel like I deserve to be happy because im so shitty and I'll never live up to be as good as anyone else. My friend tells me that she doesnt understand how I think this way and that im a good person & I deserve to be happy & that I am better than good enough but I just... No I don't feel that way. She thinks that cause ive been there for her and helped her w/ shit but hell anyone wouldve been there for her. AghhI just always put myself down and tell myself that im stupid & ugly & dont deserve anything but feeling horrible and being treated like a piece of shit cause thats what I am and deserve. Is this normal? Do I really deserve to feel and think this way? I dont know. Other ppl always seem so much better, when I see pretty girls I just get so upset & sometimes I just dont talk to people cause I always feel like I'm going to sound stupid. And that im just talentless and worthless and a piece of shit. Ya think I deserve to feel this way? Cause im not good enough & that im mean sometimes? Ah I dont know help? (link)
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This is not normal behavior nor thinking. You aren't crazy but it would be a good idea to consult a mental-health professional and find out where this negative thinking and beliefs has stemmed from and whether you are depressed on top.
If it's an illness doing it than the doctor knows how to silence that inner dialogue permanently. The truth is you're just as good as anyone else and none of the things you have accepted for yourself are true. You need to be made to see and accept this as a concrete fact.
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I'm 16 and I want a job over the summer plz tell me everything u can on how I should go about doing? Who hires at sixteen? What's a good place for sixteen year olds to work? Who should I ask for an application when I go into different stores? (link)
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Try the movie theater NOW rather than later. They need staff for summer. They may in fact be going on a hiring blitz. It's the best place to look for work as is anything fast-food related.
Instead of speaking to the cashier in the store ask for a manager and present him/her with your resume. If they are looking to hire people they may give you an interview and or job on the spot.
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I have a crush on a guy and he is 4 months older than me.We both are 15 years old.We dont talk as much with each other because he is shy and i think me to.I caught him starring at me alot and when i caught him he quickly looks away.He smiles at me alot. (link)
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It's a good sign. Next time walk over and start talking. Just treat talking to him like you would a friend. Ask him about his interests and ask if he would like to join you and friends for a movie, bowling etc.
If he likes you he will go. If he doesn't he'll have an excuse. Take a risk as someone has to make a move here. You have nothing lose but lots to gain.
Tell him he doesn't have to be shy around you anymore and to be himself. See how things progress. Sounds like you have a good starting point.
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Ok so i like this guy named logan. Hes super nice and we are so much alike and crazy and so hyper aha. Then theres his bestfriend names jared. It kinda seems like he likes me and im not surr if i like him. Jared knows alot about me and i knkw alot about him. But im.not sure if i could see us together. I can definatly see logan and i together. Which one should i go for? (link)
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I wouldn't go for either of them unless I was 100% sure of whom I want to be with. You don't know so making a sudden decision and picking one over the other could prove disaster. You could also hurt them both and or yourself and have both bail. My advice is to WAIT for awhile and see for sure which one or don't act as yu don't know what you need versus want or don't.
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Well the school dance is TODAY. and I haven't decided if I want to go. My friend really want me to go because she doesn't talk to anyone else. But I don't want to spend my money and it not be a fun dance. But it seems that EVERYONE is going this time but when I went to the dance most of them didn't go. So the poin is I don't want to waste my money if it's gonna be a bad dance and I don't want my friend to be by herself.
P.S. I didn't do my extra credit that my dad wanted me to do so I also feel guiltily for goin to the dance without doing my extra credit. (link)
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Perhaps you might meet someone at this dance and have a good time. However, if you had a lousy time last time out stay home. You need the money obviously for things that mean more than the dance.
I understand how you feel about your friend being alone. However, you aren't responsible for seeing that she's happy while there. I would tell her honestly that you hated the last dance, are broke and would only be going so she wasn't alone.
Tell her it's just not a situation you want to be in as it's awkward and uncomfortable. I'm sure she will get that it's not your deal. Then again maybe it may be fun this time. If your gut says something like "don't go" follow it. It's your decision. I can't make it for you.
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I have a problem, I'm 14 and can't stop looking at pornography. Gay porn mostly. (i'm a girl). I also play with down there...And try my best to pee standing up. Help? Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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If I had permanent ink and a stamp I would put "NORMAL" on your head for the world to see. you're fine. All this amounts to is curiosity when it comes to the pornography and the whole stance thing too.
As far as it not being heterosexual porn it doesn't matter. Some women not all watch it. The only problem is you aren't 18+ and that's who it is meant for and not people your age. Will it kill you? No. But if you can try to stop watching it for that reason it's best.
As for touching that area of your body it's 100% normal and males and females of all ages do with males 90% and females 77% statistically. There's nothing wrong with it if you do it and nothing wrong if you don't. So, I wouldn't worry.
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I have this guy friend I've had for about 3 years now. He's been a very good friend to me he's almost like a brother to me. He's very supportive, there to listen, gives good advice, and sometimes is very over protective of me especially when he thinks another guy is trying to hurt me. Recently I've been thinking about him more often than I usually did in the past and when I'm around him I cant stop staring. I'm trying really hard to deny it but its hard. I think I have romantic feelings for him. But we're friends and I dont want to ruin it or make it awkward between us and I don't think he feels the same way about me. What do I do? (link)
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If he's been a friend this long and you can share anything you that even if he's not interested he's not going to treat you badly. He will likely stay a friend as that's who he is.
I have a hunch though that he probably would be open to this considering how protective he is of you now. Guys just don't do that with girls they don't feel something special about.
What you should do is tell him this "I have something to tell you. It's a good thing but very hard for me to own up to. I don't want to lose you as a friend but lately I have had feelings for you and don't know what to do about it."
I'm sure he will make this easy for you no matter his interest. If you genuinely want him as your boyfriend you have to take a risk that could turn out to be 100% worth taking. Even if he only remains a friend it will bring you closer. You have nothing to lose here.
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what was the cheapest way to commit suscide in india? (link)
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Why would you want to? It may not seem like it yet but all problems no matter how awful they seem will eventually fade out of your life. You may not have a solution yet but it's a fact and will come. Dying over something like that is stupid.
You obviously have mental health issues that have never been addressed. You should go to an ER and tell them what you have asked us about. They can treat you and make your life bearable if not 100% better than it is now. That's your only hope to get psychiatric assistance.
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How to make my boyfriend horny.What to say to make my boyfriend turned on.I really like him but i want to tease him a lot.But i don't want to have sex yet. (link)
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Try talking to him. Be abundantly clear that you aren't ready for sex but want to do things that still turn him on. Find out directly from him what does that. It's different for each person.
There's no need for either of you to feel embarrassed as all of this is normal and healthy. It will help you know one another well and strengthen trust.
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I found a portable version of tetris at windowstetris.com,but i always lose after a few minutes once the game starts to pick up speed. Are there any strategies to compensate? or ways to train? and does tetris really improve cognitive ability? (link)
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Might want to check this site out. There are lots of others on Google too. http://www.tetrisfriends.com/help/tips_advanced.php
Don't worry they have beginner tips too. I just didn't know how far along you were in getting a grasp on the game. It takes awhile to get good at it. People told me that it would be bad for me because of a right-side and left-side brain thing with an LD. I can get at least 100,000 points now on it.
Nintendo has a 3D version out on their handheld system you might want to check out.
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So we don't have many rooms in our house. My brother has his own room (So I won't live in there... He's 16), and my 14 y/o sister has a room (Can't live there) And then my other sister... She's an adult. ADULT.
Don't you think she should be gone?! I'M the one here who needs a room! I'm getting sick and tired of not having a room anymore. She's gone 90% of the time partying and stuff or just gone, and I'd always be in that room! I sleep on the FLOOR. I have to make my own bed out of blankets because I have nowhere to put my old bed. Help! Please!
My parents said "She has nowhere to go." And she's always gone. Please help! What do I say and what do I do?! (link)
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Is your basement finished? If not you might want to suggest it as a good investment to finish it up if they have money to do so. They can always rent it out later.
In the event there's ZERO cash for that to be done why not use it anyway? Most basements have a concrete floor or the ability to pour one. As long as it does set up your TV down there, other creature comforts and buy a pull-out bed inexpensively and put it down there as your place to be.
It ain't perfect but it's liveable. A girl your age does indeed need her own bed and a place where she can get privacy. There's not much else I can offer in advice because you haven't told us why this is the situation with where you sleep and why the older sister is still around or why the 14-year-old isn't an option.
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I have a friend and we've been best friends since preK. In third grade she got her first bf (Ik it's young but I can't control that). Well she started to leave me out and stuff but I never told her that cause I didn't want to start anything. Well now we are older and she's in all my classes so we talk a now. At the beginning of the year I met a friend and she was really nice and we started to become freinds. Well my old friend didn't like her so she got mad and stuff. Then one day I wasn't there or something and they started talkin and became good friends. I was happy at first but then I felt left out cause all the talked bout was 1D and I didn't like 1D. So now it's now and they've had a few fights and now their friends again and I feel like my old friend has changed A LOT. She trIes to act kwl and stuff and she gets mad when we tell her our opinion and now, all of a sudden, she's all sensitive and stuff. I think she's just saying that because that's what my new friend always says. I don't know what to do?? Help needed. If its to confusing I'm ok with some random answer from what u understood. (link)
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From what I can gather neither were truly being friends to you and only get on together. That happens sometimes. I know you want them both around but perhaps they aren't your friends for good reason--they aren't meant to be.
You've grown out of her and her behavior and seemingly having zero in common anymore won't change. You will also find it a miserable experience trying to tell one of them anything because of how sensitive she gets. I would move on.
However, if you want to try and fix things first understand her friendship with the other girl is NEW and the focus is on the new person but may fade gradually. Secondly, point out to the girl how her constant focus on 1D bothers people who don't like them.
Then point out you feel left out and that she really has to learn how not to take things to heart so much. People only tell her the truth so she is able to learn and that they care. If she can't see that than move on.
It seems as though they already have but that to be blunt you haven't figured out you're their third wheel or person they no longer have stuff in common with or hanging with. And that ain't your fault. It happens with teenage girls a lot with friends but you deserve better treatment out of them both.
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My mum yells at me for slightst thing and i end up in tears but i can't stand up to her because i'm to scared.What should i do? (link)
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Get counseling be it at school or with a therapist outside of school. Examine that relationship with your mother and find ways of coping with her temper and how to avoid what sets her off.
In the end a therapist could really help get your relationship with your mom into a healthier place. The fact you are scared of her is actually the scariest part. Professional help is needed to deal with these issues. It's too much to ask and a burden that you solve them all on your own.
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Hello. Well one one my friends went to a club in friday night. That night the guy i like and do things with was in that club aa well. My friend already knows who he is. Well saturday comes and,she texted me and told me ima send you a pic not to good and not to bad. She send me a pic of him sort of like dancing. Am like "ok"? Then in the night i was with her and i asked her "What was he doin in that pic"? Shes like "idont know i think dancing"..then she tells me i danced with him because a guy was bothering me trying to pull me to dance and he saw it so he pretended he was my.man & we danced o.o am just there.like jumm ok , so then i told her we stopped talking. After i left her house that saturday night i text her and told her i was gping to his house, she asked me" he called you" i said "yes" even tho it,was,a lie. Then,she,goes Yoo dont telll him i told u i was dancing with him..i asked her whyyy dancing its nothing and she tells me , yes i know but you know how guys are, they get mad over anything. This is weird idont know what to think :( (link)
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Tell your friend to drop the issue. Nothing happened so no cause for drama or concern by either of you. It does sound weird but then again is plausible. Why would she take the photo if not to protect herself from you not understanding? Keep your antennae up but don't rush to judgment that there's anything going on.
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I'm fixing up my resume for job searches, but there is no job experience to include and my volunteer work is a few years old. Should I include the time period at all, or will that go against me? If I should include the time period, is just the years ok or MUST I include months as well? I am unsure of the months - they would be random guesses at best. (link)
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If there isn't any job experience outside of volunteering do the following:
Company Name, Volunteer 2000-2002
While working at company name I did...
Then you list each company and position and years in the same format. Don't worry about months and those dates. Just the years matter and a small paragraph about your duties.
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