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Well.. I'm Jess && I'm thirteen. I think I'm pretty good with advice, usally. I try hard & will check this site everyday.. So feel free to ask me anything. :]





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i have already got over 200 reasons but i am running short becuase i don't want to repeat myself. can anyone give me any sujestions, i am open to all ideas.thanks

Well, I tried not to think of the obvious ones like "he's amazing"

but you love him because he loves you?

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Is one kiss considered "cheating"?

yes.

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okay, my boyfriend is in JROTC, and he invited me to the military ball, but i'm not really comfy wearing like the dressydresses you have to wear to go to those, im VERY modest, and also, hes shorter than me, so i wouldnt be able to wear heels, what should i wear? any ideas? i cant tell him i dont want to go because i dont want to dress up because he's really excited that i'm going and i couldnt do that to him. i need HELPPPPPPPP!


greattlyyy appriciatedddd

For the heel issue, wear some fashionable flats to go with your non dressydressy outfit.

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Does anyone know any good flavors of vitamin water? I've only tried lemonade. And is it actually good for you?

No, its not good for you.

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okay so i am 16 years old/female and i have only gotten my period once.. when i was 14. i think this is really wierd because like i have gone through every other part of puberty, like im done growing and my boobs are big and everything. when i did get my period it was a full 6 days and i dont know why i never got it again. it was late to begin with too since i have been the same height and stuff since i last got it. my parents say want to take me to get blood work done and im scared though. what could be the reason for not getting it? i've also never had sex and i also get a normal amount of discharge. help please!!!!

I'm pretty sure you dont need blood work, you should go see your doctor.

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okay well my names taylor and i really want a new screenname with my name in it. i like things like taylor is a badass, team taylor, taylor x fcuk, etc. please help ill rate high.

ohhh its tay

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okay some of my friends say that actually "starving" yourself helps lose weight. is this true? I know its extremly unhealthy & I personally wouldnt do that to myslef. Im just curious =) thanks!

For awhile, but you eventually gain it back.

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What is a laugh-out-loud funny (yet approiate) broadway type song for a girl to sing?

Thank you.

I Feel Pretty – West Side Story.

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ive been on accutance for 7 years now is that bad? are there any risks?

Do you mean accutane?

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Hi,
so i'm 17 and me n my boyfriend have been dating for a month and we've already gone well all the way..quick,i know but i don't regret it. but a week ago he went away on vacation and before he left he was completely into me and then he got back and we've hungout twice since and he told me tonight that he'd call me after work but he hasn't and we havent talked in 3 days...
what do i do?
thanks,
stupid girl

Well, since hasen't called its time you call him & ask him what is going on. Thats what needs to happen first, if your lucky you & him can work things out. Obviously his vacation time, really did something to him to make him not want to be around you as much. So you need to talk to him.
And if he's not willing to work anything out or pretends there isn't a problem there isn't much you can do. Either stay with him and allow him to treat you this way or brake up with him. I know it will be hard because you guys went all the way, but dont beat yourself over the head for it, everybody makes mistakes. Learn from it.

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i dont know what topic this would go under so i just put it under music
ok so i have verizon wireless
and i have a plan for 500 texts a month
and unlimited for verizon to verizon.
i was wondering how much do picture texting cost.?
anyone wanna tell me?!

The 500 goes with pix texting, you texted over your limit of 500 it will cost 25cents.
Or if you texted to a verizon customer of course its free.

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I get made fun of a lot because I have red hair so people call me firecrotch AND Im not very pretty. I look like a fish. Anyway, guys on my bus are always making fun of me..and I want to know what I say to them. Swearing isnt working - they just mock me and it just gives them a reaction.

the stuff below is all very true, you are very gorgeous. And I'd probably kill to look like you.

& you know having red hair is something great in my opinion I'd love to have it, because people don't realize not everybody has amazingly gorgeous straight blonde or brown hair. So love what if 'different' about you.
I suggest you start loving yourself.

Those boys are jerks, dont even listen to them.
seriously, people who talk about other people are wasting there times, dont swear at them they'll probably laugh more because your defending yourself for nobody.
People who talk don't have lifes to acutally go do something.

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In my government class, the teacher was talking about the different types of government and our German exchange student was talking about the Nazis. Our history teacher started telling us about a group of like two girls that sing about how great Hitler was. He said they have extremely blonde hair and blue eyes. I was wondering if anyone knew who they were and what songs they sing. I'm really curious about them and i want to download the music and take it into my government class for the teacher.

Thanks!

http://www.prussianbluestore.com/

They're some gorgeous girls, but terrible wrong values.

But thats the site link.

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where can i get really cute and CHEAP jeans???

and some stores with cute cheap clothes too?

Stores like Value city, tjmaxx i think i may have spelt that wrong though, rue21, marshells.

All of good name brand clothes cheaper.

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I used to/sort of still do have bad acne, but im under dermatological treatment and stuff. the stuff theyre giving me is working i think, but very slowly. ive noticed parts of my face are smooth but they appear to still have pimples, which i figured were scars

so my question, how do i get rid of acne scars without making my face break out more

I think you should wait until you fully done your derm treatment, then worry about the scars.
So you wont bring up the acne worse.

But if must you should call your derm and see what he/she suggests. They can see your skin and now what should well for you.

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Well, I got my report card a few weeks ago, and I had all A's.. BUT ONE B. I worked so hard! And guess what.. It was in Gym. So, because of that, I didn't get high honor roll. My mom already had a conference with them, but I still got a B, because apparently "I don't try hard enough." & I argued by saying that mostly everyone playing were guys (the girls don't do anything) & how I can't play against guys because that's not fair & that a lot of times I didn't feel good (to which the teacher said he could run a mile on two hands if HE didn't feel good - whatever), and blah blah blah. I guess the teacher just doesn't like me that much. Anyway, there's nothing to do about it anymore I guess. I will try harder next time, but I'm a perfectionist..

SO my question is: How can I get over it? It just pisses me off so much!

Suck it up seriously. You sound like a whiny little brat.

Its one B, in gym class & your excuses were pathetic. Now you need to try harder as you already know, and make it up next time.


truth hurts much?

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13/f last night i think i interuppted my parents having sex. my mom yelled at me through the door because it was locked and i knocked on it. it was like 10:45 pm. my parents never go to bed that early and they never shut the door and lock it. is this a sighn of ur parents having sex?? im just curious and i didnt think my parents still did that stuff. should i ask my mom or should i just let it go?? its really bugging me!!!

Probably what they were up to, but its a good thing.

And dont mention it, she might be very embarressed. And not mention its not your business, its your mom and your dads.

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Do guys hate kissing girls who have on lip gloss?
cause thats what my one friend said, but i was just wondering..thanks!

HypnotizexMe is a correct.


But I thought I'd mention not every guy likes it, every guy is different.

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what are some of your favorite blink 182 songs? i'm trying to expand my blink 182 music library so suggestions would be cool.

i only have feeling this, all the small things, and first date right now.
=[

I'm not much a blink128 fan but I love 'the rock show'.

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My friends and i used a quiji board i didn't really want to. And without asking my friend asked when i was going to die and how. It said i would only be 36. And in a car fire. Now i'm really scared. I beleive heavily in god and jesus and i need to know thats it's all bull. I don't really beleive in it but i'm still scared. I'm 14 and i kinda wanna know what it is moving the board. Cause i really don't think it was a spirit. Did somthing ever come true for people out there. What should i do?

What ygsgirl told you was a very good answer, she's completely correct.

Dont believe in it, and don't worry over it.
Ouijia boards in my opinion are very false.

I've never had one correct thing happen with them.

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