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parents doin it


Question Posted Monday January 8 2007, 3:57 pm

13/f last night i think i interuppted my parents having sex. my mom yelled at me through the door because it was locked and i knocked on it. it was like 10:45 pm. my parents never go to bed that early and they never shut the door and lock it. is this a sighn of ur parents having sex?? im just curious and i didnt think my parents still did that stuff. should i ask my mom or should i just let it go?? its really bugging me!!!

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smokedank123 answered Sunday February 11 2007, 6:40 pm:
Yes, your parents probabily were having sex. I know its a weird thought because its your parents, but they do have sex. They want to lock the door to prevent you from walking in and having to see them in the act which would be even worse. How do you think you came along? Dont confront your mom, what is she supposed to say? shes not doing anything wrong really, shes having sex with her husband. The best thing to do would be to let it go and just accept it. Alot of people in the world have sex.

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twistedlover69 answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 10:40 am:
there probley having sex but its compeletly normal just cause there your parents doesnt mean they dont have sex it might be disturberting but at least you didnt really acuatually walk in on them like i did a few times

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illdomybest answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 1:05 am:
i think you should let it go. its not a secret that your parents still have sex because theyre still human and love eachother. its there personal business and there sex life doesnt need to be a family affair. they might have been its not an abnormal thing but its nothing you need to confront them about either. their sex life isnt your business.

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birdbr answered Monday January 8 2007, 7:05 pm:
it really doesn't concern you on what your parents are doing, older people can still do it they are old not dead ok.


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xomichelle891xo answered Monday January 8 2007, 6:37 pm:
Okay, so maybe people will say Im giving you the wrong advice but DONT approach your Mom about it. Its going to be very awkward. And Im positive they were having sex. If they were just sleeping or talking, the door wouldnt be locked! Look for this in the future as a time you shouldnt come in. Whether theyre having sex or not, if the door was locked - they wanted privacy. And you have to respect that. I know how you feel..a little bad and neglected? But I think youre just a little SHOCKED more than anything. Dont worry this will go away soon. Be happy your parents still love eachother - by the way, its normal for parents to still "do that stuff" when they are old..I know, GROSS. ;] Let it go..and try to avoid locked doors in the future.

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iloveyoutoo answered Monday January 8 2007, 6:27 pm:
Probably what they were up to, but its a good thing.

And dont mention it, she might be very embarressed. And not mention its not your business, its your mom and your dads.

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Xenolan answered Monday January 8 2007, 6:07 pm:
Odds are, that's exactly what they were up to, and it's a good and positive thing. That's what healthy, happily married couples DO, and many people keep it up well into their 70s or longer.

However, just because it's healthy and normal doesn't mean it's any of your business. Sex is something private between two adults, even if they're your parents. It's natural that you're a little curious, but you're just going to have to live with it and keep your questions to yourself. What they do behind the locked door of their bedroom is not your concern. It is a sign of maturity to show a little decorum and not ask every question that pops into your head.

This is not to say that you can't ask your parents about sex in general. You should be able to ask them about whatever you feel you need to, and they in turn have a duty and responsibility to give you clear, straightforward, honest answers.

And in the future, if you notice that their door is locked late at night... knock on it only if the kitchen is on fire.

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Daimeera answered Monday January 8 2007, 5:54 pm:
Trust me--you don't want to ask. After all, if you ask and the answer is yes? Well, then you know. And you'll think about it. And think about it.

Parents have sex. It's inevitable, if they're in a good relationship. Much as we kids might not like to think about it, it's the reality. Just try to think about something else, and eventually you WILL stop wondering (believe me, I know).

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kimberlygal answered Monday January 8 2007, 5:45 pm:
ew ew ew lol
anyway
maybe they were but really it doesnt matter
like you dont have to ask that is embarressing
if they were it is gross but you don't need to know
that is just my opinion
and if it bothered you just ask you mom
then if they were then ask if they'd do it like in a hotel or when im not home because its gross

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MummuM answered Monday January 8 2007, 5:44 pm:
Of course your parents still have sex, it's only natural. If they didn't have intimacy in their relationship anymore there would obviously be something wrong between your mother and father. However, they still have sex so that just means they still love and care about one another. I wouldn't suggest asking your mom about this, even if it were bugging you a lot. It's between your father and her.

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lauralaura answered Monday January 8 2007, 5:32 pm:
hey!
this was more than likely your parents having sex. this is good, if they weren't any more it would mean there was something wrong. even very old people have sex. don't ask your mum unless it keeps bothering you. and don't worry about it, i have heard it before and it is not that unusual to experience it. just be glad they locked the door!

hope this helps
laura xxx

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xocrazyyaboutyou answered Monday January 8 2007, 5:24 pm:
well honestly i wouldnt go asking about it because then you will have to hear about it and i dont think you want that. so just let it go and try not to think about it. i didnt think my parents did it either until i walked in on them once. its much worse. but it most likely was a sign that they were having sex. but its ur parents so just try and let it go. and try not to think about it. :] hope i helped oxxx Sam

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vailgirl80 answered Monday January 8 2007, 5:20 pm:
just let it go until your mom comes to you tellin your gonna have a little brother/sister then you can get pissed for interupptin his construction.

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