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Hi,
so i'm 17 and me n my boyfriend have been dating for a month and we've already gone well all the way..quick,i know but i don't regret it. but a week ago he went away on vacation and before he left he was completely into me and then he got back and we've hungout twice since and he told me tonight that he'd call me after work but he hasn't and we havent talked in 3 days...
what do i do?
thanks,
stupid girl
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Well, since hasen't called its time you call him & ask him what is going on. Thats what needs to happen first, if your lucky you & him can work things out. Obviously his vacation time, really did something to him to make him not want to be around you as much. So you need to talk to him.
And if he's not willing to work anything out or pretends there isn't a problem there isn't much you can do. Either stay with him and allow him to treat you this way or brake up with him. I know it will be hard because you guys went all the way, but dont beat yourself over the head for it, everybody makes mistakes. Learn from it.
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Hmmm...
Well, for starters, you aren't stupid. If anyone is in this situation, it is him for behaving in this manner.
I don't know why he is acting this way. I hate to think he was using you and isn't worried because he got what he wanted. But the sad truth is that it is a possibility. (Not saying that it's probable, just possible.) Boys are weird sometimes.
I will tell you that you need to catch that little buzzard by the tail and and let him know you need to have a conversation. And he better make time, because, no, it can't wait.
You need to talk to him about this. See if it can be worked out. Ask is he avoiding you? For what reason? Why did he say he would call but didn't? Stuff like that. If it boils down to it ask him if he was using you for a piece, or what?
Be honest about your feelings. Encourage him to do the same. Get it all out on the table. A relationship has no point without honesty and trust.
If his feelings have changed for you, he needs to speak up, not pull you around by the nose.
If they haven't changed, then he needs to give you that reassurance.
You deserve to know what's going on here.
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hey, well it sounds to me like maybe he had some hookups on his vacation. thats just i guess. did you trust him 100% before he left? do you trust him now that hes acting shady? you need to tell him how you feel and ask him whats up. tell him that you would rather know if he wasnt into you anymore then to try to hold on to a fake relationship that wasnt going to go anywhere.
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maybe after he left he kind of felt maybe its too soon or he feels that maybe going all the way made the love go away just talk to him and tell him how you fell and whats going on and dont take nothing for an awnser tell me how it goes k
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