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The school dance... is TODAY!


Question Posted Friday March 22 2013, 6:14 am

Well the school dance is TODAY. and I haven't decided if I want to go. My friend really want me to go because she doesn't talk to anyone else. But I don't want to spend my money and it not be a fun dance. But it seems that EVERYONE is going this time but when I went to the dance most of them didn't go. So the poin is I don't want to waste my money if it's gonna be a bad dance and I don't want my friend to be by herself.
P.S. I didn't do my extra credit that my dad wanted me to do so I also feel guiltily for goin to the dance without doing my extra credit.


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solidadvice4teens answered Friday March 22 2013, 4:48 pm:
Perhaps you might meet someone at this dance and have a good time. However, if you had a lousy time last time out stay home. You need the money obviously for things that mean more than the dance.

I understand how you feel about your friend being alone. However, you aren't responsible for seeing that she's happy while there. I would tell her honestly that you hated the last dance, are broke and would only be going so she wasn't alone.

Tell her it's just not a situation you want to be in as it's awkward and uncomfortable. I'm sure she will get that it's not your deal. Then again maybe it may be fun this time. If your gut says something like "don't go" follow it. It's your decision. I can't make it for you.

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HeretoHelp418 answered Friday March 22 2013, 4:42 pm:
Well I hope its not too late to answer this, idk when youre dance is going to start. But first, before the dance maybe you can do some of your extra credit, or just do it tomorrow. And itll only be a bad dance if you make it one. You need to get hyper and get happy, drink some monster, listen to some music and get pumped and then you go in there with your friend and dance your ass off! Sure it might be awkward at first but when you get into it its fun. Just go crazy with your friends and have a good time. I think itd be worth it to go just make sure you go all out or go home. Or else it might suck. So yeah make it awesome, but if you really dont feel like going then just ask your friend if she wants to hangout with you instead and you guys can go to the next dance if youre up to it. So yeah have fun

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