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Does he love me?
I know this boy for five years.I am 13 and he is 14.He is very shy.I love him soo much.I dont know that he loves me or not.I notice that:
He starres at me alot and when I caught him,he blushed or quickly looks away.
When I am around him,he smiles alot.
He blushes alot.
He always call me by my first name.
I have the feeling that he loves me.
Please tell me that he loves me or not because its "MY FIRST LOVE"
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Love is soemthing only the "lover" can know for sure. Don't let anyone tell you that you don't love him because you are "too young" too love. They only say that because they have never loved and don't understand. As for your situation, what you need to do is just talk with him. If you both have cell phones, trade numbers and sart with texting. If he really does like you he will make an effort to text you all the time and want tohearyour voice on the phone as well. You should find out soon if he really does feel that way though, because if he doesn't, the longer you wait, the more hurt you will feel in the end. Look out for yorself. If he's not the one, then move on. You have your wholel ife ahead of you and you never know what great guy will come along. Keep and open mind, and don't let this bo hurt you. If he loves you like you seem to think he does, then he wont hurt you. If he does, then there is someone else out there that is 100xs better for you. :)
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Love is more than just a feeling. It's an action and when you're in love, you'll really know it. You won't know if he's in love with you until you two start dating and he's good to you.
He does seem like he has a crush on you though. So he probably likes you more than a friend.
You should start talking to him more and flirt with him a little bit and see how he reacts.
Or become friends with him and maybe eventually, it will turn into more.
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He likes you, He may even have a crush on you but no, he does not "love you"
Realistically the kid is only 14. He is young and does not know the true meaning of love. So your answer is no.
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Maybe he really likes you. But love is a strong word hon.
If you guys have been like this for a while confront him. Ask him what he feels and what he wants to do about it. Tell him how you feel. It might even clear your mind.
whatever happens, don't expect anything. Prepare yourself for the worst and the best. In case it doesn't turn out for the better, you have the rest of your life left to fall in love.
But it depends on what you want to do. If you strongly believe that no matter how much you like this boy you wouldn't go out with him then i suggest you learn to think of him differently and don't lose out on a good friend. But if he likes you back and you are willing to make it work, give it a shot.
every love matters, whether its the first or the last.
if you decide to ask him, don't wait for the right time, cos time is never just right.
i hope i helped.
xoxo De. :)
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