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I don't know what to do about my friend,she's changed
I have a friend and we've been best friends since preK. In third grade she got her first bf (Ik it's young but I can't control that). Well she started to leave me out and stuff but I never told her that cause I didn't want to start anything. Well now we are older and she's in all my classes so we talk a now. At the beginning of the year I met a friend and she was really nice and we started to become freinds. Well my old friend didn't like her so she got mad and stuff. Then one day I wasn't there or something and they started talkin and became good friends. I was happy at first but then I felt left out cause all the talked bout was 1D and I didn't like 1D. So now it's now and they've had a few fights and now their friends again and I feel like my old friend has changed A LOT. She trIes to act kwl and stuff and she gets mad when we tell her our opinion and now, all of a sudden, she's all sensitive and stuff. I think she's just saying that because that's what my new friend always says. I don't know what to do?? Help needed. If its to confusing I'm ok with some random answer from what u understood.
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Well, people get older and change and find new friends that get along with their interests. It's rude of her to get mad at your opinions.
You can't change her, you can just explain how you feel and leave it at that. If she decides to be more respectful, then good, if not then just go find new friends. Find friends that have more in common with you.
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From what I can gather neither were truly being friends to you and only get on together. That happens sometimes. I know you want them both around but perhaps they aren't your friends for good reason--they aren't meant to be.
You've grown out of her and her behavior and seemingly having zero in common anymore won't change. You will also find it a miserable experience trying to tell one of them anything because of how sensitive she gets. I would move on.
However, if you want to try and fix things first understand her friendship with the other girl is NEW and the focus is on the new person but may fade gradually. Secondly, point out to the girl how her constant focus on 1D bothers people who don't like them.
Then point out you feel left out and that she really has to learn how not to take things to heart so much. People only tell her the truth so she is able to learn and that they care. If she can't see that than move on.
It seems as though they already have but that to be blunt you haven't figured out you're their third wheel or person they no longer have stuff in common with or hanging with. And that ain't your fault. It happens with teenage girls a lot with friends but you deserve better treatment out of them both.
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Hello,
I've had something like this happen. There was this girl and she became friends with my bf and left me out. The best thing to do is leave her alone. If you wait a while, she just might come back to you. Then, you can also say hi to her when you pass by as well to make it go quicker. I hope I helped. :-)
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Hey!
Well from what I've gather, I think that you should talk to her about it and if she's react badly then thats a sign that you might need to take a break from eachother and if this friendship is meant to be then you'll be reunited again. If not its all a part of life as we gorw older some of the friends that we once use to have may no longer be there.
JGolden
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