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I can't stop looking...
I have a problem, I'm 14 and can't stop looking at pornography. Gay porn mostly. (i'm a girl). I also play with down there...And try my best to pee standing up. Help? Is there something wrong with me?
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It's cool your normal I do it to but mostly with lesbian even though I'm not one I even play their to chill ax I asked myself the same question and figured out its our hormones playing out and it's just a phase
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You are NORMAL. At your age what is happening is you are experimenting with who you are sexually. This is all perfectly normal. Touching ourselves, masturbating as it is called, is also normal and part of learning about our sexual selves.
While some people my age, older than me and some younger than me; I'm old enough to be your grandfather, will not believe what I am about to say. Medical science, psychiatrists and psychologist all agree that people who are either gay or lesbians are born that way; it is part of the genetic coding that started in the womb.
At your present age you would know by know if you were a lesbian. The fact that you like looking at gay porn does not make you a lesbian. Neither does masturbation. According to a recent survey 85% of us masturbate. Giving your boyfriend a hand job or him fingering you is called mutual masturbation and is a large part of foreplay before sex.
So take the advice of an old man and relax. There is nothing wrong with you. You are perfectly normal for your age.
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. If you mean will you turn into a lesbian because you like the girlie-sex stuff, it's not a 'sure sign' by any reckoning. True, some girls do choose same-sex relationships (at times, or as a life-long choice) but it isn't necessarily the ones who enjoy all-girl porn by any means. Pleasuring yourself while watching, or even 'trying out' some of what you see (assume that's the gist of the 'pee standing up' comment??) isn't anything to get worried about either. Isn't this really the object of adult entertainment? OK, it's intended for adults really...but it's an imperfect world we live in. When I was fourteen I bet at least half of us lads had some girlie mags hidden under the bed...till our mums found them and chucked them out...our dads would pinch them for their own amusement!! No internet then...I'm knocking-on a bit! So there's nothing wrong with you...almost. Don't like the "can't stop.."
comment. You don't want to be spending too much time doing ANY SINGLE thing really...not just watching porn. If a thing doesn't get boring, it gets obsessive, then addictive. Starts setting a pattern for addictive behaviour in general. Which is not a good path to start down with your teens still mostly in front of you. So mix it up, keep plenty of other interests and do plenty of other stuff. NOT girlie-porn all day every day, mate...OK?
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If I had permanent ink and a stamp I would put "NORMAL" on your head for the world to see. you're fine. All this amounts to is curiosity when it comes to the pornography and the whole stance thing too.
As far as it not being heterosexual porn it doesn't matter. Some women not all watch it. The only problem is you aren't 18+ and that's who it is meant for and not people your age. Will it kill you? No. But if you can try to stop watching it for that reason it's best.
As for touching that area of your body it's 100% normal and males and females of all ages do with males 90% and females 77% statistically. There's nothing wrong with it if you do it and nothing wrong if you don't. So, I wouldn't worry.
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