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I aim to give you solid advice on your problems. I don't sugarcoat things and I'm always straight up. Don't come asking for what you want to hear as I always give the truth even if you don't want it because it's what you need and the only way to grow.
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Member Since: December 31, 2006
Answers: 2957
Last Update: October 21, 2014
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Thank you. That's great advice.


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um there is o reason anymore to help me as you are so well um well he broke up with me so i guess i dont need any help anyone thanks though:(


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Well shit. I didnt want to have to tell my mother, I actually wasnt supposed to have kik in the first place. I did fix the internet problem, turns out it was just the router, as evergome elses internet stopped working aswell. But I did get an unknown text with a link to a picture that says 'it exists" and Im quite scared to open it..


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Thanks


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Wow, that made me feel a lot better. I guess it was silly for me to think I was in that much trouble. I'll do as you said and look into it though. Thank you so much and God Bless.


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thank you it was just a bruise! :)


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Thanks


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Thank you! I told my parents, so I did come clean and everything is fine.


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I talked to my group leader yesterday and she said it mjjght be my living situation with me being 25 years old and sharing a room with a 12 year old still living at home eith my mom and not having any privacy making me more irritable and deppressed than normal. Could she be right? She says she thinks with me being the age that I am its about time that I get a place of my own and have privacy and my mom is extremely over protective with me having a mental illness I have to ask before I do anything and she said it might be because I have very little independence. Could she be right?


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the thing is in this country(ethiopia) having a relationship at my age is count as an arrogance or that i am a bad girl or something so they will never understand me and ok i go behind their back and act towards him ,but don't judge me wrong i have my pride too .am sorry i know i sound rude but i just need him to talk to me as my classmate/friend beacuse i don't also need a relationship!!!


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Classes start in the fall and the director advised to get started now. The question was to get suggestions as to WHAT to get.


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I would like to thank you for your advice, I have decided to keep hold of the bikini and hand it over to my parents and also tell them what happened as well


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Thank you very much!


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Thank you. It turned out to be a medication I was on!


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Thanks, you seem very good at this.


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Haha, thank you very much. Nice to hear I'm not crazy!


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Hey, this turned out to be pretty good advice. Therapists are good for talking and stuff, but psychiatry is what gave me lasting relief.


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Thank you very much. My mom doesn't seem to care which is why I can't talk to her. someone else suggested I talkto his family and that has helped a lot because they are hurting like I am. Thank you


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Thank you :)


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Thanks for the good advice


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Its not for constipiation,its for weight loss :) I'm 13*


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Thank you very much, this makes me feel so relieved! :))


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thanks!! I am still tryin 2 get 2 grips with the situation but we are getting there!! xx


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Thanks - I have heard about these 'rings' and have been meaning to get one. Will pop in/have a look online and give it a go!


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thanks


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Well thank you, for actually giving an alternative response to this bullshit. Thank you


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Thank you!


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I recently asked him to play cricket with me and my friends and he joins us.


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thanks for the advice i have to find a way to tell him.


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Thanks, I am going in today..,just thought I'd get some opinions to get an idea of what it might be


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Thanks!


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They dont have any time for me.


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i think ill show him this answer


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Thank you


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I'm taking your advice & not going! Thank you!!


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Thank you very much! This helped a lot :).


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Thanks alot:) i placed second and third out of 23


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Thanks! I should have done that, but turns out he hates lollypops and doesnt like seventh graders. Oh, well.


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Thanks! I didn't even think of any of these.


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Thanks! I'm going to send you a longer message in a sec.


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Well I'd never be gay for it's a sin. And I do see the good in him he works at a nursing home. And he goes out of his way to give me a ride home. I'm going to just grin and bear it, as long as he doesn't impose his lifestyle choice on me I won't mention it.


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thanks


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Thanks that's really helpful :)


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Yeah I know he has psychological things from his past that prevent him a lot. Thanks for your help.


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Thanks..you're right, I need to just forget about him.


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thanks


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Thanks, this clarifies a lot for me...it is painful to face the truth, but I have a strong feeling I'll have to move on.


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By skeef I mean they look at me weirdly or rudely and they just stare at me funny I don't know how to explain it


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see, like today he tried talking to me and I tried talking too. But the fact is, even if I try to bring this topic up he just tries to avoid it.He keeps giggling and saying he doesn't like me and trying to talk to him about THIS is realllllyyy difficult.Plus, I get really shy around him and I freeze.However, thank you soo much! Your advice has actually made me see that he can probably like me..and not hate :)


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I don;t want to make him feel like he HAS to have sex though...I think it might make him feel that way if I suggest that thing.


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Awesome thank you so much! I'm not sure if u can actually reply to this.. But if u can please respond... What if we fool around almost everyday? Will it get worse? Thank you so much even if u don't/ can't reply :)


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Thanks! I decided to go! :)


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Thank you so much!


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Rating changed from a 1 by L2 karenR. The advice is good and in no way abusive. If you rate something a 1 you need to submit an abuse report.


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Very true she had complained a lot. However if she did hear a rumor I don't know where it would come from as I have always kept to myself.


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Thanks!!!! So what happens IS an orgasm then...? Cause it's really not that special... Haha


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Thanks so much! And that Santa joke was really funny xD Thanks :)


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thank you! thanks makes SO much sense now!!


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Thank you! i had my first appointment and i am feeling like there is going to be a future for me now. I think you saved my life!


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Ill try it! Im scared cause in my school boys only date you for your boobs and how popular you are.


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yes


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Thank you so much for your feedback. I really appreciate it....I will definitely take your advice.


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thank you very much :)


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i already did but it was my boyfriend and he wants to tell my parents but i do not want them to know because they might not believe him or me since he never listens.


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Thank you SO much!!!


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i got the scars from emergancy surgery i actually have a couple from surgerys but those are the only ones that are really noticeable ones long and diagnal right above my boobs the other is straight across my stomach above my belly button


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xx


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Thank you for the feedback and i appreciate it and its all true what you have mentioned but unfortunately my situation has gone to far and this is my only solution.My heart keep on telling me i have reached my destination where there is no more hope.I cant stop thinking of what will be the best option and if i had a gun it would have been simple.If i can only find the right way which is guaranteed to cause death such like an injection of something which puts you into a deep sleep and not waking up again.This is what i,m wishing for. Thank you


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His means a lot thank you!


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Thank You. I guess it's too soon to tell. I don't wanna make a rash decision right now considering we're not friends and we haven't really spoken before. I tend to overthink sometimes. I've seen his conversation with my friend, and it's normal talk and whatnot. And I do agree on the mutual friends crap thing, I am well aware of that. Thank You again!


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Thanks. The swelling went away in a few hours. Now my eyes are the problem.


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As far as the stays go, I actually enjoy the peace of a hospital, but I can't go to a hospital because my insurance won't cover it. Other than that, I appreciate your advice and I am going back to my psychiatrist's office next week to look at the different options for my medicine. :) Thanks again


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"During this period have you felt feelings of deep depression, hopelessness and then periods of elation? How about grandiose ideas, visions of that which isn't there, rapid thoughts that don't turn off?" - No I haven't had any weird mood swings. Just suffer from depression from time to time. Thanks though


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Thank you very much! Your answer was very smart and frank. I think you're right. I appreciate your answer, and the time you took to write it! :DD!


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I'm sorry if it came across that I meant crazy like psychotic, I meant severe. But thank you.


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thank you so much!! With the romantic spark, he likes me ever since in 4th grade and we're in 7th grade...he wrote me a sweet love letter I'm just lost, but I will really take your advice! (:


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THank you


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Rating changed by DN. If you change it back, your account vanishes without further warning. You need to have some respect for the people who take the time to answer your questions. If you can't manage that, then you need to go elsewhere. ----- I didnt ask for your input -_- I have seen a doctor btw and he told me to use the same cream, bitch


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Thanks. I already have unlimited repairs, because I have insurance on it: It's just that they take it away for 1 week to fix it & I was hoping to sort it out without me being left without a computer. Looks like I have no choice though, ha! Thanks! :)


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Thanks for the advice, I did really look upto my dad as a child and I have explained where my issue is, I think he understands :) x


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thanks,I had never heard of such a thing,I'll ask him of course!


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Thank you. I will look into it.


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good call on the employee check. As much as I'd love to hash it all out I guess I have to keep my mouth shut. sucks though.


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Thank you. I just wanted someone to confirm that I wasn't being a jerk! I got her a gift, after she refused a large one. So if the rest feel obligation to get her something big, so be it. But I shall not be putting in for it. Thanks again!:)


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I don't mean I want my first kiss then break up. The idea of breaking up kills me, and i like him a little its just im scared of letting myself feel it. I dunno it's really hard to explain


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Thank you :).


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Thanks for the awesome advice! I have attempted to talk to her, but that mostly consisted of yelling and rebellion. You really helped me out. I owe ya.


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Thank you sooooo much!


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Thank you for the advice. Yes my parents are aware and I know it's the booze. It's hard to go through this knowing it's a family member. She knows she made a mistake and make excuses but won't apologize. I know I haven't spoken to her and neither had my fiancé she doesn't care tho I'd her and I talk or not.


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No medication...i did some research and found that since we have been dating he hasnt been going to the gym regularly luke he used to do so i think that could be why he is not in the mood, hes not cheating bcuz hes always on a regualr daily schedule so i know hes not cheating were always together(which could also be the problem) but i do catch him drunk txting girls and now trying to hide it from me since i brought up that it bothered me, i just rly hope we can work this out cuz hes sick of trying and thinks we possibly dont fit together anymore altho he claims he doesnt want anyone else...idk what to do...its a hard situation, cuz we live together and got a puppy, but if i have to give all of that up to be happy and feel wanted than maybe thats what ill have to do...im not one to take breaks but maybe it would be good i rly dont know


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thankyou =] that could actually help me out alot!!


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Thanks but this doesn't answer anything about my upgrade.. do i have to wait or not? you can email me at snscheetz@gmail.com


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I DO love her and I understand everything you just told me and more but she knows that she has it and purposley does somethings she does. She means a whole lot to me but I just want me and her to get along better


Rating: 5
Very good advice I will try to talk to her about it!


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Thanks(:


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Thank you so much! That helped me so much! I always thought they had good chemistry together, I never would have expected them disliking each other to the point where he wanted off!


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Thank you so much! He'll be so happy and I'll try to calm him down so he doesn't cross the line lol but thank you a lot!!!




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