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I aim to give you solid advice on your problems. I don't sugarcoat things and I'm always straight up. Don't come asking for what you want to hear as I always give the truth even if you don't want it because it's what you need and the only way to grow.
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Thanks - I have heard about these 'rings' and have been meaning to get one. Will pop in/have a look online and give it a go!

thanks

Well thank you, for actually giving an alternative response to this bullshit. Thank you

Thank you!

I recently asked him to play cricket with me and my friends and he joins us.

thanks for the advice i have to find a way to tell him.

Thanks, I am going in today..,just thought I'd get some opinions to get an idea of what it might be

Thanks!

They dont have any time for me.

i think ill show him this answer

Thank you

I'm taking your advice & not going! Thank you!!

Thank you very much! This helped a lot :).

Thanks alot:) i placed second and third out of 23

Thanks! I should have done that, but turns out he hates lollypops and doesnt like seventh graders. Oh, well.

Thanks! I didn't even think of any of these.

Thanks! I'm going to send you a longer message in a sec.

Well I'd never be gay for it's a sin. And I do see the good in him he works at a nursing home. And he goes out of his way to give me a ride home. I'm going to just grin and bear it, as long as he doesn't impose his lifestyle choice on me I won't mention it.

thanks

Thanks that's really helpful :)

Yeah I know he has psychological things from his past that prevent him a lot. Thanks for your help.

Thanks..you're right, I need to just forget about him.

thanks

Thanks, this clarifies a lot for me...it is painful to face the truth, but I have a strong feeling I'll have to move on.

By skeef I mean they look at me weirdly or rudely and they just stare at me funny I don't know how to explain it

see, like today he tried talking to me and I tried talking too. But the fact is, even if I try to bring this topic up he just tries to avoid it.He keeps giggling and saying he doesn't like me and trying to talk to him about THIS is realllllyyy difficult.Plus, I get really shy around him and I freeze.However, thank you soo much! Your advice has actually made me see that he can probably like me..and not hate :)

I don;t want to make him feel like he HAS to have sex though...I think it might make him feel that way if I suggest that thing.

Awesome thank you so much! I'm not sure if u can actually reply to this.. But if u can please respond... What if we fool around almost everyday? Will it get worse? Thank you so much even if u don't/ can't reply :)

Thanks! I decided to go! :)

Thank you so much!

Rating changed from a 1 by L2 karenR. The advice is good and in no way abusive. If you rate something a 1 you need to submit an abuse report.

Very true she had complained a lot. However if she did hear a rumor I don't know where it would come from as I have always kept to myself.

Thanks!!!! So what happens IS an orgasm then...? Cause it's really not that special... Haha

Thanks so much! And that Santa joke was really funny xD Thanks :)

thank you! thanks makes SO much sense now!!

Thank you! i had my first appointment and i am feeling like there is going to be a future for me now. I think you saved my life!

Ill try it! Im scared cause in my school boys only date you for your boobs and how popular you are.

yes

Thank you so much for your feedback. I really appreciate it....I will definitely take your advice.

thank you very much :)

i already did but it was my boyfriend and he wants to tell my parents but i do not want them to know because they might not believe him or me since he never listens.

Thank you SO much!!!

i got the scars from emergancy surgery i actually have a couple from surgerys but those are the only ones that are really noticeable ones long and diagnal right above my boobs the other is straight across my stomach above my belly button

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Thank you for the feedback and i appreciate it and its all true what you have mentioned but unfortunately my situation has gone to far and this is my only solution.My heart keep on telling me i have reached my destination where there is no more hope.I cant stop thinking of what will be the best option and if i had a gun it would have been simple.If i can only find the right way which is guaranteed to cause death such like an injection of something which puts you into a deep sleep and not waking up again.This is what i,m wishing for. Thank you

His means a lot thank you!

Thank You. I guess it's too soon to tell. I don't wanna make a rash decision right now considering we're not friends and we haven't really spoken before. I tend to overthink sometimes. I've seen his conversation with my friend, and it's normal talk and whatnot. And I do agree on the mutual friends crap thing, I am well aware of that. Thank You again!

Thanks. The swelling went away in a few hours. Now my eyes are the problem.

As far as the stays go, I actually enjoy the peace of a hospital, but I can't go to a hospital because my insurance won't cover it. Other than that, I appreciate your advice and I am going back to my psychiatrist's office next week to look at the different options for my medicine. :) Thanks again

"During this period have you felt feelings of deep depression, hopelessness and then periods of elation? How about grandiose ideas, visions of that which isn't there, rapid thoughts that don't turn off?" - No I haven't had any weird mood swings. Just suffer from depression from time to time. Thanks though

Thank you very much! Your answer was very smart and frank. I think you're right. I appreciate your answer, and the time you took to write it! :DD!

I'm sorry if it came across that I meant crazy like psychotic, I meant severe. But thank you.

thank you so much!! With the romantic spark, he likes me ever since in 4th grade and we're in 7th grade...he wrote me a sweet love letter I'm just lost, but I will really take your advice! (:

THank you

Rating changed by DN. If you change it back, your account vanishes without further warning. You need to have some respect for the people who take the time to answer your questions. If you can't manage that, then you need to go elsewhere. ----- I didnt ask for your input -_- I have seen a doctor btw and he told me to use the same cream, bitch

Thanks. I already have unlimited repairs, because I have insurance on it: It's just that they take it away for 1 week to fix it & I was hoping to sort it out without me being left without a computer. Looks like I have no choice though, ha! Thanks! :)

Thanks for the advice, I did really look upto my dad as a child and I have explained where my issue is, I think he understands :) x

thanks,I had never heard of such a thing,I'll ask him of course!

Thank you. I will look into it.

good call on the employee check. As much as I'd love to hash it all out I guess I have to keep my mouth shut. sucks though.

Thank you. I just wanted someone to confirm that I wasn't being a jerk! I got her a gift, after she refused a large one. So if the rest feel obligation to get her something big, so be it. But I shall not be putting in for it. Thanks again!:)

I don't mean I want my first kiss then break up. The idea of breaking up kills me, and i like him a little its just im scared of letting myself feel it. I dunno it's really hard to explain

Thank you :).

Thanks for the awesome advice! I have attempted to talk to her, but that mostly consisted of yelling and rebellion. You really helped me out. I owe ya.

Thank you sooooo much!

Thank you for the advice. Yes my parents are aware and I know it's the booze. It's hard to go through this knowing it's a family member. She knows she made a mistake and make excuses but won't apologize. I know I haven't spoken to her and neither had my fiancé she doesn't care tho I'd her and I talk or not.

No medication...i did some research and found that since we have been dating he hasnt been going to the gym regularly luke he used to do so i think that could be why he is not in the mood, hes not cheating bcuz hes always on a regualr daily schedule so i know hes not cheating were always together(which could also be the problem) but i do catch him drunk txting girls and now trying to hide it from me since i brought up that it bothered me, i just rly hope we can work this out cuz hes sick of trying and thinks we possibly dont fit together anymore altho he claims he doesnt want anyone else...idk what to do...its a hard situation, cuz we live together and got a puppy, but if i have to give all of that up to be happy and feel wanted than maybe thats what ill have to do...im not one to take breaks but maybe it would be good i rly dont know

thankyou =] that could actually help me out alot!!

Thanks but this doesn't answer anything about my upgrade.. do i have to wait or not? you can email me at snscheetz@gmail.com

I DO love her and I understand everything you just told me and more but she knows that she has it and purposley does somethings she does. She means a whole lot to me but I just want me and her to get along better

Very good advice I will try to talk to her about it!

Thanks(:

Thank you so much! That helped me so much! I always thought they had good chemistry together, I never would have expected them disliking each other to the point where he wanted off!

Thank you so much! He'll be so happy and I'll try to calm him down so he doesn't cross the line lol but thank you a lot!!!

Thanks that was great advice! You saved my party!

That doesn't answer my question.

Thank you. That would be smart.

thanks!!I'll try it:)

I can't hit them..I did once and I got in way too much trouble, more than them, but thanks for the rest

thanks this helped alot .

Thank you very much this did help some what cus it never accured I could blog my views about things I have thought about blogging previously and journalism is a good idea as well thank you i will look into both things and keep my options open :)

Your advice was just what I needed! I'm not going to do it and it's definitely for the best! Thank you so much :)

Thank you Im a little afraid to tell my parents because my mom is concerned mostly with what to do with her life cus she's wanting to leave my dad I told her about the crying and she was like nobody worries about my problems I'm talking to my Councler a little bit about it thanks for the advice!

Thank you!

Thank you! This REALLY helped me!

Thanks! I like the part where you said peace of mind :) I have a fever right now so ya! I have had it for 4 days now, its killing my mom. But THANKS! :D

excellent, thank you.

Yeah I've been told it hurts on the foot :S But yeah I'll deffo go to a tattoo artist and get them to give me some inspiration... :D thanks!

Oh, I'm sorry you think I'm choosing to sleep with my mom? No I share a room with her, the apartment we live in only has two rooms and my brother lives in the second room. I'm sorry I should've written that, sorry once again & thanks a lot for your answer!

Thanks, I mean she does cut herself, or used to anyway. I for sure don't want to annoy her and constantly bother her, she has always had a lot of issues & her parents don't believe her when they say she is depressed, I've tried kind of mentioning once at her house, and her brother told me they think it's just a phase. But thanks, I'm just going to text her very few days and just tell her to give me a call when she feels like it etc.

Thank you so much!!

Thank you so much! I will definitely take your advice. :)

Thank you never thought about it that way! I've tried to explain that to my mom about letting them fight she just don't like the idea about seeing them but my puppy wants to be with my dog and my dog don't like my puppy. I read what you said to my mom I hope she wil let them now. Thanks again you really helped I would rate higher if I could for it(: happy holidays:D

There's no hatred. I may have been upset when I wrote this but there is no hatred. I do so much for her, you wouldn't know. Are you young?

Thanks for your help!

I meant like if I were to e-mail my neighbor and she has a version number it has to be the number@vtext.com because if I was to email her I can not just put her number I have to put @something. Thant is what i meant so if you can and you do happen to know can you please put this question in my inbox and just look under blr51697 and yes I am the one who asked this question. thanks.

I already visited an neurologist a week ago he gave me some tablets ciplar-la40 and zapiz-0.25 these are the names of those tablets there is no change in me so do you think i have to visit an psychiatrist again or should continue with an neurologist.

Thank u!

oh ok thanks!(:

Thank you so much for your advice. It's really encouraged me to go and it's given me confidence to stick up to the rest of my "friends". I'm just going to have fun despite what they think. Thanks again! :D