HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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so one night i got a little sexual with this one guy then the next night he asked me out and now were all sexual and all but when his freinds asks if were going out he says kinda and we always get sexual if he comes over i try and talk but its hard too so we get sexual instead its like awkward silence so its like a replacement for talking..
i dont want to break up with him..
so i guess my question is..
how do i get to know him?
and make him like me for me..
not my body? (link)
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girl he doesnt LIKE you hes using you for sex hes like this girl will do what ever i ask her to do so why not?he probably brags about this to his freinds!!your aiming at this guys sexuall side not his emotional and that way hes gonna think youre a slut.stop sexing him and get to know him more or eles this realationship is never gonna work
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Are there guys, around the age of 15 or 16, who just want a relationship of holding hands, kissing and making out (but not sex) anymore? I don't think I even know any guys who want relationships like that. Do I just know the wrong guys or is the majority wanting more?
Thanks! :) (link)
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sadly there isnt.they all think they are mature anough to have sex but theyre NOT.they all see their freinds doing it so they copy them.at times freinds pressure themselves into doing it they tell eachother what are you gay your 16 and still a virgin.so.....there isnt
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Well my brothers girlfriend is like, a total whore. And I'm not just saying that. I have a really strong hunch that she also likes my brothers best friend. (Whom I like, but that means nothing.) The other day, he was here, and she came over, even though my brother was sleeping. Then she went out to get ice cream with him, and didn't ask my brother to go. THEN, she asked him to visit her when she goes on vacation, and not my brother. I realize that this shouldn't be any of my business, but I find it ridiculous that he's still with her when she's already cheated on him once. Plus, my older brother who's 9 years older than me told me that he heard some stuff about her from some people that he didn't like too much, and he'd have to have a talk with the other brother. I know they must have had that talk by now, and I know that he looks up to him, but they still haven't broken up. Even if she is on vacation. Really, I just don't know what to do. I need help. I hate the girl and I don't want to kill her, so I need ways to:
1) Not kill her.
2) Get my brother to break up with her.
Once a cheater always a cheater. (link)
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TeLl YoUrE brother to save himself the heartbreak because who ever has cheated once will always cheat and that he can never trust her.tell him that its gonna be even worse when he finds out shes being with his best freind.you need to talk some senses into him.(i dont mean it the mean way )
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HELP!!!I luv my brother so much well hes cute major but hes a spoiled brat and everyones likes him and I guess thats why hes spoiled.I cant controll myself and yes hes 4 years old.
I dont know if I should keep hugin him or ignore him 4 being spoild.
HELP!!! (link)
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lol well cmon he HAS to be spioled hes a lil kid!you shoulda seen how spoiled I WAS when i was 4!you know thats actually what makes lil kids cute them being spoiled.im sure you were a lil spoiled when you were 4!hope i helped!!
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ive been a christian my entire life up until now, jsut before my whole life i gew up in the church, and thats how i was taught. now that im older i started to look into spirituality a little deeping and ive found that what i belive isnt really christianity. im going on a mexico missions trip with my youth group in a few weeks, we're goign to tijuana to build houses and work with teh kids. i've been twice, and its always a erally spiritual experience, i guess im kind of scared that i will fall back into how i was before, just because of all the pressure from everyone else, how do i stay clear from this, without not going on the trip? (link)
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well there are 3 MAIN religions that beleive in god and this is what they are......christianity is a religion that says that jesus is the son of God and that he died on the cross to save ppl from sins...Islam(muslims) is a religion that says that there is only one god and he is the creator of heavens and earth and that noone helped him creat this and that he has no sons no wife or anything like that and prophet mohamed(ppbuh) is his messenger, islma has five pillars,which are things you have to do to become a muslim...1) is bearing witness that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah(god)and that mohamed is the messenger of Allah.2)prayer....this is a very important one if you want to be muslim,muslims pray 5 times a day thanking God for all of the things he has bestowed upon them.3) is giving money to the poor in the month of ramadan.4) is fasting in the holy month of ramadan....ramadan is a month that comes each year and muslims dont eat from like 4 am till 5 pm and god made them do this so they can thank him and be happy that they have food and to feel the hunger of most ppl that dont have any food.5) last thing(this isnt a must if you dont have money) is going to hajj(pilgrimage) its a place you go to to pray and go walk around the ka'bah to ask god for anything you want and to be forgiven....thoes who go there are forgiven from all their sins......muslims are very decent people that shouldnt curse stuff like that(and NO islam is not a terrorist religion....osama bin laden can be a terrorrist but muslims arent...they dont even agree to whats been hapening in iraq and all)muslims also believe in the day of judgment which is a day where everyone will come alive from the dead to be judged about their doings and only Allah creator of this world will judge them.from that day there will be either going to heaven or hell depending on your doings.Allah is very merciful and forgiving like for example if you done something like REALLY bad and you regret it and ask Allah for forgivness he will forgive you,muslims also have signs that prove that the day of judgment is coming closer and that they should start becoming better muslims and scary thing is that most of them have already happened...all i want you to do is visit this website about the miracles of islam the word allah is written in arabic in most places ....http://www.miraclesofislam.com/ and another thing is that muslims are NOT allowed to make fun of christianity or jewish religion its totally sinfull because God said in the holy quran that muslims should have respect for others....even muslim girls....if you have seen that most of them cover their hair it is because Allah wants the muslim woman to be protected by not exposing her body to other men and being a prey of sexuall stuff.well please visit the website i told you about by just cliking on it and on that website you might not get the miracle of the mosque....a mosque is a place where muslims pray....please visit it and if you have any other questions about islam my email is written in my profile marilyn_monroe_4_arabs@hotmail.com (thats also my msn)........
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how do you download movies to your computer? (link)
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thats easy...you first have to have the program that downloads it like wares or limewire(limewires better) you go to www.warez.com or www.limewire.com and these programs are free then when you install it on your computer just click search for the movie you want thats it
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I've been going thru a rough time with losing almost all of my best friends to drugs, sex, and alcohol these past few weeks. Losing them has been so terrible, we've just found the end to our 5 year friendship between the six of us.
I've developed several large cold sores with horrible swelling above my lip. I'm also getting a sty under my eye, and my eye twitches alot too. Big headaches and stomach aches are also becoming a problem. My doctor confirmed these are just stress problems with losing my friends, but what should I do? I honestly cannot name two friends I have right now, nor am I ready to start school again alone.
What should I do? Not having friends has also resulted in loss of appetite, me and these girls were just so tight, and now, we've changed so much, it hurts so bad to lose them. (link)
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wow you have to ToTaLlY quit drugs,sex,and alcohol.there are places you can go to that can help you do that.you need to call your freinds and tell them that your different now and that youve quit taking this shit.drugs is gonna ruin your life in every way....one its gonna make you feel happy at the moment but your gonna be addicted to it like crazy and never be able to stop it and in the end your gonna end up DEAD.two its gonna make you lose all the people you love not just your freinds.sex is gonna come one day you dont have to rush it trust me...when your a lil older and you have STDs and wondering why all the guys you will marry dont wanna have sex with you youll know that they do NOT want the disease spread off to them.Alcohol.....what the hell its POiSoNoUs!!!itll kill you and ALSO get you brain damage...why are you doing all of this shit to yourself when youve got freinds that care about you like HELL???your killing yourself in EvErY wAy!!!!start off with one thing at a time first off you have to stop the drugd you dont NEED it.talk to an adult about this and let them take you to a drug control place where you can stop it doesnt matter what others think if they think your a freak for going there your health is more important..tell your freinds that youve stopped and that your quitting it all for your health and for them and that your not gonna lose them to some whak you take.its gonna take a while to stop all this stuff but if you dont start now you never will...your gonna find yourself all alone,with STDs,pregnant,with brain damage and addicted to drugs at the same time...DAMN!!!!so whats it gonna be your freinds,life,family,health,future and success or are you just gonna sit there waiting for the angel of death to come down and take your soul away.....cuz trust me you can be next on his list.
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my period is really heavy like the first 3 days! well i dont care during the day because i wear tampons but at night i wear pads. i usually have to wear like 4 seriously big pads because its so heavy at night and sometimes that even leaks through! i heard that wearing a tampon for a long time like overnight is bad for you and you are at higher risk for that TSS or whatever! soo is it? or what should i do? im even on birth control lol and im 16/f. and thats why i went on birth control because i thought it would help my heavy flow but it doesnt seem to work. (link)
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becareful,too much birth control isnt good for you,it can affect your future and NEVER wear a tampon for more than 6 hours its FrIkIn DaNgErOuS
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For the past few months, I've been feeling sad very often. I'm 15, female, and I guess I feel sort of alone. I constantly think about death, how I don't have many good friends, and how I don't have anything I really need to be happy.
I'm also on a diet, I've lost 20 pounds, because I think I need to be skinnier.
I guess what I'm asking is, am I depressed? And do I need some sort of help? My mom knows how I feel and she is always lecturing me about it. I just want to know what I can do to not feel this way. (link)
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dont worry everyone has a time when they start feeling depressed and not know why ive been there. what is it you are missing?could you be worried about death because of religion?are you studying your religion good enough?when you get closer to god god gets closer to you?learn more about your religion and when your done learn about other religions to increase your knowledge(islam,jewish,christianity) cuz when you do you wont be afraid of death.....or mabey the reason your depressed is that you dont have a boyfreind.....could that be it?have you been through a breakup with a guy?are there past things that still haunt you know?ask yourself these questions.if its something bout the past you have to let it go to have a future but you need to open up to your mom if theres something thats bothering you bout the past you have to tell your mom.dont worry about having a lot of friends you know i only got to meet my REAL best freinds last year and im 15 here.mabey youll meet them later on...till then be freindly and everyonell want to know you....or are you mad cuz your over weight...dont worry bout that im overweight too and im struggling thru a diet your not the only one!what you need is a lil more confidence and realiz that youre beautiful in your own way......look at me i mean im overweight a lil and i have confidence(big time) anyways NO i dont think youre depressed your just going thru a ruff time but life aint always the way you expect it to be it has good days and bad days and trust me without the bad days we wouldnt be able to appreciate the good days,
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I might be pregnant, Il find out in a couple of weeks if i miss my period or not but im so stressed out about that fact that i might be pregnant this could cause my period to be late. If i am pregnant, what do i do? I cant keep it but i wouldnt know what to do if i was to have an abortion? I cant tell my family. I feel so alone, i always cry. Please can you give me some advice. (link)
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honey these are the consenquenses of having sex when your not married being a single mom its a MUST to tell your family! noones gonna help you like they are and neither is this website gonna help you like your parents will. but im telling you if you(imma say it slowly) C-A-N-T T-A-K-E- C-A-R-E O-F the kid then i think you should have an abortion if you dont get one then you have to tolerate the consenquenses and take care of your child...its not your babys fault that you messed with some guy and brought it into this world and now you can take care of it.but making mistakes is a step to success by the way. youll learn from your mistakes and THATS how a person becomes experienced.
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Please help me I got dumped two days ago and i dont know why. Everything was going great but then we got into a small arguement. I told him I was going to the mall with my friend he said ok but to call back and tell him which mall. I was angry at the time so I didn't call. I was going to, but then we passed by his house and he looked busy with the backyard, so I didn't call. He called me screaming saying "thanks for calling!" He was so mad and argued with me for a long itme. He kept calling back and screaming stuff, I even said sorry but he wouldnt stop he said that we were never going to stop arguing and that the relationship would never work. But everything was going great, sure we argue sometimes but we always resolve it by compromising or apologizing. Anyway he said if I didnt care about his feelings that I should break up with him. I told him he was overreacting, to calm down and stop screaming. He said that by now he has the right to scream at me and that he is sick of me so I told him fine if your so sick of me than you break up with me. Then he screamed ITS OVER!
I dont understand how this happened, it was all so quickly. Me and him were soooo close. Are two year anniversary was coming up. I dont know what went wrong. I apoligzed and it was like he went all psyco. Please help me I cant sleep at night I have to take Nyquil to knock me out. I loved him so much, I thought he loved me too. My mom has told me not to call him, she says if he broke up with me and he is sorry and really loves me he has to be the one to call back otherwise he is not worth it. I know thats true but I just miss him so much I dont think I could take one more day without him. We spent all our extra time together, We stoped hanging out with our friends. We were eachothers best friend, atleast I thought so but during the arguement he said that I dont even act like girl friend anymore. I feel so bad I dont know what I did that was so wrong. PLEASE HELP ME any advice would do, I just cant take this anymore, its driving me crazy. (link)
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omg wow you musta been thru some heavy shit here.look since you love him so much there are two things you can do here you can either try one last time and go to his house and apologize and tell him how you annioversary is coming up or you can save your self the humiliation and embarrasment and get over it, your moms right though hes not the last man on earth....4get him youll meet a lot of guys in your life and life has a lot of ups and downs and if you stop at every depressing thing that happens in your life youll never have a future.good luck
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Okay I was with the guy for over a year. On and off. And this is our third try. I'm pretty sure he liked some other chick.. but couldn't get with her and then asked me out. I feel stupid and yeah.. I don't know what to do.. because he doesn't really call me. He talks to his other friends on the phone and puts me on hold. :\ And he doesn't really show or tell me that he likes me or that he's happy with me.. or anything like that. So i really don't know what's going on. It's just.. "BYE" and I feel like he likes the other girl...and not me anymore. I don't know what to do because I'm not really sure I'm right. (link)
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omg woman you are being used and played with like hell.how can you accept this to happen to yourself??your a FEMALE and FEMALES desserve to be treated with all respect!!!! he only asked you out cuz he knows you desperatley like him and will agree at any cost so hes like FiNe since that other hot chick didnt go out with me imma try to piss of the hot chick by showing her i go out with other girls!!he doesnt LIKE you hes playing around with you!!you dump this guy now and get a life!!you need a guy that desserves you and loves you and treats you like total royalty the way every female desserves to be treated!
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Hey everybody! I'm 14/f. Well, I have a fear of dogs. It's just that when they get close to me I'm so afraid and start to take off. Once when I was a young kid, my next-door neighbor's dog Kiki was chasing after me and I literally thought that it was going to kill me. I don't want to be afraid of dogs because I think they are the cutest things ever, especially puppies. Does anyone have any advice on how I can overcome my fear of dogs...I would really appreciate it! Thanks. (link)
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well take it this way the only time you should be afraid of dogs is when they get angry and start growling and coming closer to ya other than that you should pet them and calm down even if they were to bite you you still arent gonna die...but its totally normal to be afraid.
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alright im 16/f and im still a virgin. ive only done things with 2 guys but i have only had the opportunity to do things with 2 guys..the 2nd guy i didnt even like but idk..it just all happened.do you think thats kinda of sluty? and me & this guy have a little thing goin on but im afraid that when we hang out agian we'll go a little bit too far. i really like him and i know he likes me but i dont know if i can stop myself. im supposed to hang out with him and stay the night over his house cause he is my friends cousin and my friend is goin too. but idk..i just dont want it to happen and i dont know if it will or not or if i can be able to stop at just making out..what should i do? (link)
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DUH ofcoures its slutty dyou expect me to say that it isnt? you didnt even KNOW the guy and you did it with him what do you expect him to do?hes gonna go brag about that to his freinds and your reputation is gonna go down the drains so stop doin it with so many ppl so your reputation wont be bad from all sides and your gonna get your self pregnent and have STDs.and if you get pregnent now your gonna regret it cuz your gonna be a child WITH a child and obviously both of yall need mothers to cry to and you wont be able to be a mother to this kid.
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Okay so I've been with this boy for nine almost ten months. We've done everything (except he never went down on me if that even matters) But the thing is he went out with a girl for 9 months on and off before we went out and this girl and i have never really gotten along. To put it in the nicest way, i hate her with a passion. Recently i have found out that they were talking on the phone..... and knowing her she probably either likes him still or wants to break us up. She has said that she hates him so much blah blah and a bunch more bull shit but then shes now talking to him? i dont get it. I know i am extremly jelous and in my case its not a good thing. I am a nervous reck all the time. He is in nationals for 6 days which is no big deal because i have rarley been able to see him this whole summer. The only thing differnet from the rest of the summer is that i cant even call him. I only just found out about this phone call the day he left for minnesota for the volleyball nationals. When he comes back we wont have much if any time to hang out because he has a volley ball camp at lyola college within the week he comes home. He isnt one to talk about akward/hard situtations things i mean i've tried talking to him about things on the phone and it doesn't work at all. I want to know if i am being to nervous and letting my jelously take over me? And when do confront him about this what excatly should i say? The thing is we had sex not to long ago which makes this much harder because it makes me think he doesnt mean it when he says "i love you" any other comments on the situation are good too.
16/f thankks (link)
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honey be4 you let anyone get into your pants you need to know that person dedicated to you and ONLY you mabey he did it with that girl you hate i mean you never know! i think this girls being with him now cuz shes holding a grudge against you or shes always hated you for a reason and is trying to get you jealous dont make her happy by fufilling her wish and become jelous of her!be careful i think she tryin to break you guys up.
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ok...here is how it is...i used to be a happygolucky child then my cousin changed and i acted cool like her but i was so young people thought it was cute...but now i am wearing pink clothes...listening to green day....and hard rock!!!!!! what is wrong with me? and sometimes i want to dye my hair black somtimes i come to my sences and say ..no i would look bad with it...then i turn goth and get moody...then another i am happy sweet loving child..which should i choose..and why am i going through this because i need to make a decision because i am getting new clothes and it would be stupid to be totally opposite..my friends think i am weird because i always have opposite feelings one day and another..goth..prep..punk...prep..punk..goth...it changes...for me i prefer to wear goth clothes but be quiet...but cheeerful i want to have different attitudes ..but then all this mixture is to much...plz..for the sake of pete help me! (link)
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why not dress differently all the time if it makes you happy?everyone loves a change.but too much can be annoying.its ok if you change the way you dress as long as you dont change the way you act....but this is actually bad in a way when you think about it....which is your real personality?are you a happy go lucky person?or are you depressed and gothic?think about it.think which way you like to dress the most.in my opinion i think being a glamour girl(like myself) beats all
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well im going to be a sophmore next year and i have absolutely no idea what i want to be. obviously i have a dream job, and mine is to become an actress, but in case that whole deal doesnt work out, i want to have another thing for backup. freshman year i just took basics and this year i basically am too but junior im going to really need to think about what classes i want to take because its going to make a difference in colleges and stuff. does anyone know of any quizzes i can take or any thing like that to help me figure it out? thanks! (link)
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since you wanna be and actress then you obviously must LOVE being in the spotlight(like me!!)then your backup job should be a t.v host or a magazine editor(anything to make you shine)
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I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help (link)
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well you had sex and thats the concenquenses youre mature and responsible enuff to do it now you have to finish what you started and go to the doctor and be brave enuff to say yes i did have sex.well you ARE gonna get in trouble but at least your gonna learn from mistakes....thats how a person becomes experienced and dont worry that disease is currable...your lucky you didnt get aids you should thank god!
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everytime i look at everyone i feel like they got something id ont im very insicure and i wanted help on being more secure any ideas? (link)
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well youve got something they dont and theyve got something you dont.thats the way life is.you need confiedence sit down and think it over youre beautiful in your own way.go out and get a totall makeover(if your a girl...if your a guy IM SRRY you didnt mention it) buy some new clothes get a new haircut and totally pamper yourself and youll feel like a new person.
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ok, my boyfried is 18 n im 13.And we have sex, Please dont call me a slut cuz i am NOT ONE. it doesnt matter what age i am cuz im not imature. But,we have been going out for 6 months. sometimes when we do it with out a condom dont worry its safe for some reasons he says its dry in there n it hurts, any help on what that is??? (link)
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WOW....um...ok!! well your obviously being passed sexually transmitted diseases honey.Mabey you HAVENT(mabey) done it with other guys be4 but mabey hes done it with other ppl and could be carrying the diseases and passing them down to his lil girlfriend!if you want the TRUTH youre gonna really feel bad later on when your pregnent and like i said to half the people on this website your gonna be a child WITH a child and the fathers gonna deny its his kid.
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