HELP!!!I luv my brother so much well hes cute major but hes a spoiled brat and everyones likes him and I guess thats why hes spoiled.I cant controll myself and yes hes 4 years old.
I dont know if I should keep hugin him or ignore him 4 being spoild.
HELP!!!
sillyrob answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 2:39 am: Sorry to tell you, but he's four and four year olds are really stupid. Give him time, if he's still this way by his teenage years, start beating him or at least teasing him. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
Lola answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 1:47 am: Hey,
I know how it is to love this cute little boys and stuff, but in my opinion, I think that you should neither keep on huggin him day and night and neither should you ignore him 4 being spoilt,because it wasn't his fault that he was a spoilt brat, to begin with, but the people who raised him, loved him , cared about him,and gave him everything he wanted and pleased, they are the ones who got him to be in the postition of a spoilt kid.So, as a result, it would be very unfair if you let go and ingnore him, and i mean.. he's 4 years old, meaning that he most probably hasn't even developed a personality and he's still a kid and doesn't know anything.
So yes you can kiss him all you want, hug him all you want, play with him all you want and you can also think that he's the cutest baby you've seen on earth, but don't take a step back and ignore him, because then it would be very unfair to him. But if you stay and go on, then he'd grow up and remember you as his favorite sister, and you could always be there together and spend time together and love each other so much. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 1:31 am: All little kids are some what spoiled and love attention and it's completly normal. You shouldn't just ignore him because of that. He loves when you give him attention just as much as anyone. =] [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
lastlyMe answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 1:01 am: he's a kid. all my cousins were annoying, cute, and craved attention. Of course I gave it to them along with everyone else. They all turned out just fine, and are on their way to college and getting married etc. Most 4 year olds are so cute and want everything. Just love them. Love is important for all ages, especially at that age. But i know your a great sister so don't worry at all ^^ [ lastlyMe's advice column | Ask lastlyMe A Question ]
cheburashka answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 12:42 am: no. if he's spoiled, you shouldn't do things that spoil him, but you shouldn't stop loving him either. ignore him whenever he behaves badly (kids who recieve a lot of attention hate that so it's a good punishment), but always hug him and give him attention whenever he does something good - like helping you with something, saying "thank you," etc. he's not spoiled because everyone loves him - he's spoiled because people aren't trying to limit him. and maybe you should specify what you mean by "spoiled" -any specific behaviors? that'll make it easier to answer your question. [ cheburashka's advice column | Ask cheburashka A Question ]
Exquisitechick answered Wednesday July 12 2006, 12:35 am: He's youre brother, so you shouldnt ignore him. Youre question isnt really that clear to me. But, if you feel you are being treated unfair, then why dont you talk to the people who are treating him like a prince and tell them how you feel about it.
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