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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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okay...i'm not going to have sex anytime soon. not even close. but just for my information, when you have sex, is it before, after, or during your period? (link)
and not before, when you are most fertile. but really, it doesnt matter. you can get pregnant any day of the month.


What does it mean? (link)
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ok well i have a horrid singing voice and well me and some friends are starting a band and well im supposed to be one of the singers is there anyway i can make my voice better without seeing a music person and being taught a bunch of stuff because with my voice i wont sing at all in front of anyone no matter who it is. so that wont work.
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http://www.knowledgehound.com/khhow2s/singbett.htm

best i can do for you, my singing voice is quite horrid as well.

have you thought about doing something else in the band, like playing an instrument?


me and my boyfriend keep trying to have anal sex and we stop because it hurts too bad. it like burns. is it supposed to feel like that? how do i get it to stop and will it always feel like that? barely any of his penis goes in and it hurts really bad, so im scared that if he went deeper it would burn even worse. help please? oh, and does it actually feel good? (link)
yes it hurts, thats why most women dont like it. only advice, use lots of lube. and remember, even though you cant get pregnant from it, you should still be using a condom


what is keratosis pilaris ? (link)
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whats difffrence between catholic and christian (link)
basically, catholics believe that the pope is the end all authority on earth, and is infalible in interpretations of the bible. other than that and some other minor differences, catholics and christians are the same


the red razor, from spring, the one that gives proceeds to aids research... the commericals say its 30 dollars with a 50 dollar mail in rebate, where can i get the rebate? offline? in a store? i'm confused. thanks (link)
they give you the rebate with the phone, and you have to send it in and they mail you a check.


whats a hand job??? (link)
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=handjob


can you tell me the signs. eg tattoos or piecings in particular spots? living arrangements? it just that i think my friends sister inlaw might be leisbian and is living with two gay me and has her tongue pieced and now her bottom lip. she also has a tattoo on her rist and on her leg. (link)
the only sign that someone might be a lesbian is her having sex with a girl, and in our current society, even that isnt 100% accurate. there are no "living arrangements" there are no "particular spots for tatoos" or anything else.


okay so ; i want to design my own custom myspace layout ; but no one will tell me how ; i want to start a layout page too ; helppp mee pleasee (link)
no one will tell you because its mindnumbingly complicated, and not something you can learn in a matter of hours, or even days. you could always just go to a site that helps you, like thomas myspace editor (search google)


Hi, I know you can't MAKE a guy like you, but can anyone give me some TIPS on how to MAKE them want you? Like things that would help them start to like me maybe, besides being myself. What are some things guys like? Thanks. (link)
you want to make a guy want you? tell him you put out. he'll be yours for sure. problem is, hed probably just be using you. you cant really MAKE a guy want you either, want is part of like.


If you moderators have to read the long questions to have them posted then why don't you answer them because no one else will answer them. Do you just post them without reading every detail? (link)
Sometimes. Its easy enough to know whether question is worthy of being posted at a quick glance. Also, long questions typically require long answers, and moderators have to approve lots of questions, and dont always have time to answer long thought out questions. There are enough advicenators out there who do answer long questions, it just might take you a while longer to get an answer.


are the way girls teeth are a big deal to guys? because i guess i am pretty and guys will call me hot before i open my mouth because i have messed up teeth. should i keep flirting or no. i dont want to if guys think bad teeth are really a big deal and really ugly. are they to guys? (link)
it depends how ugly. for the most part guys dont care, but there is a limit. you could always try talking softly, and not showing your teeth until the guy likes you enough to care even less


Hey.
I have a Panasonic 3CCD Camcorder and am trying to upload my videos to my computer. The problem is the computer does not recognize that the camera is connected to the computer. I have tried all the USB ports in the computer(as well as othr accounts on the computer) and when I plug it in the little bubble pops up that a new device has been found, but the software the camcorder came with says that there is no device connected to the computer. I know the camera can tell it is connected, so any ideas as to what is going wrong here?
Thanks! (link)
try opening up my computer, right clicking the camera, and clicking explore. in most cases peripheral software is superflous. if the bubble is coming up, the computer recognized it.


ok this is for guys...
ok i like this guy...what are signs that a guy is interested?

i'd rather guys answer like what they normally do or tell tale signs...but girls can answer too

thanks!

if it helps im 14/f (link)
basically, if you have to ask, it means he likes you. not foolproof, but true most of the time


if anyone has facebook..
do you know if theres a way to delete all of your mini feed without having to click x delete like a million times? (link)
click my account
click news feed and mini feed

uncheck anything you dont want showing on your minifeed

did you mean deleteing already posted things? i couldnt find a way to do that, but, you can go to your limited profile settings, and make it so certain specific people cant see your minifeed.

i also sent in a suggestion to facebook to add the option to delete posted stories from a minifeed.


I will not say what I believe in for abortion because that may influence your answer..but someone brought this to my attention...
do you consider this an exception for abortion..if an 11 year old girl got pregnant(raped) and her hips couldn't support the baby. Do you believe that when a girl has her period she is ready to give child birth even though her age may not be? Any insight would be greatly appreciated! Thank you. (link)
i think anything is an exception. im completely prochoice.


ok so there is this reallllyyy creepy guy at my school. his name is dave and he used to go out with one of my good friends. the two broke up and my friend told me he is creepy and smokes and is just weird. so lately hes been trying to get with me and he sends me messages over myspace and tells me im sexy and we should go out. and then i dont reply, so he like, finds me in the halls and asks me why i dont reply and we should go out. IM SO CREEPED OUT BY HIM. i dont know what to say. i want him to leave me alone because hes bad news but im so afraid hes like, going to be pissed and do something bad if i tell him "sick. no." haha. please help (link)
you dont need to be rude and tell him he is creepy. just message back that you dont like him and dont want to go out with him.


My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. Everything is going really well, but I have one concern: he's a Republican and I'm a die-hard liberal. Because I have this knowledge, I avoid any type of politial discussion with him. My friends are convinced that this will lead to our demise, but I don't know. I love him very much, we get along so well, and he makes me very happy, but I sometimes feel like I'm hiding my feelings about certain subjects from him. This is not like me at all; I'm a very opinionated!

I'm wondering if I should end it before we get in too deep because of this, or if I should just stay with him and allow whatever happens to happen.

Thank you all in advance! (link)
best advice, talk to him about it. does he even know you are liberal? have discussions with him. theres no reason to keep your mouth shut. and if he can't handle it, then yes dump him. but liberals and conservatives can have successful relationships.


i have a program where i can transfer music to my phone, is there a place where i can make a song into a ringtone? (link)
it depends on your service and phone. in most cases, no you can't. ringtones are stored a different way.




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