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creepy guy
ok so there is this reallllyyy creepy guy at my school. his name is dave and he used to go out with one of my good friends. the two broke up and my friend told me he is creepy and smokes and is just weird. so lately hes been trying to get with me and he sends me messages over myspace and tells me im sexy and we should go out. and then i dont reply, so he like, finds me in the halls and asks me why i dont reply and we should go out. IM SO CREEPED OUT BY HIM. i dont know what to say. i want him to leave me alone because hes bad news but im so afraid hes like, going to be pissed and do something bad if i tell him "sick. no." haha. please help
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you dont need to be rude and tell him he is creepy. just message back that you dont like him and dont want to go out with him.
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You can get the message across without sounding rude. Just straight out tell him you are interested & walk away. I wouldn't joke about it like these other people are suggesting. He might think you're flirting with him & might continue to ask you. If he continues to harass you & bother you after you give him an answer, report it to the principal or administrator. Block him on myspace (so he can't contact you) & put your page on private if it's not already. If he has the nerve to find you in the halls & continue to ask you about going out, it's possible he can turn out to be a little obsessive. Who knows if you want your page (basically, your life) online, viewable by him at anytime.
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Just tell him he is creepy and ask him to leave you alone.If he tries anything...well, u can do something back right?
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I'm in a similar predicament as you are.
I think the best think for you to do is to find a way to get across to him indirectly that you aren't interested. without telling him bluntly, "Ew, no, you're a sicko and you disturb me." Because you said that if you said something like that, then he could do something bad, right?
Block him out of your life as much as possible. Delete his comments on your MySpace, block him on AIM. When you even SEE him at school, move away. If he does find you eventually, though, be prepared. When he asks you about why you never reply to his messages, just respond with another question...maybe something like, "Why? Does it really matter that much to you?"
If he says, "We should go out", just say jokingly, "No way", even though you really do mean it.
After a while, he should get the picture.
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I don't care if this makes you sound rude, but tell this kid to get a fucking life. Seriously, bothering you through myspace & at school to go out with you? What the hell? Block him on MySpace, and hope he never finds out your sn for your messengers, AND tell him at school that you don't like him that way. Either that, or have one of your close guy friends pose as your boyfriend. I've done that before.
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The advice below me will make you sound lie a prick.
You should be kind of rude. Not terribly, but he's being mean, so whatever.
i dont know what you should say, but i'd hate to see you be like, "I do not appreciate the things you are saying, and i believe it is rude."
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Hmmm I had a stalker..well still do. Fun, right?
Either get yourself a boyfriend asap or tell him to fuck off.
By ignoring him, you're just making him want you more since you haven't declined him yet.
The next time he says you're "sexy" over myspace or "we should go out" in the hallways say:
Myspace: I don't appriciate you being rude to me by calling me sexy.
Hallway: I'm sorry but I don't look at you the way you look at me and I'm really not interested in going out with you/anyone
Or hand him a note one day and explain that you don't like him and that his incessant asking you/calling you sexy and whatnot
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