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Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!!

Umm yes there is a possiblilty for you to be pregnant because he didnt use a condom and that one minute could of got u pregnant..? your only 14 what are u thinking?

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Hi. I'm looking for a job. A summer job or maybe an after school job. I'm 14 and i've looked in papers for babysitting jobs or someone who would at least give me one. I've asked neighbors if they would give me one. I guess you could say I'm really anxious to get one. I live in Pittsburgh, Pennslyvania and there aren't many jobs who would want 14 year olds as there employees. But if any one has any information on helping me find one, I would really appreciate it.

Sincerly,

TweetyBird

only think i can really think of is like grocery stores hmm.. i know they hire up in maine at 14
*kim*

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i have this little probelem, i am afraid to make out with anyone because i think i will be bad at it. i have never made out with anyone before, and my old bf was a little weirded out by the whole not making out thing. what do i do?

theres really no way to practice kissing before you actually kiss.. but umm kissing comes naturally 'seriously' if you do it with someone u really care for youll be just fine *kim*

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im 13 years old, and im afraid of the dark still. ok, let me rephrase that: im not exactly afraid, but everytime i am someplace dark, i feel very uncomfortable, like something is watching/following me. i know its not real, which is why i need help: first of all, is it weird that i feel afraid at 13, and also what can i do to make myself not scared? thx in advance ill rate all 5s!

i'm 17 and still cannot be in the room alone in the dark what i do is turn the tv on so i that extra light but yea u could try that.. but its perfectly normal to be afraid.. hope i helped*rate me*kim

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Ok I need help. I have a boyfriend that i really like alot but my ex boyfriend that i loved like alot. and i got over that yet i still love him so i still think back sometimes. well he called me and it just brought back memories cuz i hadn't talked to him in a long time and i just need to know how to get over him bc im so happy..but i still get sad when i look at a picture of us or think about it..help..advice please

yea you loved your ex-boy but the relationship had to and for a reason i mean not always want makes u happy but you moved on you have a boyfriend now and you like him. if ya want to stay with him but get over your ex you need try to stop looking at pics of you together yea awesome memories but it hurts to look at them soo why? maybe try not talking to him often like maybe once a month until u get over him it may help.. i hope i helped if ya need any help IM me anytime sweethang1768.

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How Do You Like Makeout With Some One I Never Have Before So I'm Like Scared I'll Do IT Wrong.... Ummm soo whoever knows give me some feedback please i rate high, and dont give me the b.s like oo practice on your hand lol ok thanks

umm don't make out with your hand hah. Umm kissing comes naturally like when i got my first kiss i didn't see it coming and i had no idea what i was doing but if your making out the guy will prob do most of it.. just when u kiss don't let it show that your nervous cause you shouldnt be its easy.. i hope i helped *rate me*kim

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Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks..

Making love is Totally romantic like you have strong feeling between eachother and love eachother, having sex is just what people would call fun i guess.. hope i helped kim*

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im 13 and a girl and this year i actually feel ready for sex. is that normal at this age? is there something wrong with me? i know a guy that is willing to have sex with me, should i have sex? if i do should i tell my parents?
**sexy_gal_1992**

your 13 years old your not even in high school yet, i don't think your ready and you shouldn't have sex even if you think your ready because something could go wrong and your stuck with it hte rest of your life, wait until your older and save it for that special guy not just guy that is up and willing to have sex with you.*kim- rate me

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Alright I feel that Im ready to do a little more sexualy with guys then I have so far. And I am all ready to until I am actualy with the guy then I get all nervous and cant do anything! WHATS WRONG? anyways I can loosen up? cause I want to be able to.. I just get nervous but I want to do stuff!

You may feel like your ready but if your nervous id say your not as ready as you think you are... i'd wait
rate me*kim

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ok, well every now and then i get these really really bad headaches, my eyes get very sensitive to light and even the slightest noise makes my head pound. Now iknow the cause of these headaches isnt from my vision, because ive had my eyes checked many times and i do wear glasses. What can be causing them? thanks 4 ur answers

Those bad headaches are called migranes...

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tomarrow is picture retake day and im getting my pictures retaken ..my first pictures came out terrible.. i was wearing alot of liquid cover-up and you so could tell...my lips were chapped..it was soo humid that day so my hair was like a big ball of frizz and i had at huge pimple on my cheek.....i dont have a pimple on my cheek anymore im gonna scrunch my hair and wear powder cover up ..... do you have any other ideas on how to make the pictures come out better...heres a little info about me:brown shoulder length hair with alot of highlights makeing me alomst blonde...perfect eye brows.....really dark brown eyes...and i wear makeup but i hate dark eyeshadow it makes me look terrible

this is the sex qeustions not make-up or whatever

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this guy n i are really close n we both like each other, although were not together, and were ready to take the next step. *sex* is what were wanting from each other and im nervous and scared. im nervous because i dont want it to ruin our realtionship and im scared because im a virgin n hes not. what should i do?

My advice to u don't do it your not ready if your nervous and scared.. wait longer you'll know when your ready *kIm*

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hi im running the mile tommorrow in school, and i was wondering how I could get a better time. i'm a 13/m, around 5'2", 99lbs. last year i got like 7min 16sec, but i would really like to get under 7minutes this year. any tips on how to get a better time? (when to sprint, when to job.. etc?)
Thanks in Advance.
All fives.

umm i always heard too keep a slow but steady past thru the whole thing but like the last lap or whatever sprint as in a fast run to the end.. i hope i helped a little*kIm*

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ok i need to reach one of my friends over seas ( they live in germany )
ok i got a phone card
and i keep on doing everything it says i need to do on the phone card
yet when i put in there phone number and everything it says its invaild.
I never dialed over seans before on a phone card does anyone know how? plz i need to know how to do this asap

Im not completely sure but i have like 3 people in my class that used to live over there and there is a ode to that u have to dial to get into the country of germany.. *hard to explain but i tried* rate mee

OMFG what the hell is wrong with u give me af ucking one i gave u the dan answer too your damn qeustion...

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I'm having a Halloween/ Birthday party today and I rented Amutiville Horror and Texas Chainsaw Massaccre. I was wondering are they really scary, like should I be watching the,? (i'm 13)

ammityville horror to me was scary as hell.. but i have never seen the texas chainsaw massaccre but people said they thought it was stupid but i mean whatever have fun..*

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Ok.. i'm going out with a guy and he smokes ..

i'm 14 and he is 15. do you think thats bad?

i rate high for good answers.

umm the age no thats not bad... dating a guy that smokes is nt a bad thing unless you don't like it, i dated a guy that smoked but i asked him not to do it when i was around him so yea try that i guess. hope i helped* KIM*

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Hey advicenators! =P

What do you think should be the curfew for a 15 year old girl? I'm asking this because I'm going to the movies with my guy friend and my parents want me home at 10pm. I'm a very trustworthy person and I WON'T have sex with him, that's for sure. He's only a friend. I'm kinda pissed about this because I want to stay out later, but they're strict & say only 10pm. I know I'm lucky because some kids can't even go out with friends yet. But, what do you guys think? Thanks.

i think that 10 o'clock is very resonable time for a 15 year old.. lol was never mine but i usually was inside a place to till midnight but your only going to a movie 10 o'clock is a fine time. just follow the curfew and your rents' may extend it * hope i helped

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there is this girl that i've liked since 2nd grade and i like her even more.i am now in 9th grade and i think she is the one but i am afraid to ask her out because i am afraid she will say no. so what should i do?i am a male.

WOw since the 2nd grade ..damn lol go ask her out. *kim*

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I have to learn all the countries, their locations, and their capitals by tomorow. ( I have 3 tests on them tomorow ) Any ideas to help me study, I'm having alot of trouble and these are major tests!!

- I`ll rate wayy high.

umm i usually cram for test cause i have the worst memory ever.. but umm maybe try write the country and capital 5-10 times each then i believe yull simply be able to memorize them.

http://sidney.region14.net/webs/apatterson/upload/africa1map.jpg

that is a blank africa map you could print it out and write the country and capital and it may help you remember the location..*

i hope i helped *kim* rate me*

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I am on the yearbook staff this year - and need some help coming up with some superlatives. Here's my problem - I don't want things that everybody doesn't have a chance at such as "Best Dressed" Here's what we have come up with so far

Funniest
Sweetest
Best Hair
Most Creative
Most Outgoing
Most Athletic
Best Smile
Best Eyes
Most Likely To Suceed and
Most School Spirit

Any suggestions would be nice, but preferably not ones like "Most trendy" "Best dressed" and such because thats just demeaning..

umm i got maybe a few lol sry not much but umm..
cutest couple
oddest couple
idk?

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