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today my dad and i had another fight and im loseing it. i cant seem to bear life in my house any more. i hate my dad and i cant live with him any more but i have 3 more years left to go. how do i keep from breaking down for good?

Me and my dad fight over every thing seriously.. what you say sounds exactly like me and my dad what i try to do is walk away from him but i have problems doing htat because i argue way to much and yea i just go crazy. umm what to do is try to just walk away from him avoid him as much as possible and when your old enough 3 years i guess move thats what i plan on doing but in like 10 months ..

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okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?

thank you!

sex....

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How can i have 8 glasses of water I cant drink it during the morning Or else i will need the bathroom all day. Cant during shcool no water allowed. And 8 glasses of water in the after noon i get off from school at 3:00PM and i go to sleep at 8/9:00PM. is it healthy to have it all in the afternoon.

Yea I doubt you actually have to drink 8 glasses. its healthy.

Do u go to school in a box? What school does no let you bring water? No sports teams at your school?

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hey my mom said i can choose any kind of car for my 2nd car. my last one i wrecked. since ill be getting a new one when i graduate. i want to get just a nice car now. and be able to get a fucking sweet car then. what would you get. ps im a 16 girl. so a girl car.

Yea you wrecked your first car so your mom is buying you a new car. are you trying to prove a point here? If not i think that you prob should of thought this over your self yes its an advice site but spoiled is what its sounding like.

if you wrecked your first car don't you think maybe wait a while till the next one so you don't wreck this one?

but whatever i mean. real nice for your mom to buy you any car you want, right?

And wait you want to get a nice car now and when you graduate get another new one what the crap dude. you really should think about what your saying but ok ... im done

And yea i like civics but yea never had a car never drove one. And i'm 17 and have never had a car

Good luck>.

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hi,I'm a 15 girl and yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend,well sort of he whent in a little then pulled out then he cumed on my pubic hair could i get pregnate?even if my cherry hasnt been poped?please withe A.S.A.P! i rate very usefull!

There is always the possiblity.. birth control is great but you can still get pregnant

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I have been goin out with my boyfriend for justa few days now, but we have known each other for a couple of months now. Well, when I was talkin to him onthe internet today, I got a sudden urge to just be like "I love you". I'm the kind of person who, I have to know i really do love somebody before I say that, cause to me, it has alot of meaning. so, I didn't say it, but my question is,since I felt like I wantedto all the sudden, does that mean I am in love with him, or what?
I'll rate 5's for any helpful answers!!
thanks in advance!!

No one here really knows how you feel about this guy. If you feel that you love him then tell him if he doesnt tell you back maybe hes just not ready he'll get there.

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i'm dying my hair red. what is a good kind of dye to use? my sister is going to do it. and it needs to be inexpensive from walmart.

dont know exactly the brand but on the box going down the side says 100% in big red letters. i used it all the time when i dided my hair

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My breasts began to get bigger around May. I went from 22 A to a 28C in around a month. Now I have little purplish reddish lines on them. They look like little scratch marks leading from the nipple out on. I have the 3 marks on each breast. The 3 scratch marks are on one side of the nipple. What are these? Are they just stretch marks or something, will they go away ???

No i doubt they will go away.. you have them because your boobs grew so much in a month. And your not the only only that this happens too lol

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okay so my very last tooth .. pieces keep breaking off of it .. and i was wondering .. should i even bother getting a filling or just get it pulled out?? i mean .. its my very last tooth and i dont see the point of a filling if it keeps breaking..?

i had that when i was younger but it broke when i wash brushing my teeth and did smething.. but i went to the dentist and he tried to pull it but did numb it very much so i yelled at him and walked out but it fell out like 2 weeks later so you can either go get it pulled or wait a lil longer

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does anybody know if you can buy that bag from Victorias Secret that is hot pink and shiny and say SEXY in rhinestones? because i have looked online and i can't find it!

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/category/?cgnbr=OSGIFZZZZZZ

Are you talking about the bag that that girl is pulling?? idk if you can buy it i looked around for awhile and couldnt find it out.. but idk

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Whenever I am on the computer for more than like 10 minutes, the hand that I work the mouse with gets VERY cold. My other hand doesn't. Does anyone know what this is and why it does this? And does it happen to anyone else?

mine too.. i usually put on the thin gloves to keep them a lil warmer but idk..

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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this.

Ohk wait.. 14 what are you nuts, there is way more to being a mother then what you talk about babysitting i baby sit all the time and yea seems easy because its someone elses kid. Having a baby will prob not do the job in making you feel loved and where would you go not school.. If you plan on going to school and having hte baby whos going to watch the baby? not your parents if they don't love you...your only 14 you can't afford day care. and plus i bet you really don't know what your talking about. Yea you think you want to be pregnant but you don't your only 14. To Young...

On maury the used to show teens your age wanting to get pregnant so they put them thru the test to see what they really knew and have the teens walked out crying saying they didnt know what they were talking about.
so yea i think your making the wrong decision

so yea Im out you ever need to talk you can leave one in my inbox!

kim

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what are some jobs to do for a 13 year old

Yea pretty much
babysitting - make flyers and at the bottom of the page make like 15 cuts and write your name and numbers so people can take one and call you

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Okay, so this is my fourth or fifth period, and I still don't use tampons. The catch is, next month around this time, I'm going to the beach. So I really want to learn how to use tampons for future reference. I tried just putting in a light one, and it hurt sooo bad. I put vasaline on the tip and everything, I just can't get it in. Any tips for putting that damn thing in?

Ohk 1. you cannot try to put tampons in when you are not on your period it does hurt (idk if thats what you did but just a warning.) ohk tampons can only fit in one place when you start don't be scared or nervous have to be calm because if not you tense up and make it hurt.

Try standing up putting one leg up on the toilet and putting it in. Or in a box on tampons there is a information paper and a step by step instructions on how to put it in.

Hope i helped and good luck!
P.s it'll prob take a few times to get it right but its normal...

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How can I find out and suggest help for my sister without her getting upset? My parents also might think she's bipolar but we're afraid to talk to her about the idea because she'll flip out on us. She's been getting worse as the years go by. Any help would be great. I rate

One of my friends and my sisster is bi-polar also .Bi-polar and if you think your sister could possibly be bi-polar then i would ask her doctor about it and the doctor will will request her to go to a conselour there the counselor will ask questions and like her moods how she acts at certain times. if he/she thinks that she is bi-polar they will give her medicine for it.

It can be controlled if she takes the medicine. It can be with her whole life and theres a possibilty that it doesnt have to be.

People that are bi-polar change moods very quickly such as one minute you can be extremely happy, excited and the next minute you pissed off and bit*hy to everyone..

so just tell your parents to check with her doctor and pretty much go on from there

i hope i helped*

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Recently I've been caring ALOT about what I eat, and after I eat I feel guilty. Could I be anarexic? I still eat good, and dont thik i could ever stop eating, but I just... feel fat. I weigh at the moment 85 lbs, and everyone tells me Im really skinny (which makes it hard to talk to anyone), but for some reason when I look in a mirror I feel like my gut is huge. whats going on?!?
Thanks for the help =)

wow ohk first you didnt leave your age or anything but your weight it really depends on how old you are and your height and more to really know if 85 pounds is a good weight. i dont think your anorexic cause u do eat and you dont throw it up afterwards but like if over five feet tall your supposed to way atleast 100 pounds (that is the healthly weight limit for that height) but people down there saying yes thats very healthly really can't say that because they know absolutely nothing about you..
85 pounds is not at all fat you shouldnt think that i know some skinny people and they all have that lil gut thing idk y but they do and they are skinny so i don't think you really have a reason tho think your fat but...if it is concerning you i would ask a doctor next time you see one if the 85 pounds i healhty for you..
I hope i helped
kim

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i have no clue what so ever what i am going to get my boyfriend for christmas..does anyone have any ideas..we have only been going out for like a little while..hes 14 and im 14 so i kinda need a inexpensive gift becuase i dont really have that much money..

thanks for the help

I can try at this.

colonge (if he wears it)
T-shirts
any clothing
if he plays sports maybe you could get him things that would go with what he likes (thats a little confusing)
a hat
a movie (maybe one he has been wanting but has't bought yet)

urr idk thats the things i thought of hope i gave you a lil idea..

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Ok, for school I have to choose a book for this book report thing. Any books you like apropriate for a seventh grade girl? (Only if they're really good, because I hate a lot of books!)

Thank you! xoxo abercrombiebabiex3

I liked the books by dave Pelzer .. i child called it is the first book he wrote but there is many more by him

The book is about his life and how he got abused as a child

its an amazing book and i think u should read it. even if you don't choose to use it as a book report

Arkeal is talking about the same book but got the title wrong..

Hope i helped...kim

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okay so my head itches and i have this weird bump inside and like i havent found any "Bugs" or "eggs,larva" but i cant help but itch my scalp..please help I DO NOT HAVE LICE!!!!!!!!!

the person that said "you have lice" is prob wrong if you live somewhere cold or even warm u could have dry scalp or something because my scalp is the same way and i was told when you wash your hair use both shampoo and conditioner and if that doesnt work get head and shoulders for dandruff control.. i havent tried it because i dont like putting conditioner in my hair but try it don't work i really don't know what to say *kim*

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ok im with this guy and weve been together for 1 month and i am so ready to have sex with him and i really do trust him and weve spoken about sex so many times but after how many months do u think i should actually have sex i dont want to have it too early..
please answer thanx
ill rate high
xxx

Well 1 month your crazy that is way to short i believe you should do it with someone special and you have no idea if your are going to be with this guy forever.. if thats not what you want to listen to i would atleast wait a couple months..? *kim*

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