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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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my middle name is laverne I hate my middle name becouse everybody picks on me about it somehow people found out what it was at school and started making fun of me about it,my mom tells me that my middle name was my dad's middle name that's the only good thing about it.what should I do?

Believe me, sweetie, there's tons of middle names that are worse then yours. I like yours to tell you the truth. It's different and uncommon, that's what I like about it best. You should be proud of it :].

When people are making fun of your middle name at school, simply ignore them. The only reason why they keep making fun of you for is, is because they know it's getting to you. Next time, don't even reply to them. Just smile and walk away. Once they know it's not bothering you anymore, they'll stop. ♥

Can feeding ur cat grass help it? i heard it can.. what can it do to it?

I don't think feeding your cat grass will help it. I haven't heared of it before. I do know that if your cat eats TOO much grass, he/she will get sick and vomit. ♥

Hey,

whenever I shave my legs I get cuts on my knees because I am really skinny and have kinda knobbly knees. My knees are really rough and bumpy with or without moisturizer and I cant get to the bottom of the hair when shaving without cutting myself.

Is there a technique or product I can use to get supersoft hair-free knees?

ty luv Rachel x

You should get those razors that are only good for one time. They come in a package of about 10 and mostly always pink. They work great!

I too got a lot of bumps on my legs and I used to cut my legs a ton while shaving. You should use conditioner (the stuff you use on your hair.) Use that just like you would use shaving-cream. It works great and it leaves your legs SO smooth. Also, when you're finish shaving. You should ALWAYS moisturizer your legs. It'll help with the redness you may get after you're done shaving. ♥

When you post a bulletin in Myspace, some people have certain words bolded, underlined, and in italics. How do they make it like that? Is there a certain code or something? Thanks.

Bolded Text:
< b > Write what you want to be bolded, here < /b >

Underlined Text:
< u > Wite what you want to be underlined, here < /u >

Italic Text:
< i > Wite what you want to be italiced, here < /i >

Be sure to remove the spaces between the < >'s. I had to put spaces in to show the HTML code. If you DON'T remove the spaces, the code will not work. ♥

hey my boyfreind and i want to have sex..
but we never talk.
its like getting sexual is an exuse not to talk because its awkward so we do that instead..
should i dump him?

For a relationship to work with someone, you do need to communicate with the person. If all your relationship is based on is sex, then you shouldn't be in a relationship at all. Yes, sex does play a part in a relationship (when you're in love.) But, also, you do need to get along and talk to one another to make your relationship last. ♥

my boyfriend gets extremely jealous whenever another guy compliments me, such as on myspace picture comments, and he sends them messages saying really mean things! ( i have his myspace password..shh haha) he told my guy friend to go to hell when all my friend said was "hey how are u youre pretty hot now". Is this jealousy a sign of how much he loves me or is he just very insecure? or both?

It sounds like both to me. It's not that he's insecure about himself and others sending you comments on MySpace. It's probably because he loves you a lot and he's just scared to lose you, that he's acting this way.

My boyfriend gets mad too, when random guys leave me picture comments and comments on my MySpace. But he KNOWS he's not going to lose me over something silly like that, because I talked to him about it.

Just explain to your boyfriend that those messages and comments are people just saying their views on you. He shouldn't take it to heart. Explain to him that he isn't going to lose you over some silly comment that is on your picture on your MySpace page. You're with HIM and you don't plan on leaving him for some random guy on the net. ♥

im 13 and i dont know if this is normal or not you see my penis kinda leans to the right but i dont know if its normal or not and if it is wont a gurl think its wierd

Don't worry about this, sweetie. You're normal. All guys are different and so are their penises. Girls are not going to think you're weird because of it. Don't worry. ♥

my boyfreind showed everyone his private area and im really hurt.
should i break up with him?

I think before you break up with him, you should at least talk to him about this problem. Ask him why he would do something like this, when he is with you. Tell him that it hurt you and how you're feeling about it. Explain everything to him. If he doesn't understand why you're so mad and doesn't really care that you're upset about this, then you should consider breaking up. Because obviously, he doesn't seem like a good guy. You could find so much better. ♥

My boyfriend went with this best friend for his 18th birthday to a strip club..i feel kind of pisssed and disgusted..is this ok to feel this way or am i goin overboard? idk i just feel kind of uncomfortable to think that naked women are gunna be all over him..

It's normal to feel jealous about this, hun. I'm sure TONS of girls have been in the position you have been in. It's like this man thing to do. It seems, whenever they turn legal age, they just HAVE to go out to a strip club. Don't take this too hard, though. At least he told you and you should be happy he didn't do this behind your back. He's open and honest with you, which is hard to come by these days. Don't worry about the strippers, though. You have him, not them. ♥

my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex.

There's no certain age that you have to be to have sex. It's if you're real or not. If you're comfortable with the person and love him enough to take it to the next level. If you believe in your heart that this IS the boy you want to share this with, then go ahead and go for it. Just make sure it's something you won't regret it in the future. Be safe! ♥

i get jealous of all the girls my boyfriend talks to... how do i keep myself from feeling bad.

Being jealous is totally normal. Everyone is jealous of someone at one point and time in their life. It's just something that happens and we can't control it. Don't feel bad about this, hun. All you need to remember is he is with YOU and not those other girls. So, obviously you're very special to him. ♥

Hi,

Have you ever heard the term "hotwifing". It's where the husband lets the wife have relations with other men. I found a forum on it and now I'm becoming obsessed with the idea. My wife is fairly old fashioned, and I'm trying to figure out the best way to slowly introduce the idea that I'd like her to have lovers on the side. This is not about me cheating also. It's about seeing her get pleasure. Thanks for any tips you can give.

Eric

Maybe you should give her the forum on it. It got you obsessed with it, so you never know, it could open her eyes to the idea. If not, you could talk to her about it and try to introduce the idea to her. Give her information on it and why you would think it would be a turn on to do this. If she still doesn't like the idea, don't force it on her. Some girls don't like hotwifing, while others do. And if she doesn't like it, that's just the way she is and you have to respect her decision. ♥

does anybody have any websites i can got to get layouts at for myspace? i already know whateverlife.com thanks

I suggest checking out the following layout site: http://myspace.com/xohromancex

Here layouts are amazing! I adore them. ♥

all summer ive been on my computer and i cant get off of it.. im jus ttoo addicted. is there any way i can get off? i mean, i know i can.. i just get soo bored i just come on my computer.

Summer can be a drag sometimes, especially if you live in a dull town like I do. But even though. There's always something you could do. Sitting infront of your computer for a long period of time isn't good for you. And it especially isn't good for your eyes. Here are a few things that you might want to do:

-- Go out with your friends and have fun!
-- Go camping.
-- Play some summer sports.
-- Go swimming or to the beach for the day.
-- Go for walks with friends.
-- Make a fire and roast hot dogs and marshmellows.
-- Go bowling.
-- Take pictures.
-- Go to the mall.
-- Have a movie night.
-- Play board games.

Hopefully this helps you out. ♥

what does it mean when your breast hurts

It could mean many things, really. They could be growing, you could be about to start your period, or you're pregnant. (Usually breast get tender and sore when you're pregnant.) ♥

do you know the name of that song that goes "i'd be in trouble if ya left me now, cause i dont know where to look for love & i just dont know how."

I think the song you're talking about is called "Never Be Replaced" by 1st Lady. ♥

Is there a way to find pictures, documents, files, etc., after you delete them from the recycle bin?

No, you cannot get anything back after you delete it from your recycling bin. ♥

I am a female and I am a virgin. If my boyfriend has cum or precum on his hand and fingers me, can I become pregnant? I really need to know this as soon as possible! Please help!

Yes, you can infact get pregnant. His hands are going inside of your vigina while having precum/cum on his fingers, of course there is a chance of you getting pregnant. Be careful. ♥

ok, i am 14f. i am dating this guy, that is kind of shy, but i really like him. We've been friends for a couple of years, and dated last year, but last year he was kind of selfish so we were friends this year, and he asked me out, i said yes. We've been dating for 2 and a half weeks, and last week he got dared to kiss me. He hasn't yet. I'm worried. I'm kind of nervous cause this is my first kiss, and i really do like him. help,
M.J.

I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser (that's what everyone thinks when it comes to their first kiss), but really, that's all in your head.

I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.

Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing

Just make sure, you're 100% ready for this kiss and you're comfortable with this person. Your first kiss should always be special. If this is the guy you want to share your first kiss with, then go for it. ♥

I was wondering, why do some people think that moisturizing your vagina after you shave is dangerous? If it is, then why? Thanks.

I don't think its dangerous to moisturize your vagina after you're done shaving. Don't put on cream in your vagina, just out of it where you shaved. I mostly use baby lotion or hand cream. It works great and it's good because you don't get any red bumps afterwards. ♥

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