Gender:
FemaleLocation:
paAge:
19AIM:
missmia811Member Since:
April 22, 2004Answers:
1266Last Update:
July 31, 2006Visitors:
54578Favorite Columnists
spacefem
selectopaque
storageanddisposal
advicenator_admin
Siren_Cytherea
FernGully
Sporkster
soljette
advice~gurl
KoTaKiTtAy44
MFS
more...
about
Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!textarea.Skem9box {width:200px; height:100px;color:White;font-size:11pt;font-family:Times New Roman;background-color:Black;}
input.Skem9sub {width:200px; color:White;font-size:11pt;font-family:Times New Roman;background-color:Dark Pink;}
advice
OK, me and my best guy friend went out a few months ago and he broke up with me and we went out again like 2 weeks ago n i found out he had two other girlfriends and had sex with someone else..so i broke up with him. Now, we're just friends but, we're having sex. I want the relationship to be more than just screwing around because i love him so much. But, he's a player. I don't know what to do. I mean we like each other but I don't wanna go out with him and I don't really like us just being friends with benifits. I don't know what to do. Should I stop this and just be best friends like we used to be or keep messing around with him?? -cOnFuSeD**
okay, well he is using you. he just wants to be single and wet his dick wheerever he can. you really shouldn't even be his friend, he is really disrespecting you, and you're kinda letting him. so cut that shit with him short before you get hurt and feel like a dummy.
does anybody have any good masturbation techniques (for a girl) thanks!
how many dirty things you can fit in there since your such a horny thing that you have to play with yourself instead of controlling yourself.
ok i want to compete at where i take dance from but all the girls on there...there like really tiny and flat and im like 5'2 and lets just say im NOT flat but i mean im not fat or n ething but idk if i should even bother trying out or not?
juat have confidence and do your best, who cares what those other girls look like... you now you're the shit
Me and this guy are really good friends and we have been talking for about 3 months now.Well...I like him and he likes me because he told me before and he always protects me and stuff.Well...I've been waiting a VERY long time for him to ask me out.I want him to SO BAD that its driving me CRAZY!!!Do yall have any ideas on how to drop hints to him on asking me?Thanx!
just tell the kid you wanna be with him
HeLp! im thinking about buying NEUTROGENA BLACKHEAD ELIMINATING SCRUB...it says it eliminates blackheads...but i got clean 'n' clear blackhead clearing scrub, and that said it did that also, but it didnt! so, im asking...does the Neutrogena blackhead scrub ACTUALLY get *RID* of blackheads?? i need to know soon because im about to go shopping! thx!
use those pore strips, that works I TOLD YOU TO USE THE PORE STRIPS BECAUSE THOSES SCRUBS DONT WORK JUST LIKE YOU SAID THEY DIDN'T. I WAS TRYING TO HELP YOU BY TELLING YOU THE RIGHT STUFF TO GET YOU UNAPPRECIATIVE THING.
okay i need to know i really good way to masturbate like the best way possible..the most sexual way that will make me super wet thanks
I wilL rAtE yOu
stick a 2 liter in there...and see if you can fit anything else...nasty thing
I am twelve years old, and this guy I used to hang with, was my 'friend'. But one day he held my hand, and ever sence, he been acting like my bf. But like, he real perverted, and if I tell him to stop acting all sexual, he be getting mad at me. And he keep asking me why and junk, but I just aint like that. Can you tell me how to keep him from sex, but not break up with him?
just tell him to cut that shit out. you like him but you are not that type of girl
I used to always want to be 'cool', 'hot' 'ghetto'
junk like that. Now I am a 12 yr old punk girl, and I changed in less than a month. I started having home problems, and I started listening to rock. I cut my ankles, and make little pictures on my ankles with a knife. I tell myself it's just play, but somtimes I dont know. Really and truly sometimes I scare myself, I like being strange and literly insane. Is that a problem...
yes its a problem, and you should talk to a councelor or someone about it. you may have an issue with self mutilation.
Ok*
There is this guy. We are the same age and everything. But we really haden't seen each other all summer. Till the other day. We went out in 7th grade and now we are goin to go into 9th. I dont know if he lyks me or not. I am startin to lyk him again and everything is weird. I talked to him last night on AIM and he had in his profile that he was looking for a gurl that he can see alot and that makes him happy. I could see him alot and make him happy. It all was working ot fine in 7th grade till we broke up cuz he was leaving and stuff. I dont know. But the real ? is. How do I get him to lyk me... he lyks skate boards and stuff lyk that. and I just dont know how to get him to lyk me even tho i lyk that stuff too. sum1 HELP!!!
*thanks*
.:*Erika*:.
you cant make anyone like you they either do or dont. but you can tell him how you feel and that you would like to give your relationship anotehr try. he will never know what you want until you speak up.
I want to be a singer.. how do I get like a person to MAKE me one!? PLease answer -andrea-
go audition for american idol or something like that
Hey Im 13 years old and im going into 8th grade in 3 weeks and im friends with this guy who is 12 and he wants me to give him a blow job. I think I want to but i really dont no how to go about doing it I really need some advice !!!!!
just put it in your mouth you little girl
my friends and i frequently get headaches at the most inopportune times, upon which we dont have aspirin or anything. what is an effective way to lessen a headache considerably using only your own two hands?
rub your temples counter clockwise
i was overweight for a long time and now i am only 8 pounds away from my goal weight. but these last few pounds just WONT COME OFF!!! >__< what should i do?
keep dieting, and exercising, you're almost there! dont give up!
Ok, my friend is 18 and his girlfriend is 19. She is a virgin and has never done anything with anyone else before. So he told me they were talking and she wants to lose her virginity to him. He said exact words "I don't know what to do because it can't fit in" then he explained that he can't even get his fingers in and her been trying but he doesn't want to hurt her. She said she thinks she has a thick hymen. Does anyone have any helped for my friend? I told him to have her go to the doctors but I don't know if he is going to tell her that. My friend is too embarassed to ask people because hes a guy but her problem has never happened to me before. Can any1 help them out? I'm being 100% serious
Thanks!
she may have a thick hymen. this doesnt mean she cant have sex, but the only way she will get used to having sex and it will feel good is if she does, which means it will hurt at 1st. it might even hurt for the 1st couple of times. they could also try a lubricant, that might make things a little better.
I have a lot of guy friends and my mom hates that. Bcuz i dont have very many girl friends. I have maybe 2 or 3 that go to my school. So my mom is a lil worried that a have to many guy friends and im spending to much time with guys im mean im not a tom-boy im really a prep but ever since last year i hav had a bad rep bcuz i made-out with this guy a lot. So not many girls wanna be my friend for some reason. How can i tell my mom that Boys are the only friends that i have. Or how can a bcome friends with girls?
-CutieT-
i know what you mean. its so hard for girls to get along with girl. they either backstab you, talk shit about you, or try to get at your man. maybe you could explain it that way to your mom. as long as you are not haning with these guys to sleep with them and shit, then who cares what other people are saying.
I look at a lot of the questions and then the answers they get..a lot of them have to do with sex..and a lot of the answers are saying it is okay as long as you use protection and you really "love" them. These are usually teens, like me, too! I agree with having safe sex and stuff but my main concern is the actual action of sex. Sex should be something special you share with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. At this age, it is very unlikely that you will stay together forever, no matter how well your relationship is going. Are there any people on this site waiting for marriage? Does anyone agree with me?
*Flabbergausted*
i like that word =P
you are on the right track... atleast someone is... i know that if a girl says she is 14 and she wants to loose her virginity i tell her she is too young... but if hse says shes is already doing it... i still tell her that is too young but if shes gonna be doing it use protection. but atleast you know the right thing... good for you! :)
wen i get really horny i feel like doin stuff with some girlfriends, and im a girl. I know im not lesbian.. but is it ok to feel like this? And if it is.. how do you ask your girlfriend to do stuf with u and what do u gyz do?
thx..
okay well all i know is that if my female friend asked me to do soemthing sexual with her i would feel really uncomfortable... uhh maybe you are a lesbian
how do i get my bf sexually aroused so he'll get a B0ner when i cant be with him.. like when im talking to him online, or on the phone?!.. does any one have ne tips or advice on it? - thanks -
tell him you just took a big dump... he will love that :)
Okay I want to know why all these 12, 13, and 14 year olds are all thinking about sex and asking how to do it and blah blah blah...Theyre too young! And I hope all of you 12, 13, and 14 year olds get an STD and die....youre being stupid!
i think they are all doing it because they think that shit is cute and wanna act like grown ups when they dont even know how to wipe thier asses the right way. they are so stupid and immature they are probably to scared to go to a pharmacy and by condoms, thats why they are gonna get stds and shit.
Does ne1 know how to make razor burn go away... i have been shavin since i was leik 8 and i just started to get razor burn really bad on my legs everytitme i shave it started liek a month ago...and i use shaving cream, new razor and everything but idk ive tried everything and it hurts, burns and itches so0o0o bad!! i shave my arms and other places to but i dont get razor burn at all just my legs!! ive tried everything water, ice, dry shaving, shavin with every razor and shavin cream there is, razorless shavin, intution, hair conditionar, soap, shampoo, baby soap, everything... guys aftershave girls aftershave...everyhting... can ne1 help me on this... liek how to make it stop or wat to use leika razor or sumn!! PLEASE HELP IT HURTS!! ( only on my legs tho) thnk u!!
okay well dont every dry shave... thats the easiest way to get razor burn. Why dont you just wait a little while until it is all gone. and use lancane cream on it while it is healing. it will help it heal better and stop the itching. once it is all gone use a shvaing cream that is for sensitive skin. and dont use aftershave, that can amke you get razor burn too sometimes. use a lotion that is for very sensitive skin, like hypo allergetic and try and get one that has aloe in it. aloe is good for alot of things.