I have a lot of guy friends and my mom hates that. Bcuz i dont have very many girl friends. I have maybe 2 or 3 that go to my school. So my mom is a lil worried that a have to many guy friends and im spending to much time with guys im mean im not a tom-boy im really a prep but ever since last year i hav had a bad rep bcuz i made-out with this guy a lot. So not many girls wanna be my friend for some reason. How can i tell my mom that Boys are the only friends that i have. Or how can a bcome friends with girls?
-CutieT-
Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday August 1 2004, 8:43 pm: CutieT,
There's nothing wrong with having a lot of guy friends...most of mine are guys. I only have about five really close girl friends. It shouldn't matter whether they're guys or girls, as long as they're good friends.
Girls are hard to befriend...lol 'specially if you're a girl yourself.
Maybe your mom should talk to your guy friends - get to know them a little. That would probably help with her perceptions.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
x3sweetbabiigrlx3 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 6:22 pm: My mom complains about me hanging out with guys all the time. Yes I have a ton of girl friends but it seems i get along with guys alot too and they dont have as much drama as us girls do. that what i tell my mom. But then again she knows that one of the guys I am always with is my boyfriend so she is worried im doing stuff but i tell her im not. Which im not really! so the best thing i can tell u is to tell her the truth or tell her that you would rather be friends with Guys because they dont bring as much drama as girls do!
hotcherry answered Sunday August 1 2004, 5:53 pm: i went thru the samething! i had much more guy friends then I did girl friends. Girls can be bitches...big ones! I agree w/ the other girl that answered you! Guys are much more accepting...thats an honest answer, just tell your mom that! Who cares that you made out with a guy alot?? Don't worry about what ppl think...=) It sounds like they are jealous! To become friends with more girls, I just tried to see if I could relate myself with them...see if there is anything in common that you girls could do, that you cant with guys!! shopping =) Anyway i hope this helped! :D [ hotcherry's advice column | Ask hotcherry A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 5:28 pm: i know what you mean. its so hard for girls to get along with girl. they either backstab you, talk shit about you, or try to get at your man. maybe you could explain it that way to your mom. as long as you are not haning with these guys to sleep with them and shit, then who cares what other people are saying. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
xoxohotcakesxoxo answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:51 pm: I AM EXACTLY THE SAME WAY! GIRLS ARE HARDER TO GET ALONG WITH...I'M PREPPY TOO AND GIRLS LIKE TO SAY A LOT OF STUFF ABOUT ME SO WE DONT GET ALONG AT ALL...tELL YOUR MOM THAT GIRLS ARE HARDER TO EGT AALONG WITH BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS GET INTO SILLY LITTLE FIGHTS AND TALK ABOUT THE SAME STUFF....DONT WORRY ABOUT BEING FRIENDS WITH MORE GIRLS....I FIND GUYS EASIER TO GET A LONG WITH ANYWAYS.....IF YOU NEED ANY MORE ADVICE ABOUT IT EMAIL ME AT GOT2LOVMEEME@PEOPLEPC.COM [ xoxohotcakesxoxo's advice column | Ask xoxohotcakesxoxo A Question ]
MackinFame75 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:51 pm: well first of all what grade r u in? because u see that happening alot in the middle school. but i noticed that in the high school that u will meet alot of ppl out of ur click. i use to be just like u but i didnt like girls they had to much drama. i noticed that there is girls out there that arnt like that. so maybe talk to ppl u wouldnt normally talk to give everyone a chance and u might find that u can talk to girls and have more girlfriends to chill with. boys are fun to hang out with but watch because as they grow theres so much more then friends on there mind. just tell ur mom that u will try to make other friends then just boys but its alittle harder for you.... i hope i answered ur question
Kissxme1121 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:44 pm: Well there got to be ONE girl that likes you. Forget about what people think about you and go talk to some girls and if they give you the cold shoulder, go to some other girls. Just simply tell your mom that you get along best with the guys and thats who you feel comfortable around. Rate me plz and goodluck xoxox! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
ButterflyKissxx3 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:43 pm: Tell you mom that you get along better with boys. I do I know that. For girls you might have to act different around them. Just start up a conversation at lunch in school or something. Agree with them a lot. Then they'll start too like you. Hope I helped! <3 [ ButterflyKissxx3's advice column | Ask ButterflyKissxx3 A Question ]
Nicegirl06 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 4:43 pm: THings is guys give good exparance and guid you what u want in a guy. ask her she trust you. see like girls i mean i love my friends it that guys can be fun much as girls can and well thing is maybe she little worry something happend. tell her you understand its that you rather hang out with guys then girls couse make ups and worrys just not ur thing lol.. I hope u get the picture.. I know my advice prettie lame. I hope I help..
Manda [ Nicegirl06's advice column | Ask Nicegirl06 A Question ]
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