hi, i need a nickname for my boyfriend. if you need some information about him, here it is. he's soooo sweet, he calls me babe, cutie and, hun. he's like the most perfect guy ever! but we dont officially go out yet, he hasn't asked me out. but we talk about everything, and he says he really likes me and i know thats true, and i like him too.he also says that he's falling in love with me. so, plz, can u give me a nickname for him? p.s, i know this is too much info about him, but i needed to get it off of my chest!
thankx, bye!
i'm 14 and a girl.
My guy friends like these:
Bear
Cutie
Babe
Hun
or something with their name.
LOL nice ratings.
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how do u get a picture on your myspace in about me?
upload at tinypic.com
take the url address out and
put it in this code
and done!
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Dont you think Person A should not dwell on what another person said to them a day ago, a week ago, a month ago, a year or years ago because chances are the person that said something to Person A would never remember saying it to Person A and Person A is dwelling for nothing and why do you feel this way"
I've seen this question too many times. What kind of answer are you looking for anyway?
People shouldn't dwell on the past. I think it's stupid because it's a waste of time. Most likely the person doesn't even remember what they said and they most likely think it doesn't bother person A.
It's okay to think about it once it's said like a few days ago or even a week. But once it's a month old, it's already in the past and forgotten. Unless a friend called you a bitch for the very first time, it's gone.
Yes, it's dwelling on something for nothing because people say stupid things without realizing it. Once they realize it, they try to forget their mistake.
You feel like that because you took it the wrong way and things like that, usually don't escape your mind as quickly as it's said.
It's like someone called you fat and you know you're okay with your body. But you'll always remember that person calling you fat because you aren't used to it and it's a new thing to get into your head.
Dwelling on the past isn't worth it.
People forgive and forget.
So if something bothers you so much, then talk to the person BUT only if it was said days ago. Or reallly recent so they don't forget.
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I feel like I dont fit in at school. Lately, Im very anti-social. Im a girl, but I hate the other girls. I think theyre so annoying. The way they laugh with their friends so loud just to get attention. And they do it in a way that guys will look over at them and think theyre hot. They wear slutty outfits and are so cliquy. And Im not in middle school, Im in high school! Where people are supposed to be more mature? What do I do about this ? I get so angry I leave the class sometimes and say I have to go to the bathroom and then I cry because Im not included and I feel less compared to them and ugly.
Mature? No some girls are just stupid and they feel like they need to be fake. So they can get a relationship that's mainly fake. YEAH!
Okay so maybe you don't want a girl[friend]
Go around the school and watch in on everyone. There's going to be some people that will take you in.
Maybe you need guy friends, maybe join a club and get involved. You need to make a move because nobody will make one for you.
I know the girls are annoying and everything, but there has to be at least one girl you haven't noticed.. and maybe she's nice.
Some nice people don't want to be noticed so they hang out in different, secluded places.
You're a lot better than them. You haven't fallen into the "I WANT TO POPULAR!!11" thing. You're not ugly, being fake makes you ugly.
You could always switch classes or try to switch schools, try to explain that you have no friends and nobody wants to be your friend kind of thing (Maybe that would help you switch schools)
Making a new start is good. You could always talk to people though.
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so i went out with this guy and we really like each other, but we got into a really stupid little fight and broke up, but it turns out we still love each other and he wants to get back together. these are the things:
- I wrote this boy a letter, and he says that he wants to be with me, but his best friend told me, that when he was with me, he was getting kind of friendly with this other girl. But, when I asked him, he said that yea, he did kind of like her when I was fighting with him, but that he doesn't think that he likes him, but that he loves me. now, i'm not stupid and sometimes I'm just thinking, that now she doesn't like him, so it's ok to get with me, you know? and then he says that he's been thinking about me these days and what he has been thinking about is whether or not he should give me a second chance and these were things that bothered him: because one time at a party, i had to cancel ten minutes before and it was because i fell and got really hurt, and because he doesn't my clothes
i think that's really stupid and now i'm debating about whether or not i should get back together with him, because i feel like i did all the work, and he's blaming me for being the bad guy, when he's the one that was cheating, which is worst than canceling ten minutes before and wearing clothes he doesn't like
however at the same time, i haven't stopped thinking about him
what should i do?????
He doesn't seem worth it though. If he really loved you he wouldn't have tried to get with another girl or anything. I think it is because he couldn't get with her and now, he thinks he CAN get back with you because you're so "hopelessly in love with him" Guys are so blah. I don't think it's HIS decision about giving second chances. It's about YOURS. You didn't do anything wrong, he shouldn't tell you what to wear (and what not to wear) and you should both do work, not only you. I don't like how guys blame the girls, just because they don't want to admit they did something wrong.
You deserve better.
I can see that you may still like him but I don't think it's worth it. He cheated on you and now he wants to get back with you? Just.. no.
You wouldn't break up over little fights, you would talk about it and try to fix it. Compromise or something.
AND, I think if you try talking to him about that, he would blame you and get mad. That might ruin any chance with going out again. If he can't be calm about problems or anything, then i don't think you should try and get hurt.
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13/f
Ok well, I went out with my best guy friend and then after a week dumped him because it felt weird going out with my friend. Its been a month or so since we broke up and hes still mad at me. at first I was over him then I found out he was saying stuff about me and it made me mad. About 2 weeks ago he stopped talking about me and just started ignoring me. Last night, I went to this party and he was there, and he wouldn't talk to me. I was going to talk to him but I chickened out. I started flirting with his bestfriend to make him jealous. I don't know if it worked because I saw him looking at me with a blank stare but thats about it. Now I can't stop thinking about him. But the thing I dont want to like him!
Did you talk to him about how it freaked you out? Because he was your best guy friend and you didn't want to ruin that sort of thing?
Try talking to him. Online, over the phone (leave a message if he's not answering), write a letter or talk to him in person.
Tell him that you miss him and you want to start acting like friends again.
I think he really liked you and you hurt him. So of course he's upset and I don't know if he's over you yet or not.. But you know he's mad. You need to do something about it before you lose him completely.
Maybe you do like him, but you won't admit it.
Maybe you don't like him but you want him to be your friend again.
Don't flirt with best friends or anyone in that matter. Don't try to get him jealous because it will make him more angry and I don't think you'll want that. Just try to be nice to him and speak to him. Ask him if he's still mad at you. (even if you already know)
Why do you not want to like him?
Is it something he did? Is it appearance? Or the fact that he's your best guy friend?
Sometimes these things could work if you try. I know it seems weird at first but later it starts to comfortable and everything.
Sometimes breaking up can give off the wrong meaning. Like you want to STOP being friends or that you really dislike the person. (It's just how people think when they get rejected/dumped like that, especially so soon)
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would it be a turn off for a guy if the girl he's dating has never been with anyone before. not even like a first kiss? because im a freshmen and im starting to date this junior and he's really cute and stuff and has been with other girls, but i've never been with a guy before. is that a major turn off, or would it be a turn on? thanks for your advice!
It's different for some guys. Some guys want experienced girls, so they can have sex with them or makeout. I don't think that's the way to go.
It could be a turn on because he could find you innocent & cute. The whole virgin thing.. apparently it's a turn on.
But you could always tell him about how you haven't had your first kiss. How you saved it for a perfect moment, you know? (even if you didn't)
So he would understand that you're not experienced in that area and he would help you out.
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Okay, first of all, I'm 16/f and bisexual.
Alright, my best friend, Ashley, told me a few weeks ago how she felt about me. She said that she'll look over at me during one of our classes and she thinks I look hot. I told her how I felt, and we talked for a little while more.
When we were finished, I walked to my car and she told me she loved me. I didn't say anything, but just got in the car.
Now I'm having sexual feelings towards her and I really want to ask her out. Like, yesterday, we were at the movies and I put my head on her shoulder and she held my hand. I kept on trying to think of ways to tell her I wanted to go out with her, but I couldn't think of how to tell her. (BTW she has a girlfriend, and I like her g/f too.)
Anyways, any advice for the confused one over here? Like any ways to tell her I wanna go further than just being friends?
You should just ask her out or ask her if you could ever be more than friends.. she already told you how she felt about you, so you should talk to her about that. If she really loved you, she would break up with her girlfriend.
But, is there any reasons why she likes/loves you?
Because if it's all about appearance, then it could be a fling. :/
I don't think the whole polygamy thing would work. It brings unwanted drama. (Like she's not giving you enough attention or the whole "Ashley loves me more" thing.
So if you want to be with her and only her, I suggest backing off or something. Don't hold her hand or try to kiss her, or anything of that sort until she tells you what's going to happen (like breaking up with her g/f or whatever)
But I'll just talk to her. Tell her how you feel and find out for yourself. Like, maybe ask jokingly, Who does she love more? her girlfriend or you.
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My friend has recently gotten in the way between me and my boyfriends relationship. Back when I was dating a guy that I hardly ever saw, she was fine with it. We three would hangout together and nothing was akward or strange at all. Ever since I've been dating this new guy, (whom i see on a regular basis and not just every other weekend) shes been nagging about everything having to do with him. She says that we haven't been spending alot of time together, which was true. But now I'm making more of an effort to balance out boyfriend and bestfriend. But latly shes been attacking everything to do with him. She refuses to hangout with just me and him because it would be "akward" but yet she can explain why is it. We never hookup in public or anything; yet even if I just kiss him and shes there with someone else, she'll go "akwarddd" I can't stand her acting this way and shes been becomming very bitchy to me about everything. When we do hangout alone, she acts like a complete jerk to me and then blames it on pms and lack of sleep (which has been her excuse for about a month now) She hasn't had a boyfriend for awhile so I can see that she might be jealous about us being together ... but something else has been happening latly. She's a very touchy feely person about alot of stuff, but since me and my boyfriend have started going out she's kicked it up a notch. She'll do weird things that give me the impression that shes a lesbian like touch me on my arm or shoulder, constantly want to be with me and touch other girls boobs. (as a joke, but she doesn't stop after one time) I don't know how to respond to this seeing as I know she likes boys, but her phyisical actions are making it hard to believe. She's constantly telling me and my boyfriend that shes right about these things and that everyone else agrees with her. It's tense just to be with her anymore. She have these explosions where she rants off to me about how I'm not making any attempt to keep our friendship going and that I don't understand her point. I really am trying to make this work, but with the way shes been acting towards me, I don't see why I should bother. I don't know whether to slowly drift from her, keep her as a friend or something else.
I think it's either she's jealous. She misses you.. and feels like she's being replaced so she tries to get closer to you. But knowing the next few days, you'll be spending time with your boyfriend and not her... and it would make her feel upset and act up.
I don't think she wants to lose you to your boyfriend. Because it's happened so many times and she probably seen it. So she doesn't want to get hurt and lose her best friend.
You should really talk to her about it though. Find out the reason why she won't hang out with you and him. (Even though, I think it would be awkward. Maybe you can tell him no displays of affection whatsoever.)
You could always get one of your single guy friends to go out a date with her. Maybe like a group date so it's not awkward?
It just seems like she's afraid to lose you.
Just try speaking to her and if she's being impossible, don't stop being her friend. Just give her space and maybe she would realize what she's doing.
Did you spend a lot of time before you had this boyfriend? That could be it. Maybe she feels replaced and that your boyfriend is more important.
Since the whole not spending a lot of time together was true, she might think you'll do it again.
Either way.. it's your choice to keep her as a friend or not but try putting yourself in her situation.
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Im getting a filling tomorrow for a cavity!! Im really scared. Does it hurt?
They always numb you if it would hurt!
Like a needle or some numbing cream stuffs.
If you don't like shots.. well go for it anyway.. because you won't feel anything when they are working on your tooth.
And without your gums being numbed and they drill on that tooth in the hole. It's going to hurt and you will feel it throughout your gums.
It doesn't hurt if you get your mouth numbed first.
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hi i was just wondering if there were any household products that could highlight my hair. I have brown hair and anything that wouldn;t damage my hair, but could make it like lighter or blonde wold be good.
(no hair highlighting kits please)
Sun-In products?
It gives you "natural highlights" from the sun, but faster. So yeah, I used this when I was like 12 and my hair was brown. My highlights were RED. (Not bright red, but it looked soo goood)
Somewhat like this-
http://web.syr.edu/~jlchappe/images/jess%20red%20hair.JPG
Lemon juice.
Since it's a natural bleach.. it will lighten your hair, if you have it in your hair. You stay outside for like an hour, there will be a difference. I'm not sure, how much of a difference you want though.. so I would keep checking your hair.
If you're trying to lighten your hair, it's always going to be damaged either way. You should just try conditioning it like hell, afterwards. The worse you could get from these 2 products is.. possibly frizz.
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14/f. i hang out with guys alot and now girls think im a slut. does that seem slutty to hangout with mostly guy? im just friends with them, and i still hang out with girls too. this is really bothering mee.
Nope. Only if you were doing stuff with them.
they are just jealous. Haha.
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I'm 17 and i have had the same boyfriend for 2 yrs. and dont get me wrong i love him with my whole life. but yesterday i went to pick him up at his dads(2 1/2) hours away. he had been gone fri.-sun. and when we got back to my house we were just sittin watchin tv and i knew he had a project to finish for school so he asked me later if he could use my computer and he said yes. but after he came back down i had already fallen asleep and he woke me up and said bye in a kinda pissed of tone than gave me a kiss. this morning he called and he noticed what time it was and shouted "Fuck" and hung up? so i didnt call him back. well at school i kind of avoided him and then after school i went to his house and he was fine and everything????? he gets pissed over little things. and i dont know what to do...i feel childish avoiding him but i've talked about it to him and (you know how guys are) it always turns out to be my fault some how, or he always comes back at me with some way i get mad at him. he can always manipulate me into thinkin it really was my fault but then i think about it and then i realize it really isnt. someone please help me i cant take it any more. and please dont suggest breaking up with him or talking to him it doesnt work...and if i can talk to him help me think of something to say to him to make him realize what hes doing.(this sort of thing happens all of the time)
thanx
Skittles
Just ignore it. Avoiding it or forgetting about it probably the best thing to do.. until he realizes what he's doing.
When he gets angry and you don't want to deal with it, just go away and he should see that he's pushing you away.
Don't ever think it's your fault.
But you need to talk to him somehow... Maybe not in person, but a letter maybe?
Maybe he's not pissed off or anything, just stressed out and it's making him tired and grumpy. Maybe you should just try to talk to him again and ask him if you bother him? because it seems like you get mad at me blah blah stuff.
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13/f, a boy a year older than me reallly likes me ALOT. i like him too but we go to different schools like 45 min away.now he wants to hookup with me and stuff, but he said if i don't want to its fine, but i want to. i know he has hookuped tons of times and said he had a lot of girlfiends but 'doesn't like commitments'. i saw his myspace/facebook and he has a million friends that are girls and they all comment saying 'i love youu!' or 'the movies were so much fun' and like i think hes a player or a manwhore.
but i really like him, so what should i do? just let him go? is he worth it?
He doesn't seem worth it because in the end you're going to get hurt. You even said he doesn't like commitments and if he's hanging with other girls, then he will cheat. (Goes back to the whole commitment thing) He may think it's just a "hook up"/date... not offical going out thing. So yeah. He seems like a big flirt so just let him go. He's like an hour away and it will be hard to see him. Distance can be a problem too.
If he had a lot of girlfriends, you'll just be another one to add onto the list, you know?
Wait for someone nice and willing to commitment!
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okay so i'm going to this new school soon. but the grade you're going to in that school dependse on the age. (now i am going to a school were they don't have that arrangement) so i am 15 years old. in what grade am i going now?
my friend said maby 9th or 10th grade. i turned 15 in 8th grade and now i'm in 9th grade.
so in schools were it dependse on the age in what grade are you when you're 15? i am turning 16 in about 2 month so i'm almost 16. this is confusing me
sorry about my weird grammar =/ i don't now how to phrase this question right.
anyway please help
Well. It depends on the year. Most people in my freshman year, turned 15 that year. So if you're turing 16 in 2 months. I'll say 10th grade.
But if you were already in 9th grade before the new school, you shouldn't retake the whole year.
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14/f
my chest is extremely itchyyy,, why?? its been like it for 2 days. help?
I had that. It was dry skin. So just get a loofa sponge and clean the skin.
It could be an allergic reaction to perfume or your fabric. Are you using something different? new perfume? New soap?
But usually it's dry skin.
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13.F
(I need a guys opinion!)
have chin length wavy/curly layered hair. My hairstyle is really cute but...
Do guys really like short hair?
Do guys like girls with long flowing better?
From what I've heard from my exs is that they like long hair.
But, I had short hair when they dated me so hah.
Guys like long hair because it's more feminme and whatnot.
Some other guys love short hair, especially if it really compliments your face/features. Every guy is different, so just rock your short hair.
If they don't like it, then you shouldn't care.
Some guy is going to like you just the way you are. Curly short hair is the best!
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i don't want to gross anyone out, but this has been bothering me.
every once in a while i get a thick, almost mucus like discharge from my...let's say "nether-region" (im a female). it's an almost clear, but kind of white color.
does anyone know what this is?
It's just discharge though. It's just your "nether-region" cleaning itself.
It could also be a yeast infection, if it smells bad, different color etc.
It could mean you're going to get your period (even if you already have it) It's usually a bit more heavier than usual.
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okay this is going to be kinda long to jsut bear with me. Me and my best friend have been messing around with this boy i like for the longest time. We have stuck notes in his locker....and money. My friend made him a myspace and ws tlkaing to all of his frends and then he found out it was us. ALL OF IT. Then we decided to try to see if we could get close enought o get a pictures of him...well he kinda saw us with that one to. Now we have found out that he has a myspace but it is set to private so we made up this girl named brooke and invited him. I was only wanting to see his profile but my friend want to talk to him so that is exactly what she did. NOw we have his aim...his phone number and we know where he lives.THe only problem is he has told us bunch of personal stuff and his dad just died and he is really close to brooke. he is telling her that he love her. I've talked to him a little over the internet as brooke but now everytime i think about it i relize how worng it is and i want out of the whole situation but the only thing is that no matter what i do i'll still hear about what they talked about over the internet from my friend and that makes me interested in what he says but i know that IF he ever finds out it was really me and her it would kill him. I don't know what to do because even if i haven't done hardly anyhting my name is still in it and my freind would probably make sure that it is because she doesn't want it dumped all on her .....which it really isd ALL her. HELP!!
Okay that was kinda mean but I doubt he would love someone he hasn't even met.
So just stop it right now. Delete the myspace and stop messing around with him. He probably thinks you're like a stalker or something. So YOU get to know him, don't pretend to be someone else. It causes drama.
You just delete the myspace and everything, sooner or later he will forget this Brooke.
Don't talk about what you did and if your friend says stuff about him. Answer like you didn't know it happened or anything.
It's better to stop before it gets worse.
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oooooomg! this kid i like at school was like sticking up for mee! cause we were at our lockers at da end of the day, and i had my instrument, a cello, which is pretty big so kinda takes up some space. im a bottom locker and the kid i like is diagonal from mine (hes a top) and the retard kid was above mine, so he was complaing about how the instrument was stupid. but before that, the kid was like "is that your instrument" and im like "yeah" and he was like "i didnt know you played one" anyways then after the retard kid was complaining about it, my crush was like "shut up (retardkid'sname)! god.. and you shouldnt even be saying anything cause you play an instrument too!" and im like shocked cause he was sayin that hehe and then like he was kinda in my way, so he was like "sorry [my name]" and im like still processing this and go like "its okay.. thanks" and not give him eye contact which i should have done but..if i looked in his eyes maybe i would look too long or whatever and he'd know i like him if he already doesnt know. but seriously, hes always nice to me!! or that could just be his personality.. but like.. yeah... also hes pretty popular (well he plays bball, football and lacrosse too. im doing lacrosse in da spring and bball now too! XD not football tho.. erck.) which doesnt really matter, cuz i liked him at first cuz i thought he was cute which he is!
I can't really tell.
But you should talk to him more.
Like myspace? AIM? something.
Try to make plans with him and you'll probably find out that way.
Get to know him more, he would probably get the hint.
He seems really nice!
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