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my manipulating Boyfriend
I'm 17 and i have had the same boyfriend for 2 yrs. and dont get me wrong i love him with my whole life. but yesterday i went to pick him up at his dads(2 1/2) hours away. he had been gone fri.-sun. and when we got back to my house we were just sittin watchin tv and i knew he had a project to finish for school so he asked me later if he could use my computer and he said yes. but after he came back down i had already fallen asleep and he woke me up and said bye in a kinda pissed of tone than gave me a kiss. this morning he called and he noticed what time it was and shouted "Fuck" and hung up? so i didnt call him back. well at school i kind of avoided him and then after school i went to his house and he was fine and everything????? he gets pissed over little things. and i dont know what to do...i feel childish avoiding him but i've talked about it to him and (you know how guys are) it always turns out to be my fault some how, or he always comes back at me with some way i get mad at him. he can always manipulate me into thinkin it really was my fault but then i think about it and then i realize it really isnt. someone please help me i cant take it any more. and please dont suggest breaking up with him or talking to him it doesnt work...and if i can talk to him help me think of something to say to him to make him realize what hes doing.(this sort of thing happens all of the time)
thanx
Skittles
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Just ignore it. Avoiding it or forgetting about it probably the best thing to do.. until he realizes what he's doing.
When he gets angry and you don't want to deal with it, just go away and he should see that he's pushing you away.
Don't ever think it's your fault.
But you need to talk to him somehow... Maybe not in person, but a letter maybe?
Maybe he's not pissed off or anything, just stressed out and it's making him tired and grumpy. Maybe you should just try to talk to him again and ask him if you bother him? because it seems like you get mad at me blah blah stuff.
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