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More than friends?
Okay, first of all, I'm 16/f and bisexual.
Alright, my best friend, Ashley, told me a few weeks ago how she felt about me. She said that she'll look over at me during one of our classes and she thinks I look hot. I told her how I felt, and we talked for a little while more.
When we were finished, I walked to my car and she told me she loved me. I didn't say anything, but just got in the car.
Now I'm having sexual feelings towards her and I really want to ask her out. Like, yesterday, we were at the movies and I put my head on her shoulder and she held my hand. I kept on trying to think of ways to tell her I wanted to go out with her, but I couldn't think of how to tell her. (BTW she has a girlfriend, and I like her g/f too.)
Anyways, any advice for the confused one over here? Like any ways to tell her I wanna go further than just being friends?
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You should just ask her out or ask her if you could ever be more than friends.. she already told you how she felt about you, so you should talk to her about that. If she really loved you, she would break up with her girlfriend.
But, is there any reasons why she likes/loves you?
Because if it's all about appearance, then it could be a fling. :/
I don't think the whole polygamy thing would work. It brings unwanted drama. (Like she's not giving you enough attention or the whole "Ashley loves me more" thing.
So if you want to be with her and only her, I suggest backing off or something. Don't hold her hand or try to kiss her, or anything of that sort until she tells you what's going to happen (like breaking up with her g/f or whatever)
But I'll just talk to her. Tell her how you feel and find out for yourself. Like, maybe ask jokingly, Who does she love more? her girlfriend or you.
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Well, it's good you're bisexual, because then you can hang out with Ashley without asking her out. Invite her to a movie, or a sleepover. Watch a nice movie and constantly hold her hand and show nice, noticeable signs of affection.
And Ashley loves you, right? So what are really the chances of her rejecting you when you really ask her out? Not really likely. =) Admit your feelings about her because she did the same already.
Good luck!!
-Jenny C
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