Question Posted Saturday December 16 2006, 12:38 pm
okay this is going to be kinda long to jsut bear with me. Me and my best friend have been messing around with this boy i like for the longest time. We have stuck notes in his locker....and money. My friend made him a myspace and ws tlkaing to all of his frends and then he found out it was us. ALL OF IT. Then we decided to try to see if we could get close enought o get a pictures of him...well he kinda saw us with that one to. Now we have found out that he has a myspace but it is set to private so we made up this girl named brooke and invited him. I was only wanting to see his profile but my friend want to talk to him so that is exactly what she did. NOw we have his aim...his phone number and we know where he lives.THe only problem is he has told us bunch of personal stuff and his dad just died and he is really close to brooke. he is telling her that he love her. I've talked to him a little over the internet as brooke but now everytime i think about it i relize how worng it is and i want out of the whole situation but the only thing is that no matter what i do i'll still hear about what they talked about over the internet from my friend and that makes me interested in what he says but i know that IF he ever finds out it was really me and her it would kill him. I don't know what to do because even if i haven't done hardly anyhting my name is still in it and my freind would probably make sure that it is because she doesn't want it dumped all on her .....which it really isd ALL her. HELP!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? unluckychick answered Saturday December 16 2006, 6:00 pm: You've mentioned many time's in your story that you know it's wrong so you should stop, and not just because you like him. Besides, your just helping him to fall for someone who's not you. In reality it is you, which makes this situation on your side, but you MUST stop. You need to tell him that "Brooke" is not a real person, but that you are the person behind "Brooke".If he starts to blame you for leading him onto someone who and that's not real you can tell him that he said he loved "Brooke", but she is really YOU, which means that in reality he does like you. Also, you must not lie to him on this "Brooke" because other wise this whole appoligy plan goes to the dust. As long as you havn't told him anything that isn't about you then it's all good. But you need to make sure everyone stops with this "Brooke", EVERYONE! and you should probobly delete the myspace.
Good luck with all this. ♥
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gateway01 answered Saturday December 16 2006, 4:08 pm: This whole thing can go 2 ways depending on how both of your personalities are. The first way, if he is forgiving and you are brave, go to him and confront him, tell him how you feel about him and allow him to tell you how he feels. Or if you don't feel confident about telling him then do what queenhearts suggested, avoid the entire thing and get close to him personally. Hope I could help o^-^o [ gateway01's advice column | Ask gateway01 A Question ]
taylorbuggg answered Saturday December 16 2006, 3:37 pm: well me and my bff ashley l. happen to be doing the same thing....just alot of shit in our shit bowl right now...we are trying to get out of it...when we get out of it i will tell you how so you will know...lol. YOU BETTER RATE ME A 5 HOE! lol. luv yah! (i just found this question.) lol [ taylorbuggg's advice column | Ask taylorbuggg A Question ]
queenhearts answered Saturday December 16 2006, 2:07 pm: Okay that was kinda mean but I doubt he would love someone he hasn't even met.
So just stop it right now. Delete the myspace and stop messing around with him. He probably thinks you're like a stalker or something. So YOU get to know him, don't pretend to be someone else. It causes drama.
You just delete the myspace and everything, sooner or later he will forget this Brooke.
Don't talk about what you did and if your friend says stuff about him. Answer like you didn't know it happened or anything.
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