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this guy........
so i went out with this guy and we really like each other, but we got into a really stupid little fight and broke up, but it turns out we still love each other and he wants to get back together. these are the things:
- I wrote this boy a letter, and he says that he wants to be with me, but his best friend told me, that when he was with me, he was getting kind of friendly with this other girl. But, when I asked him, he said that yea, he did kind of like her when I was fighting with him, but that he doesn't think that he likes him, but that he loves me. now, i'm not stupid and sometimes I'm just thinking, that now she doesn't like him, so it's ok to get with me, you know? and then he says that he's been thinking about me these days and what he has been thinking about is whether or not he should give me a second chance and these were things that bothered him: because one time at a party, i had to cancel ten minutes before and it was because i fell and got really hurt, and because he doesn't my clothes
i think that's really stupid and now i'm debating about whether or not i should get back together with him, because i feel like i did all the work, and he's blaming me for being the bad guy, when he's the one that was cheating, which is worst than canceling ten minutes before and wearing clothes he doesn't like
however at the same time, i haven't stopped thinking about him
what should i do?????
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He doesn't seem worth it though. If he really loved you he wouldn't have tried to get with another girl or anything. I think it is because he couldn't get with her and now, he thinks he CAN get back with you because you're so "hopelessly in love with him" Guys are so blah. I don't think it's HIS decision about giving second chances. It's about YOURS. You didn't do anything wrong, he shouldn't tell you what to wear (and what not to wear) and you should both do work, not only you. I don't like how guys blame the girls, just because they don't want to admit they did something wrong.
You deserve better.
I can see that you may still like him but I don't think it's worth it. He cheated on you and now he wants to get back with you? Just.. no.
You wouldn't break up over little fights, you would talk about it and try to fix it. Compromise or something.
AND, I think if you try talking to him about that, he would blame you and get mad. That might ruin any chance with going out again. If he can't be calm about problems or anything, then i don't think you should try and get hurt.
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