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The names Sammy. I'm 16. 5'0" & 96 pounds. Homeschooled & in the 11th grade. Live in the beautiful state of North Carolina. I loove Hollister & Pac Sun, they are like the best stores ever invented. Smoothies are my anti-drug, haha.


I enjoy helping people- so ask whatever you feel like, no matter what it may be & I'll try my best to help you :)


By the way, I've learned not to take things in life for granted. Always remember that. ♥

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what does it mean if u dont have a period for more that a month or 2? u think its serius?

Well unless you're sexually active then you have nothing to worry about. It's normal to skip a few periods or to be irregular, it just happens for a lot of girls. Although, if you ARE sexually active.. you could be pregnant. ♥

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Does anyone know of any cute little DIY (Do It Yourself) gifts i could give to 14-15 year old girls? I'm already making them a customized CD and i thought i might make some chocolate covered pretzles...does anyone have anymore ideas? I've tried to google this but its difficult!

You could make some braclets or necklaces outta beads. Draw them a picture. Write a poem/letter. Make them a special card. :)

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I was talking to one of my guy friends and he said that the taste of a guy's cum depends on his diet. Is that true? Like, he said that if the guy ate fruits and stuff that it'll be sweeter.

Personally, I think that it's true. I've read a lot of places that it's true, too. But I guess it could really depend on the guy himself as well. Like it may effect some guys by the types of foods they eat, but then with others.. it may taste the same all the time no matter what. :)

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I am suppose to be getting Contacts I have brown eyes and brown hair and an upside egg shapped head (haha). So what color would look best? I wear black eye liner and black clothes ALOT! So...

Blue or Green eyes are both very pretty :) I think that they look good with brown hair too. Or you could just stick with your regular eye color.

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my lips are always CHAPPED and DRY and PEELY! I use vaseline, and I try everything, but it doesn't seem to work. Any tips to make them nice and soft?

First of all, don't lick your lips because that makes it worse. Try to buy some medicated chapstick, it normally works for me. :)

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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.

Yes, that's still considered rape. Anytime you are forced into having sex when you don't want too is considered rape no matter how long you've been dating the person or how many times you've had sex in the past.

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I gave my boyfriend a handjob, and i'm afraid I wasn't that good. He did ejaculate until after. Why is that? Does anyone have any good advice/ tricks on what feels good and will make then ejaculate while you are doing it? Thanks alot

Yeah, we aren't really suppose to answer these kind of questions on here in much detail. So all I'm going to say is that you need to ask him what he likes, don't be afraid to do that. You should be able to talk to the person you're being sexually active with. He will tell you what he likes best, etc & it'll help you a whole lot more. :)

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what does MU INK have to do with fall out boy?? i need to know!

Actually, I don't think they have anything to do with each other at all. I could be wrong though. I searched Google as well & I didn't find anything about them relating..

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i want to download a ringtone from mobilatory.com from my phone's web browser but i don't know how to enable wap. i am using a samsung A670 by the way. if anyone could please tell me how to enable wap, please help!

To enable WAP on my cell phone, I had to call the service whom I have my cell phone with. They had to give me stpe-by-step instructions and then they activated it from their office or whatnot. So maybe you should call the place where you have service at? :)

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ok so todayi got my purse stolen. I dont know who stole it but i kinda want to find out who. I was running to the locker room becasue i had to go to the bathroom so bad and i put my purse down next to my gym locker. No one was in the locker room besides me n two other people. When i got out of the bathroom their were tons of people in the locker room so i had no idea who could of taken it. I called my cell becasu eit was in my purse and my answering machine picked up on the second ring. I looked in the offcie but they didnt find it and they told me to go back in the morning. They asked the janotor bu he hasnt seen it. What can i do to get it back. I dont have money for another cell.

Usually, you can call the place where you got your cell phone & tell them it was stolen, then they'll turn the service off on it so the person cannot use it. And, if you have like a contract with them or insurance on your phone.. I think they are suppose to replace your phone for free if it was stolen. I'm not exactly sure, so the best thing to do would be call the place and see what they have to say. But keep looking, you MAY find your purse! :)

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Ummm...I at the moment have dark dark brown hair. My natural color is medium brown but then I dyed it dark red and decided I didn't like it. Then dyed it this dark brown that I currently have. The thing is I love change so I'm thinking about dying it black. Not very very black or blue black or anything like that but just a soft black maybe. I think the contrat would be awesome with my eye color. I have a very unique sea mist light blue with dark rims. Any comments or suggestions will be rated high.

I'm not really sure what your asking, lol. But I think that a soft black would look good :) I know a lot of girls that have naturally black hair and it's really pretty. What color are your eyes? I think black hair look good with blue eyes. Anyway, have fun with chaging your hair :)

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ok so like I started going out with this really ho t guy but I don't know how to start a conversation with him or talk to him! Does anybody know wut I can say to him?

Just talk about what happened that day, sports, movies you like, music you like, ask him questions to find out things about him. It'll come much easier the more you talk to him.. so don't stress over it. :)

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Cristmas is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get my gf so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas?

Get her something you know that she likes. Better yet, ask her what she wants for Christmas, that would help you out a lot. But CDs, movies, jewerly, lotion, and perfume are all good ideas that I'm sure she'd enjoy. :)

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who sings that song thats like .. get get get get over it , etc. and whats it called?? i DID try looking it up but all i got were movie titles and stuff

thanks

The name of the song is Get over it and it's by Ok Go. :)

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is it weird to ask your boyfriend whether you turn him on?? he's quite a good boy and we never discuss anything like that.. however, i'm really curious as to whether he finds me desirable at all. is this a weird thing to just ask out of the blue?

No, that's not weird at all. You can ask him anything you want- like what exactly about you turns him on, etc. I'm sure he's probably wondering the same things about you, haha. :)

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is 5'7 too tall for a 14 year old girl

No. Everyone varies in height.. no one is too tall or too short, in my opinion. :)
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Does anyone know how to put icons on your xanga ? I mean from other people xanga that you like .. copy and paste .. only not. Please help !

Okay, well right click on the icon that you like and when the menu comes up, go all the way down to Propeties, select that.. and then a box will pop up and on that you will see URL. Copy the link that is the URL and then go to your xanga to post an entry and when you get to the page where it has the white box where you type.. there will be an option at the top where the bold, italic, etc. is at and it'll say Pic- click on that. When the box pops up, select the option "Image from a remote site" then post the URL where it's suppose to go. Hope this helps!! ♥

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Is hair removal of any kind bad for you?

No, not really. I've heard that Nair can leave you with little red bumps that burn though. A lot of people have told me that- so I suggest that if you use a hair removal that you try something other than Nair. Although, it may not affect you like it has other people I know. Sally hassen is a pretty good hair removal brand, though. :) ♥

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ok im sry this is so long but i need this advice please read

ok so theres this guy that i went out with this summer and we broke up. i still really really like him and i talk to him still and were fwb(friends wiht benefits)and everything and he tells me how much he really really likes me and im all he thinks about and he says he wants to be wiht me but his sports, work, and school get in the way for him to have a girlfriend. and he doesnt want to hurt me again well the past week or so he hasnt really called and when i call him he is always hey can i call you back and he never does and ya i dont know if he still likes me or what but i dont know if i should wait for him or i should move on!!

please let me know soon i have wanted to know for awhile

Well, personally I think that he's just using you. Even though he says he likes you a whole bunch & he's always busy.. he COULD make an effort to see you or call you every now and then. It's like he just keeps telling you he likes you so he can get things from you. That's the bad part of being in a FWB relationship.. the girl always ends up getting hurt because the guy only wants things but the girl ends up liking the guy. I suggest that you just move on because he's not worth your time & I know that you can find a guy that wants you for something more than your body or sexual pleasure.. that would actually care for you. Those guys are out there somewhere :) BUT, on the other hand.. if THIS is really the kind of relationship you want with him, then you could wait around or him.. but just to warn you- you might end up getting hurt worse in the end. Good luck though hun! ♥

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What does 14820 mean?? if it means anything...

Yeah, it doesn't have a meaning. :) It could be a zip code or just some random number. ♥

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