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Image and video hosting by TinyPic" align=left hspace=10> hey my name is karen and i live in miami florida... im 17 and go to miami killian senior high.. anything you need help with ask me!! im great at answering questions about friends, cleaning, and relationships.

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does anyone have any good ideas on how to lose weight but wont cost anything. like sites or books maybe
thanks felicia

okay its gunna be really hard but a good way to lose weight is eating salad about everyday. you can mix it aroud though. eating corn, tuna, macaronie salad and stuff like that with it. (on the side.) get rid of bread, soda, pasta & choclate. exercise and youll have a really good start for a diet. good luck im trying it myself as of tommorow!

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ok i am not one of those girls who cares about there wieght but i was just wondering is 127 over wieght even if i am really really muscular and i am 5ft and 8in o and i am 13/f
i rate really high

thats nothing close to overweight.. im 5'3" and about the same weight as you. i might be overweight but your not!

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I don’t know what to do anymore, my life seems to be dying slowly even though I am alive. I don’t want to live anymore; I have imagines everyday of me jumping out my window. My life just seems all messed up. It may seem like nothing to you but all my problems put together are just killing me little by little. No one understands. Today I came from school all upset I couldn’t take it and told my grandmother I don’t want to live anymore. She got mad, called my mom and dad and was yelling at me telling me how lazy I am. She kept saying I’m just a lazy person that wont get anywhere in life without studying. She kept yelling and talking and now her and my mom got into a fight over this. My grandma tried to make this all seem like she’s the victim and I’m taking advantage of her. She kept saying with a grandchild like me the one who cries for every little reason she should just take an overdoes and die. Why on earth would she say all these things when she knows how I feel about life! I go to her are you crazy you bitch, don’t you understand why I want to kill myself you are one of the main reasons. I don’t have a main reason its juts that I’m very unlucky, I have really low self cofidecne, some people tend to make fun of my face, since I have acne and put a lot of cover up on. Which hurts the most because I had acne for about five years and I tried everything, I went everywhere, took her pill possible, and nothing works. It’s like a long rode that never ends no matter how hard you try. You keep running and running until you think you got to the end but it just keeps on going. That’s how my life feels. Now we got new teachers and new students in our classrooms. I hate most of my classes, and most of all I hate my math teacher. Now I’m really bad at math I mean really bad I don’t even know what 7 times 8 is unless I think about it for half an hour. Yeah sad I know. Hes really mean and trys to bring people who are not as smart as him down. I tired getting out of his class but my counselor is such a bitch! She told me to come early to school today so she could change my singing class since they put me in the wrong one. They put me back to the one I already took, so I would be learning everything all over and I passed her class with a 90. I come back at the end of the horrible day I had and she tells me the teacher said its okie and I can stay in that class. I was like butt … she stooped me and said theres nothing I can do. I was like but wait im learning everything over again I don’t understand. She goes yeah I know but then we would have to change your whole program I was like sooo you do it for everybody else. I know shes just a fucken lazy bitch that needs to get fired, Counselor my ass. I don’t know what to do! I hate schhol and wanna quite im only 16 but I don’t see school in my future. My grandma makes me feel like shit about this but I don’t know what to do!!! Please help and don’t say talk to her because that wont work ill just end up killing myself faster. I don’t know what to do with my life. Please answer if you ever felt like this about school and juts ur whole life and tell me what you

i kind of know what your feeling but its never gone to the extent that its gone to with you. i really dont know what to say but stick it out and try to be strong. prove your grandmother wrong. i bet anything your not lazy.. put your mind to making everything better.. one thing at a time.. i hope i helped even if it was just a little.

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I'm 13 and in 8th grade, and I still haven't had a boyfriend yet. I'm not HORRIBLY ugly, I actually think I'm pretty. But NO guys approach me at all. I've been told it's because I'm shy. And I am shy, but...I'm not sure if it's something else. Do you think that the fact I didn't have a boyfriend in middle school will make guys turn me down in high school? I don't want to be single forever.

no the fact that you didnt have a boyfriend in middle school will definatly not keep you from having a boyfriend in high school. and if your shy no guy can really get to know you and if a guy doesnt know you then why think about going out with you? try going to school tommorow and talking to a guy or even a girl you havent talked to much or ever before. you could also try being more open with your best friends and the more open you are with them the more likely youll be more open with other people. hope i helped.

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what age should you start shaving 'down their'?

whatever age you feel your comfortable doing it. i started when i realized that there was way too much hair down there and it most likely wasnt normal.. so really its your decision.

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Hey, i'm a girl. I weigh about 105 pounds and my height is 5 feet. I am very active and do sit ups and leg lifts every night. im trying to lose 5 pounds. what foods should i eat and stay away from?

soda, choclate, bread & pasta are pretty much the basic things you should stay away from. if you like salad maybe eating that more often instead of one of the more unhealthy things you might eat would help.

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i really like this boy but i dont know if he likes me my friend told me that he said he liked me but how do i know if its true and also i am very shy and they said at our next basket ball game he was going to talk to me what should i do?

wait till the next basketball game.. your one of the lucky ones.. alot of people have to come up to the guy and let them get to know them for a long time and later still not know for sure if they like them or not. if he doesnt tell you he likes you at the basketball game and it just happens to be something else. im him or something. do something where your not face to face with the guy. its less nerve wrecking that way. he might come up to you the next day to maybe talk about it or something but it is better to get the hardest part out first.. step by step is the best way to take things sometimes.

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ok heres the thing, proms is in 3 months and i need to lose like 15 or 20 pounds. I need advice on a way i can lose that weight in 3 months. i wanna find a cute dress thats looks good with out the gut and love handles showing through. please help!

--> ashley

ha! its easy if you want it enough.. no bread, soda, choclate or pasta.. if you like salad eat that instead of what you normally eat as much as you can. if your going to eat normal food minimize how much you eat.. run at least 15 minutes everyday that you can.. or even just jump rope 30 times.. to start.. start off small and then start doing more. jumping jacks are really good too.. if this didnt help at all there are alot of articles online on exercises you could do too to lose weight. i hope i helped though.. i went by what ive always heard is good.. im trying to lose weight myself too.. only because i dont want to lessen myself by gaining weight when i am one of those people that can control it. good luck :)

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15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks

he wants to talk to you, get to know you. i know the language people use today! lol im skr8 wit it tho! lmao

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im a 13 yr old black female in okc and my bf is 16 and my daddy found out everything about what me and him been doin he said if i end up pregnant he is throwing him in jail for statutory rape. im scared about that can that really happen i thought you have to be at least 18 yrs old for all that to happen please anyone look this up for the state of oklahoma

ok well i dk this might make you feel better letting you kno that thats what i heard that you have to be a least 18.

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My friend weighs like 70lbs and she can't gain weight and she just turned 12!!! Is this normal? ( oh yea and she eats like a PIG)

if shes telling u it impossible for her to gain weight that isnt normal but there are some people that can eat like a pig and not really get fat especially at that age.. you start to look like the food you eat when you get older.

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ok well here is the thing. I have a xanga and everyone always leaves me coments saying that im so hott and all this stuff. i dont no any of these people at all but i love the comments. when it comes to school and stuff not one boy would ever look at me. I look the same in real like as i do in these pictures and all these boys what me there but i havent had one boy since ive been in hs. im a sophmore now and i really what the boys to notice me. i dont have to many guy friends and i dont want to just go up and talk to these guys i want them to come up to me. what do i do?

i think its because on your xanga they see you. just you and they dont see all the other girls in your school around to compare you with them. not saying that your ugly or anything compared to them but im just saying when people see other girls it kind of makes them lose interest in the ones they were interested in. i dont know if you understand what im trying to say but i hope you do leave a comment if you dont. sorry if it was a little confusing.

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I wasnt exactly sure which category to put this under, but here goes...

Shaving is a BITCH! yes, yes it is. My question is:

Has anyone tried those bladeless shaving kits? do they really work? Does it last longer than shaving? does it remove ingrown hairs too, or should i just go for the wax?

yeah i know, kinda stupid, but im sick of shaving and at least dont want to walk around band camp with a bunch of nix and cuts.

thanks!

my best friend used the bladeless shaving kit and she says no it doesnt last longer than shaving. just be more careful.

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ok so my friend sabrina is coming to sleepover either 2morrow or the next day. (she lives a few towns away from me) when she comes over sometimes i cant think of anything to do. we're both preteens so i need some ideas of what to do! please can u guys tell some fun games, or what should we talk about? keep in mind we cant go driving all over the state to do stuff, but we might be going to the mall, and pool, but mostly staying home. also keep in mind we arent babies so dont say like hide n seek or truth or dare. thanks and i rate high for any helpful answer!

you could take pictures, watch a movie, play on the computer, talk to people on the computer, talk on the phone with another one of your friends.

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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high.

awww thats so cute... keep letting her know that your not gunna hurt her or treat her like dirt like all the other guy. sooner or later she will realize that you wont. you seem like an awesome guy!

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Ok..alot of the time when I call my friend she is "busy". It seems like she only hangs out with me when she wants to..What is her deal? And recently she got mad at me for the stupidest thing ever!! What is going on??
Thanks..

i dont think you wanna hear this but i think you should tell her how you feel. i always think thats thee best thing to do when your in an arguement with one of your friends.

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theres a pool party coming up in about 2 weeks i was wondering if there were any cellulite removing excersizes or creams that would work quickly! or atleast minimize it, I only have a LITTLE under my butt, im not fat or anything, its just embarrassing!! please help me!

there is but it takes like 8 weeks to work.. i dont even know what its called but hope that info helped. also dont drink soda or eat choclate for those 2 weeks or more because choclate and soda give you cellulite.

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What is cum?
I'll rate high!

cum is the white stuff that comes out of your dick or cooch

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does anyone know of any websites that you can find really cute qoutes about love and friendship? thanks

lovingyou.com is a good site for love quotes
firehotquotes.com is good for both
also try searching for love and friendship quotes on msn or google or something

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Tomorrow I am going to a late audition for Cinderella. It's a musical. I have no fear of being onstage at all. The only thing that is scaring me is that I'm sick. My throat has crap all down that back of it so I have to constantly clear my throat. It was generous of Mrs.Jane to let me have a second chance to audition but my voice is far from it's best. I have been told that I can sing well, but I'm worried I will sound really bad tomorrow. Does anybody know of any way/remedy for my throat/voice? I know it's kind of stupid to ask, but I really want a part. Should I just tell Mrs.Jane that I'm sick or what? Any help or suggestions would be appreciated!

garggle with warm salt water

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