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So I'm totally in love with this person and that person loves me too... and I want to put together a CD of music sort of saying how i've fallen for them. Any ideas on songs for the playlist?

On the way down - Ryan Cabrera
True - Ryan Cabrera
Candy - Mandy Moore
She will be loved - Maroon5
Pieces of me - Ashlee Simpson
The Boy next door - Triple Image
Symptoms of you - Lindsay Lohan
Never say Goodbye - JoJo
My Boo - Usher featuring Alecia Keys
Lovers and Friends - Usher featuring Lil Jon and Ludacris
If I aint got you - Alecia Keys

I have a million more so if you need any more feel free to ask me ;] I'm a music freak, so I'm pretty good at this stuff.

xOo Nikki xO

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what is a birthday suit?

That means yer naked, Lol.

xOo Nikki xO

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I really like this guy...he knows now and i hate it! I like him a lot though! What do i do???

Ok, theres no need to freak out. I mean, first think to yourself. Did he freak out when he found out? Did he care that you liked him? Was he really shy about it or say it was cool? I say you get his phone number or email address or IM and ask him if hes cool with it. I mean, who knows, he might have a crush on you, too! You shouldnt hate it. Its not the end of the world. If you need anything, I'm here ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me?

It could be that or maybe he just wants to keep it a secret. I mean, some guys just dont like their friends and other people getting involved with your relationship, which is fine, but sometimes can be a pain in the butt. But if he IS embarassed to be seen with you then I say to DUMP the guy no matter how cute he is. I mean, your perfect guy wont ever be embarassed to be seen with you. Just ask him and tell him to answer you honestly. Nobody deserves a BF that's embarassed to be seen with you. Its just WRONG. If you need anything, you know where to ask me ;]

xOo Nikki xO

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Hi guys,
Me and my husband have just moved into a new house...well, I say new, but it's actually ANCIENT. So ancient that we have no heating whatsoever!! The place was so expensive though that we can't afford to install heating for at least another year. The windows and doorways are all draughty too. So, my question is, as it is so cold at the moment, any tips of keeping warm other than the obvious 'put on another jumper'?

First of all, I gotta say I feel sorry for you. I hate the cold! Anyway, put on some blankets and sometimes they sell portable heaters that you can just plug into an outlet. Trust me, I have one, and they are very helpful. They're about 30 to 45 dollars. Not that bad. I hope I helped!

xOo Nikki xO

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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee...

That is so cute! If you ask me, its more than okey, its Fabuloso! Its Fabolicious! Its Awesomefull! Lol, go for it! You have a very unique sense of style.

xOo Nikki xO

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Ok, this summer my best friend and I had a fight and it ended out friendship. (it was a bitter ending, we havent spoken to eachother since) Anyways, everyday at school, she doesnt talk to me and her friend told me that she hated me. The thing is, I dont hate her back, and I wish she wouldnt hate me. I want her to know that I still care about her even though we aren't friends, and I want to see how she is doing. So I found her livejournal link and do you think i should leave a comment? What should I say?

Ok, if you really wanna tell her this, then this is what you write:

Hey this is ((put your name here)). I just wanted to say that I'm sorry about the fight over the summer. I know that your probably dont want to talk to me, but I feel really bad. Weve been best friends forever and it just ended. Im not asking that we be best friends again. All I want is for you and I to be cool with eachother and...you know...be able to say "hi" to eachother every once in a while. I hope that you read this and I hope that you can forgive me.

Ok, so you dont have to put those EXACT words but just make it for that effect. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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Hey, I know your subjects aren't computers, but I'm sure you'll know the answer, I'm really sorry to bug you, but I noticed on your page you have background music and stuff, I went to the website where you got it, and I know the music I want, I know how to copy it, but where exactly do I paste it on advicenators, like on column settings, profile settings? I'd really appreciate it if you'd get back to me on it and help me, thank you.

You go to profile settings. Column settings is for the background and stuff lyke that. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

1- should i tell her
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh

This is a tough one, but I think I can answer your question. First of all, I dont think that you should keep it to yourself because it would be uber hard, am I right? Course I am (lol, juss messin wif yuh). Anyway, I think you should just tell them honestly. I mean, if she really IS your BFF, then she'll understand and accept that. I mean, you cant control it if you like someone, right? Its just one of those "true friends" test that fate gives you. Just tell him and maybe he likes you too ;] I hope I helped. If you need anything, just ask.

xOo Nikki xO

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What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance.

Man, I have like a million things to say about that so juss sit back and listen to me! Lol, anyway. You can grab a friend and go to the movies, the mall, play basketball/soccer (any sport), watch a DVD at her house while eating popcorn smothered in chocolate, Plan on tepeeing your neighbor's house, do the YMCA in front of cars, dance in the street with your radio bumpin, prank call people, order pizza and eat it (lmao), Ride your bikes, make a movie, listen to music and make dance moves to it, Go on the internet and take turns giving ADVICE (lol), Have a water balloon fight, go to the pool, go roller blading, go bowling, Watch those stupid shows like Oprah and Dr Phil and laugh at them, make up a new sport....thats about it, lol. I hope I helped!!

xOo Nikki xO

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what should i say during an akward or scilent moment

There are two conditions for this. If its on the internet, like you guys just suddenly stop talking, just say something weird like "monkeybutt" or tell him/her something funny. trust me it'll break the silence!! On the other hand, if it's in real life the solution is very obvious. Just FART! Lol, it'll make ur friends crack up and the silence will be BROKEN. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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what can i do to destroy someones life completely ?? i freakin hate this girl . she's turning everyone against me and calling me a bitch , a slut and a poser . she sucks up to everyone ! at first not many people liked her , but now she sucked up to everyone and told them that i hated them . so nobody talks to me except like 2 people .

Well, she's a bitch! Anyway, first get her boyfriend (if she has a boyfriend) and make him be your boyfriend, making her jealous. Then egg and.or tepee her house. Then when shes not looking, cut alla her hair off with just a couple snips. And to top it off, kill her with kindness. Trust me, this works in my dreams, if it works in my deams it'll work in real life. If you need anymore ideas, Watch the movie Mean Girls, they have some hilarious stuff!!

xOo Nikki xO

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You see my best friend has this boy bofreind right. And to me she is spending way more time with him then me. Thats the only person she talks about to. I have been her best friend since the 4th grade he just been her bf for a couple of months. What should I do?

Its tough when friendships grow apart because of a relationship, isnt it? anyway, I think I can help you. Just go up to your friend when shes alone or on the phone or internet, and just tell her, "Hey why are you spending time with him more than me???" I mean, for MY rules, my gurlies always come before muh man. Your friend shouldnt be ignoring you. Anyway, I hope I helped some. If you need anymore advice, feel free to ask me.

xOo Nikki xO

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im trying to brake up with my boyfriend things just are differnt between us and i really have no clue is on how to do it i cant just go up to him i have tryed it and i frezz so yea if any one can give me answers it would be helpfull
by the way im 15/f

Ok, this kind of thing works out for different people. If you're one of those stuck up preps, just go up to him and go, "Its Over!" and make like some dramatic scene from it. Or if you're too shy for your own good like I am, then tell a friend to tell him or call him or IM him or email him and tell him. Or if u juss wanna be honest, go up to him and just tell him, "Hey, this isnt really gonna work out. Were too different. I'm sorry, but I'm just going to have to break up with you." If hes that good of a boyfriend, soon to be "ex boyfriend", then he'll understand.

xOo Nikki xO

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okayy well i was going out with this kid for 2 months and 3 weeks and then one day he dumps me because he said hes friends think hes whipped and he sed he kind of was too ..he says he still likes me but he really never talks to me and yesterday he hugged another girl ..do you think he still likes me ?..should i keep trying to get him back ?..i dont wanna chase after him ..

This kinda happened to me and my last b/f. Anyway, dont chase after him. Just because he says that he still likes you doesnt me that he REALLY still likes you. Boys are full of lies. Anyway, just move on with your life and be happy that it happened. I know it might take a while, but you'll get used to it. Trust me, I know exactly how it feels.

xOo Nikki xO

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is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea?

Uh....DUH.

xOo Nikki xO

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hey does anyone know any good websites were you can make your own quizzes? thanks!

Umm...Yeah, there's just one that I know of. I wish I had more, but unfortunately, I dont. Anyway, heres the site:

http://www.quizilla.com

Er...bye.

xOo Nikki xO

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hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff


help meeeee

Why dont you wanna tell your mom? I mean, you CANT tell your dad. its not neutral. Anyway, I think telling your mom is the only way. By the way, if you wanna get the pad and tampon crap, look in the bathroom in the cabinets and stuff, your mom should keep them somewhere. I mean, I've never heard of a mom who keeps them in their kitchen...o.O

xOo Nikki xO

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Why do guys care so much if a girl has big boobs and butts? they don't even care about if your pretty or about your personality?

most guys are SO immature and stupid (keyword: MOST). Lol, anyway, they just care about it so they can brag about it and stuff. its real dumb, so dont get too into that stuff. Get used to meeting guys that are down-to-earth, sweet, and like you for who you are. I hope I helped.

xOo Nikki xO

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theres a stupid dude I hate a lot, but he LOVES me. he follws me everywhere at school and wont shut up. how can i tell him to back off? i dont even like him as a friend. agghh

This is just like my friend. Anyway, if you dont like him as a friend at all, just go up to him and tell him off!! juss go "You retard, get away from me! I dont like you so leave me alone!!!!!" That usually works for a temporary amount of time. If you have any other problems, feel free to tell me about it.

xOo Nikki xO

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