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im trying to brake up with my boyfriend things just are differnt between us and i really have no clue is on how to do it i cant just go up to him i have tryed it and i frezz so yea if any one can give me answers it would be helpfull
by the way im 15/f
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Ok, this kind of thing works out for different people. If you're one of those stuck up preps, just go up to him and go, "Its Over!" and make like some dramatic scene from it. Or if you're too shy for your own good like I am, then tell a friend to tell him or call him or IM him or email him and tell him. Or if u juss wanna be honest, go up to him and just tell him, "Hey, this isnt really gonna work out. Were too different. I'm sorry, but I'm just going to have to break up with you." If hes that good of a boyfriend, soon to be "ex boyfriend", then he'll understand.
xOo Nikki xO
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It's always better to break up with somebody in person. Arrange to see him, just the two of you and go somewhere that's neutral (not one of your houses) where you won't be disturbed. Then you just have to sit him down and, as nicely as you can, tell him you don't think the relationship is working and it would be better if you broke up. It's difficult, but in the end, you just have to come out and say it. Arrange to meet up and promise yourself that this time, you really will break up with him, and then just do it.
Don't let it drag out. Be gentle and as quick as possible. Of course, you don't want to say "I think we should see other people!" and bolt immediately, but you don't want to hang around for too long either because if he's upset you can't really help him out. Just say you think you should break up, give him a short hug and say you think you should leave, and if you think you should stay friends then tell him that you'd like that too. Good luck.
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well theres plenty of things you could do. one is you could write him a letter explaning about how you feel and everything and maybe even ask him what hes feeling. tell him about things being different and maybe you could work some things out. if you dont feel comfy writing a leter try a email call him or even get one of your friends to do it for you. just get everything out because it will really help you.if you need anymore help just let me know
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well eather call him or tell him online and tell him why and everything.. x0
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Call him, explain to him your reason and say we just need a brake.
♥ Michelle
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